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Hummm do ya actually think that maybe he is new and has not figured out the forums and how to respond back within the post? Or could be due that so many jumped down his back so fast that he felt it best to stay away
 does make me wonder....
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Edited by
AGoodGuy1026
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Thu 08/13/09 03:45 PM
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why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply. actually, dude - it's more polite if they do not reply. If you were to send someone an e-mail, and they replied "sorry, but no" -- you would sit there for a few, then you would realize -- it takes good character, empathy, and quality to send a reply just to say no. Then you would start to think "gee, that's the kind of person I am looking for"... then you would think "gee, what's wrong with me that a quality person like that would not be interested in me"... then perhaps "gee I would have really, really preferred they were interested in me"... take it for what it is man, a rejection... deal with it LOL!! |
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Hummm do ya actually think that maybe he is new and has not figured out the forums and how to respond back within the post? Or could be due that so many jumped down his back so fast that he felt it best to stay away does make me wonder....
no, I did not. I was new, and I don't do that. I think it's a control issue/immaturity... ect... "I didn't get exactly what i want, the way I expect it, in the timeframe that I expected it"... 
he's a grown man, not a kid... |
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Personally I feel no reply is a reply. I take it as they are not interested and I forget about them.
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Hummm do ya actually think that maybe he is new and has not figured out the forums and how to respond back within the post? Or could be due that so many jumped down his back so fast that he felt it best to stay away does make me wonder....
no, I did not. I was new, and I don't do that. I think it's a control issue/immaturity... ect... "I didn't get exactly what i want, the way I expect it, in the timeframe that I expected it"...
he's a grown man, not a kid... Opps sorry I should have quoted the ones I was referring to with my post...  it was to the ones just before mine...
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I get enough email to keep me busy...I try to be nice to all I do answer even if it to say I am not interested and encourage them to get into the forums.
Like many of us I work and have to do all the life stuff, shopping, cleaning, mowing, etc. I simply can't answer every email (not to mention time for email from my friends and family - not on here, at my email address that they have) There are certainly emails that I get that I don't respond to, Don't take it so personally, just keep trying with new people AND stay on the forums - this is where you can become known and make friends. Friends count!!! Good luck in your search! 
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99.9% of all noobs make one or two posts and never return |
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ok so we have established everyone is getting mail but me
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ok so we have established everyone is getting mail but me
Thats your fault!  
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ok so we have established everyone is getting mail but me
Thats your fault!
oooo Betty 
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ok so we have established everyone is getting mail but me
i mail you every single day and use the love emoticons and everything, but you just ignore me! why?????
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ok so we have established everyone is getting mail but me
i mail you every single day and use the love emoticons and everything, but you just ignore me! why?????
oh u big liar u
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ok so we have established everyone is getting mail but me
i mail you every single day and use the love emoticons and everything, but you just ignore me! why?????
oh u big liar u
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Ha ha ha! 5 pages and the op never replied back once. Aint it terrible when someone posts a reply and doesn't get a reply back? Ha ha ha!
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Edited by
Moblodite
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Fri 08/14/09 01:08 AM
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why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply. If they don't reply... It is very clear that they are not interested.
If you decide to "waste your time" after that, it is your choice. But if you expect all that you email to reply... YOU ARE EXPECTING WAY TOO MUCH!! In the real world.. do all women you speak to want to get into a discussion? Maybe it would help you get replies if you think more about how you approach them, the content of the first/second email. May not be that,, but try different starters. |
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why is, it some people on this site are so lazy. i have written loads of e, mail,s, to people, but some, of them dont like to reply. all it takes is a bit of time to respond, to a e, mail. if people aint intrested, why cant they just say so. it will save, me time and effort, and save me wasteing my time in trying to get back in touch with them again. only to have them turn, there computers off, couse they cant be botherd to reply. 
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