Topic: hidden camera...
BonnyMiss's photo
Fri 08/07/09 11:09 AM
Ding dong!! Now that he's told you this, do you trust this ne'er do well? How long has he been doing this I wonder? Seems he has the run of the house. Get a lock on your door, if he knocks on your door DO NOT LET HIM IN !! Always lock your bedroom door when you go out./b]

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 08/07/09 11:12 AM
Jas. This guy is just a flat out Nightcrawler.

Putting a camera in your room without your permission because he thinks you are " cute "???

Way, way, WAYYYYYYYYY out of bounds as far as acceptable behavior.

As a matter of fact, it's CRIMINAL behavior.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/07/09 11:46 AM
:smile: Keep us informed as to what your sisters reaction is to this happening:smile:

misstina2's photo
Fri 08/07/09 12:03 PM
flowerforyou thats unacceptable to meflowerforyou tell your sister asapflowerforyou

cottonelle's photo
Fri 08/07/09 12:10 PM
ok, here is what you do. check your computers history and see if he went to any sites then post back and tell us what sites he went to. then all us guys will go and check the sites to see if there is video footage of you in your bedbigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/07/09 12:12 PM

ok, here is what you do. check your computers history and see if he went to any sites then post back and tell us what sites he went to. then all us guys will go and check the sites to see if there is video footage of you in your bedbigsmile
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silly's photo
Fri 08/07/09 12:17 PM

ok, here is what you do. check your computers history and see if he went to any sites then post back and tell us what sites he went to. then all us guys will go and check the sites to see if there is video footage of you in your bedbigsmile


good idea,don't trust him in any way.

JasmineInglewood's photo
Fri 08/07/09 12:57 PM

:smile: Keep us informed as to what your sisters reaction is to this happening:smile:


i called up my oldest sister at work and told her about it. she was as pissed off as i am.

she demanded i go immediately and check the camera which i did and there's nothing on it relating to me or my room. (mayhaps i caught it before he had the chance to record anything or perhaps he deleted it after i gave it back... i don't know).

i closed the door to the bedrooms and he's outside in the kitchen waiting for my other sister (his girlfriend) to arrive home. he called me on the phone from outside telling me he bought icecream... like that's supposed to make it better huh

i know now that on discovery of the camera, i was being less than intelligent about this situation embarassed . i guess he's always been around (over 5 years) and an inordinately "nice" guy and i didn't think he was capable of being so perverse... lesson learned. there will be changes put in place from now on... i hope.

BonnyMiss's photo
Fri 08/07/09 01:00 PM


:smile: Keep us informed as to what your sisters reaction is to this happening:smile:


i called up my oldest sister at work and told her about it. she was as pissed off as i am.

she demanded i go immediately and check the camera which i did and there's nothing on it relating to me or my room. (mayhaps i caught it before he had the chance to record anything or perhaps he deleted it after i gave it back... i don't know).

i closed the door to the bedrooms and he's outside in the kitchen waiting for my other sister (his girlfriend) to arrive home. he called me on the phone from outside telling me he bought icecream... like that's supposed to make it better huh

i know now that on discovery of the camera, i was being less than intelligent about this situation embarassed . i guess he's always been around (over 5 years) and an inordinately "nice" guy and i didn't think he was capable of being so perverse... lesson learned. there will be changes put in place from now on... i hope.


I hope you get this sorted and you will be safe. Without sounding as though I am scare mongering; most women get raped or sexually violated by someone they know or someone known to the family.

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Fri 08/07/09 01:03 PM
I would make him leave, at least until sis got there.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/07/09 01:03 PM


:smile: Keep us informed as to what your sisters reaction is to this happening:smile:


i called up my oldest sister at work and told her about it. she was as pissed off as i am.

she demanded i go immediately and check the camera which i did and there's nothing on it relating to me or my room. (mayhaps i caught it before he had the chance to record anything or perhaps he deleted it after i gave it back... i don't know).

i closed the door to the bedrooms and he's outside in the kitchen waiting for my other sister (his girlfriend) to arrive home. he called me on the phone from outside telling me he bought icecream... like that's supposed to make it better huh

i know now that on discovery of the camera, i was being less than intelligent about this situation embarassed . i guess he's always been around (over 5 years) and an inordinately "nice" guy and i didn't think he was capable of being so perverse... lesson learned. there will be changes put in place from now on... i hope.




:smile: Well maybe he didnt have bad intentions, but what he did with the camera definately crosses some lines.:smile:There definately needs to be some boundaries established for this guy.:smile:At the very least, he has been very impolite in his actions toward you.:smile:This should be a wake up call for you and your familyflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/07/09 01:05 PM
:smile: Other than some kind of weird joke, I can't imagine a legitiment reason why this guy would have a concealed camera in your room.:smile: Definately a cause for concern:smile:

JasmineInglewood's photo
Fri 08/07/09 01:06 PM
Edited by JasmineInglewood on Fri 08/07/09 01:06 PM



:smile: Keep us informed as to what your sisters reaction is to this happening:smile:


i called up my oldest sister at work and told her about it. she was as pissed off as i am.

she demanded i go immediately and check the camera which i did and there's nothing on it relating to me or my room. (mayhaps i caught it before he had the chance to record anything or perhaps he deleted it after i gave it back... i don't know).

i closed the door to the bedrooms and he's outside in the kitchen waiting for my other sister (his girlfriend) to arrive home. he called me on the phone from outside telling me he bought icecream... like that's supposed to make it better huh

i know now that on discovery of the camera, i was being less than intelligent about this situation embarassed . i guess he's always been around (over 5 years) and an inordinately "nice" guy and i didn't think he was capable of being so perverse... lesson learned. there will be changes put in place from now on... i hope.




:smile: Well maybe he didnt have bad intentions, but what he did with the camera definately crosses some lines.:smile:There definately needs to be some boundaries established for this guy.:smile:At the very least, he has been very impolite in his actions toward you.:smile:This should be a wake up call for you and your familyflowerforyou


??

how well-intentioned could trying to secretly video-tape your girlfriend's little sister in her own bedroom be? huh

JasmineInglewood's photo
Fri 08/07/09 01:07 PM

:smile: Other than some kind of weird joke, I can't imagine a legitiment reason why this guy would have a concealed camera in your room.:smile: Definately a cause for concern:smile:


we think so too frown

JasmineInglewood's photo
Fri 08/07/09 01:08 PM



:smile: Keep us informed as to what your sisters reaction is to this happening:smile:


i called up my oldest sister at work and told her about it. she was as pissed off as i am.

she demanded i go immediately and check the camera which i did and there's nothing on it relating to me or my room. (mayhaps i caught it before he had the chance to record anything or perhaps he deleted it after i gave it back... i don't know).

i closed the door to the bedrooms and he's outside in the kitchen waiting for my other sister (his girlfriend) to arrive home. he called me on the phone from outside telling me he bought icecream... like that's supposed to make it better huh

i know now that on discovery of the camera, i was being less than intelligent about this situation embarassed . i guess he's always been around (over 5 years) and an inordinately "nice" guy and i didn't think he was capable of being so perverse... lesson learned. there will be changes put in place from now on... i hope.


I hope you get this sorted and you will be safe. Without sounding as though I am scare mongering; most women get raped or sexually violated by someone they know or someone known to the family.


i could definately see how that could be the case. frown

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/07/09 01:09 PM




:smile: Keep us informed as to what your sisters reaction is to this happening:smile:


i called up my oldest sister at work and told her about it. she was as pissed off as i am.

she demanded i go immediately and check the camera which i did and there's nothing on it relating to me or my room. (mayhaps i caught it before he had the chance to record anything or perhaps he deleted it after i gave it back... i don't know).

i closed the door to the bedrooms and he's outside in the kitchen waiting for my other sister (his girlfriend) to arrive home. he called me on the phone from outside telling me he bought icecream... like that's supposed to make it better huh

i know now that on discovery of the camera, i was being less than intelligent about this situation embarassed . i guess he's always been around (over 5 years) and an inordinately "nice" guy and i didn't think he was capable of being so perverse... lesson learned. there will be changes put in place from now on... i hope.




:smile: Well maybe he didnt have bad intentions, but what he did with the camera definately crosses some lines.:smile:There definately needs to be some boundaries established for this guy.:smile:At the very least, he has been very impolite in his actions toward you.:smile:This should be a wake up call for you and your familyflowerforyou


??

how well-intentioned could trying to secretly video-tape your girlfriend's little sister in her own bedroom be? huh



:smile: Yes,good point.flowerforyou I cant imagine a legit reason for a hidden camera to be in your room other than some kind of weird attempt at humor gone wrong.:smile: But still creepy and something that should be dealt with.:smile: I am glad that you are taking action on this:smile:

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/07/09 01:11 PM
scared Could this camera have been concealed in your room on previous occasions without your knowledge?scared

JasmineInglewood's photo
Fri 08/07/09 01:15 PM
he recently bought it a few weeks ago... so prior to that time, no.

after that time... i don't know.

no photo
Fri 08/07/09 01:15 PM

...ok...

this i found to be a little odd.

i just found a fairly small video camera in my room. It was off, but pointing at an angle toward my bed and computer and semi-concealed.

Would you be suspicious about that or would the fact that it was off make you think it was just rested there innocuously...?

huh
grumble you need to call the cop's

BonnyMiss's photo
Fri 08/07/09 01:16 PM
Time to grill this creep!!! As Mirror stated, how many mire times has he done this without your knowledge?