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why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply.
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quit bothering them
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ummm, welcom
I'm not sure it's laziness but lack of interest - it's a risk you run when trying to find love on the internet. If you don't get a response, move on. Good luck! |
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What makes you think anyone is obligated to answer you? Life is tough. Deal with it.
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Why bother to reply to someone you dont want to talk to? People have better things to do with their time.
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Leave them aloine since they obviously don't want to be bothered ...
I didn't get an email yet |
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Welcome
Tammy |
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how does someone say not interested in a polite fashion?
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i know the feeling. i try to be nice to everyone. some people are just rude. if they don't reply i don't bother.
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how does someone say not interested in a polite fashion? **** off? |
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If they don't respond,Just move on.
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Edited by
RareEntity
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Thu 08/13/09 01:28 PM
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what he say?
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quit bothering them The problem is: Nowhere does it say that you are entitled to a reply. Sure it would be nice...but that's not always realistic. But all is not lost cuz you've taken the first step by joining the Forums. "Cold-calling" is iffy at best...but in here you can get to know people & we can get to know you... So turn that frown upside down, post often & have a blast! |
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hard to make friends when they are rude. so move on to something better.
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why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply. Better than them walking away when you ask them out in person... Just because you send mail, does not mean it will be answered. No one is required to mail you back, and if they are not interested they won't...I'm yet to understand this stance on it, if you e-mail someone who is not interested in you...what kind of response do you expect back? |
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I can tell you that I absolutely don't reply to someone I have no interest in. I'll look at their profile and make my determination. I don't feel obligated to reply to someone just because they sent me an email...that's just a waste of my time. If you choose to send and email to someone you should be prepared to not recieve a response...pure and simple.
Also, may I suggest that you proofread what you write. There are a lot of people on here that are sticklers for spelling and grammer. |
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whatever .no more comments.not worth it.
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why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply. Better than them walking away when you ask them out in person... Just because you send mail, does not mean it will be answered. No one is required to mail you back, and if they are not interested they won't...I'm yet to understand this stance on it, if you e-mail someone who is not interested in you...what kind of response do you expect back? Well, first of all they can't comprehend that someone wouldn't be interested in them, since they're such a nice guy with a full heart and a lot of love to give- I'm paraphrasing what I've read from stupid profiles. And then they claim they wouldn't mind a "not interested" email, which is total bs, because if you respond to them in any way, they feel a need to write back, usually to insult you or demand WHY you're not interested. That's why I just ignore or even better, block. |
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how does someone say not interested in a polite fashion? **** off? |
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why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply. Better than them walking away when you ask them out in person... Just because you send mail, does not mean it will be answered. No one is required to mail you back, and if they are not interested they won't...I'm yet to understand this stance on it, if you e-mail someone who is not interested in you...what kind of response do you expect back? Well, first of all they can't comprehend that someone wouldn't be interested in them, since they're such a nice guy with a full heart and a lot of love to give- I'm paraphrasing what I've read from stupid profiles. And then they claim they wouldn't mind a "not interested" email, which is total bs, because if you respond to them in any way, they feel a need to write back, usually to insult you or demand WHY you're not interested. That's why I just ignore or even better, block. Oh, oh...what about the one that can "convince" you? Those are fun. |
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