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Topic: it's so hard
minetone's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:35 PM
how do i explain myself to a women when there are thing about me that i don't like how do i aproche her on the subject when i am so shy about it should i play the cards and hope things turn out good or fold and abort the situation?

JasmineInglewood's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:37 PM
forget about women for the time being and work on yourself flowerforyou

ledi180's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:37 PM
Just talk to her - why do you feel you need to tell her about the things you don't like about yourself? Most women are attracted to positive, confident men. If you 'abort' for no reason - you're gonna be running for a long time. Just take it one step at at a time and relax flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:39 PM

how do i explain myself to a women when there are thing about me that i don't like how do i aproche her on the subject when i am so shy about it should i play the cards and hope things turn out good or fold and abort the situation?
:smile: Just be yourself and dont try to "explain yourself".:smile: Just interact with women as you normally would anyone else.:smile: Put "playing the cards" out of your mind and the nervousness and stress will leave.:smile:

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:40 PM






Flash some of this , they will come runningdrinker

minetone's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:40 PM
maybe your right i should relax and i shouldn't think such bad things i am proud of who i am i am very selfconscious

newarkjw's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:40 PM
I think you did with the title of this post.....smokin

minetone's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:41 PM
ohh i got the money trust me that doesn't get the women forsure

beachbum069's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:43 PM
I never have any problems once it's hard

Jess642's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:45 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Wed 07/29/09 06:45 PM
Ummm...you are 20, and just relocated to a new area?

That can be a little tough to start with....

finding like minded people...creating a crew...

Are there dance parties near you where you can go, learn the vibe for people your age,in that area, hook up with a few DJ's...and maybe do some mixing and rapping?



minetone's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:46 PM
thanks for taking this **** seriously i'm a G it's hard for me to express myself without **** talk here and on the streets forreal damn

minetone's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:47 PM
i live in kiezer so they don't really have alot of places but it is a good idea thank you

minetone's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:50 PM
well thank you for the people in here who took what i was said serious and gave advice to and thank you to the punks who take is as a joke and make rude commets

newarkjw's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:53 PM
Anytime G

Jess642's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:54 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Wed 07/29/09 06:55 PM

i live in kiezer so they don't really have alot of places but it is a good idea thank you


Ok...so where do young people 'hang'....in your town?

Is there a music scene? Open mike nights?

What's the legal age to get into bars where you are? (I'm in australia, so it's 18 here)..

Have you tried checking out online similar bands, styles, clubs in your area? Google is a fabulous thing......

Do you guys have a Zine that's produced locally?







minetone's photo
Wed 07/29/09 06:58 PM
personaly i have a manager and producer who does my music it's 21 for bars and they have juice bars for underaged people i was thinking of going to some but it's hard because i take care of my cusins during the day and some times at night with what little free time i have ima try to check some out

cottonelle's photo
Wed 07/29/09 07:00 PM

it's so hard

a cold shower will take care of ya

s1owhand's photo
Wed 07/29/09 07:03 PM
like jasmine said, work on yourself so you will feel more positive about yourself and what you do now.

it is very important to feel positive about whou you are and what you do and it is a lot easier to explain who you are that way...

drinker

minetone's photo
Wed 07/29/09 07:05 PM
thank you very much maybe i am working to hard to impress women

JasmineInglewood's photo
Wed 07/29/09 07:19 PM

thank you very much maybe i am working to hard to impress women


drinker

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