Since you are really discovering the world from a completely different perspective than you have ever had before (one where you get to make the choices) you have a lot of potential to be any thing you want to be.

If there are things about yourself that you don't like it might sound simplistic but change the ones you can, accept the ones you can't, and just give yourself some time to accept that you might not ever know the difference. Life will change you but you can guide it along if you invest in yourself.

Since most women want someone who has some stability and confidence you might want to set some goals that will bring that into your life.

Performing is a big and very competative industry that tends to be very volital so you can make a lot of money and spend it equally fast. Be sure you invest in things that will not loose value; education, a home, tools, and loyal friends that you didn't have to buy.

Having friends and lovers is easy if you try to be the best one in the deal and expect them to have the same attitude.

A good woman does not expect a perfect man only a man who cooses to make honorable choices.