UGH! I forgot about THAT!

He has no right getting into your bed even when your sister is there, I say this because you seem worried about this or you would not have mentioned it.......... Right?

Maybe you should set some boundaries with this guy.Some rules

Why was nothing done about this guy doing these things?

no he didn't. but it's not uncommon to find his stuff in the house, because he's pretty much always here.

This guy is being a little TOO friendly Jasmine

and another thing Jasmine STOP making excuses for him - u know alarm bells are ringing in ur own head.

My advise....

Throw an over the top, absolutely ballistic s**t fit....make it loud...make it embarrassing...make it known that you are considering getting the cops involved....

if it was innocent: the dude will freak out that he was a total dumb-@ss. and you will get an apology.

if it wasn't innocent: the idiot will know that he was cold @ssed busted! (though he will go to your sister with the "I don't know why she is freaking out" and try to turn it around on you)

But, being quiet will change nothing.

That may be so, but your room should be out of bounds to him. He is dating your sister he is not dating you!

unless you want us to look at the footage for you i wouldnt be here asking what to do. i`d be talking to the cops. there is no excuse for that camera to be there unless you put it there

ok. new development.

i just asked him why his camera was in my room and he explained after making me promise not to laugh...

i told him i'm not really in a laughing mood.

he said because he thinks i'm cute

i asked if he thought that was the right thing to do to try to record me without my knowledge. i asked him if he knew that is illegal. and then i ordered him out of my room.

he apologized and said he didn't really think it through.

i'm definitely telling my sisters.

Without the camera you are going to have a hard time convinceing your sister her boyfriend is a louse. I would at least tell her so she has a heads up.

Good likelyhood this creep is recording her without her permission. Which is a crime. Or recording you with a less obvious camera stashed elsewhere. They can be very tiny.

I would call the police non-emergency number and discuss what has happened. Good chance this is not the first time this guy has been a peeping tom. Or that video voyurism is his only crime. I would be concerned about identity theft or possibly sexual assault. I woudn't let this guy within 100 yards of me.

I'd call the cops if he admitted it.

ok it's official CREEP. how many times has the camera been there BEFORE u noticed it???

I concur.

KICK HIM OUT OF YOUR HOUSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No reason your sister can't "date" him at his own home!!!!!

If that was me...I would wrap a belt around his neck and throw him face first into a cactus! That b@st@ard KNEW what he was doing!

If you allow him to stay...you know damned well you can expect him to try it again.

He said he thinks you are cute and thats why he was trying to record you? WEIRD

Even if you dont call the cops (this time),you definately need to set some rules for how this guy acts around you. He should not be allowed in your bedroom anymore. And you need to search and check for other recording devices in your room and other sensative areas of your home

He is absolutely right - you are beautiful... but his admitting placing camera there to tape you is enough for me. He's not all there nor does he care about his relationship w/your sister.

I'd pitch a B!TCH and throw his trifling A$$ out. He'd not be allowed in apartment.