I have nothing against that, but, im gonna be loyal to my honey..

Ps i figured out that whole thing last night..


happiness is back in style.

I hear that!!!! People flip out when they figure out that I am loyal to a woman on the otherside of the planet and will wait for the rest of my life if I have to. I am all about the loyalty.

for sure.. i am totally trusting him, his ex sent me like 10 emails today with supposed convos betwen them, him saying he wants herr, and still lovess herr, and that im fat. It just says from his name, i dont believe that at all..

I called him this morning, and told him what she did, and he just confirned his feelings for me, and said shes full of it. I already knew she would try this.

A lot of drama going on there. How does she even have your e-mail account?

Odd question perhaps....but...if he hasn't talked to her about you....how would she know that you aren't " thin " and she could use the word " fat " in a fake message??????

I'm NOT "totally trusting him"....
I'm sorry, but more and more this dude sounds, well, like a not so good guy.

(Trying tact! TRYING!!)

red flags

I dont know, but she busted into his accounts, and read our emails to oneanother. He told her all about me when he told her to get lost a few days ago again.

shes seen my myspace, and everything, shes sen my nude photoshoot pitures, everything.

I know how to handle it, im a big girl.

I only would be interested in a woman if she is not checking the field, if she shows interest for me, get to know me decide and if I am not what you are looking for go to the next one but if i have to try to be better then the next guy because she will have more then one interest at the same time then i would not even bother.

Competition is created by individuals, the day we became different from the animal kingdom is when we stopped competing for the best genetic for our survival. Today the competition is that there is way to much choice out there and nobody is ever happy with what they thought was the right thing and checks everything else in hope of perfection.

We are so bombarded about what we should and should not look for that we do not know what we want anymore.

I follow my gut not statistic or stereotype, she is out there somewhere might have a couple of them that will fit with me but i will not compete for her, I and her will know when we meet.

I like big girls....

when that relationship goes south...come hang out with me S.

You can hang out with me....my exes don't even know where to find me.....and we can just hang out together until real love comes our way....I will keep the freaks off of you if you can keep the remorseless horny broads away from me.

Thats an affirmative.

another exesssssssss in the making

Hardly....more like a friendship in the making....

I can score any piece of @ss I choose....

that is behind me.....been there..done that...the thrill is gone.

I would much rather hang out with people who are just apprecieative of a little understanding and common courtesy.

I guess several people misunderstands what I wrote. The men I talk about don't even start dating and don't pull any woman closer than the safe distance (online friends) and do not promise or make any sort of confessions that would hurt the other. I wasn't talking about players who pretend to be something else that they aren't to satisfy their needs.

Because all the ones that I really am into live so far away

ex? or excess?

No need to make it perverted, we could do that on our own thank you!

ANYway, we are just friends, and have a mutual respect.

I dont see a red flag in someone having an insane ex. He told me about her doing this to every other female hes been with since.


I see HER as a red flag, and shes handled.


Hes done nothing to me to suspect. I wouldnt be warning people about things that happen every day, and usually.


Shes threatened, and hacked his account. Not MY problem.


Im DATING him, were not married, he treats me well, and goes out of his way to do all kinds of awesome things for me. I have no worries, and I have confidence in my situation, and am happy.

I don't think this is always true. Sometimes people simply prefer to remain single because of any number of possible reasons that have nothing to do with the other person.