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Topic: Is it true some people are destined to be alone?
snarkytwain's photo
Sat 07/25/09 03:21 AM

Why is the One....the last person you date?

it could be the first person you date out of that pool...

spock


Because once you have found the One, you stop dating...

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 07/25/09 03:23 AM

Why is the One....the last person you date?

it could be the first person you date out of that pool...

spock


That's why I said it isn't impossible, but difficult. I could very well fall in love with the next person I date, realistically, probably not...logically, definitely not. In a dream state, yes.

Jess642's photo
Sat 07/25/09 03:23 AM


Why is the One....the last person you date?

it could be the first person you date out of that pool...

spock


Because once you have found the One, you stop dating...


xactly!

However F&L...was working mathematically on the One being the last of a huge number...

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 07/25/09 03:26 AM



Why is the One....the last person you date?

it could be the first person you date out of that pool...

spock


Because once you have found the One, you stop dating...


xactly!

However F&L...was working mathematically on the One being the last of a huge number...


The chances of the One being the next person I date is slim to none, you can live in your dream state...that's why this world has cynics like me, a nice dose of reality.

snarkytwain's photo
Sat 07/25/09 03:29 AM
Ah. Gotcha.

galendgirl's photo
Sat 07/25/09 06:19 AM

Im starting to wonder if it's true im just curious what others think. For a long portion of my life I have always been alone I thought maybe it will pass sometime. I thought I finally found the one but it was false hope. So that's basically my ? are some people just destined to be alone?


Apparently...but you are only lonely if you don't like the person you are with! flowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 07/25/09 06:23 AM
I don't know if I'm "destined" to be alone

I'm enjoying it for now

Who knows what tomorrow will bring!!

hockeyfan8's photo
Sat 07/25/09 01:45 PM
I guess i'll just have to wait and hope for the best thanks everyone at least there's a glimmer of hope.

RKISIT's photo
Sat 07/25/09 01:48 PM

Im starting to wonder if it's true im just curious what others think. For a long portion of my life I have always been alone I thought maybe it will pass sometime. I thought I finally found the one but it was false hope. So that's basically my ? are some people just destined to be alone?
i know what you mean....i'm 38 and i would say i have spent most of my life alone......but most of it was by choice:smile:

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/25/09 01:48 PM
Sometimes I think I am destined to be alone...maybe some grand life lesson I have yet to learn. indifferent

lionsbrew's photo
Sat 07/25/09 01:51 PM
I don't really care much if im destined to be single for the rest of my life. But I'm never alone I have my friends and family to share my life with so its all good.bigsmile

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/25/09 02:02 PM

I don't really care much if im destined to be single for the rest of my life. But I'm never alone I have my friends and family to share my life with so its all good.bigsmile


I didn't care much either when I was your age..

no photo
Sat 07/25/09 02:05 PM

Sometimes I think I am destined to be alone...maybe some grand life lesson I have yet to learn. indifferent
Your not alone you got all us Minglersflowerforyou

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 07/25/09 02:06 PM


Sometimes I think I am destined to be alone...maybe some grand life lesson I have yet to learn. indifferent
Your not alone you got all us Minglersflowerforyou


Thanks Keith, I feel better now.:smile:

no photo
Sat 07/25/09 02:09 PM

Im starting to wonder if it's true im just curious what others think. For a long portion of my life I have always been alone I thought maybe it will pass sometime. I thought I finally found the one but it was false hope. So that's basically my ? are some people just destined to be alone?


To be "destined" to anything requires that there be someone or something to do the "destining" -- as I've never seen anything yet to indicate that this is the case, I would say no, nobody is "destined" to do or be (or not to do or not to be) anything.

Things happen. Other things don't happen. Sometimes you can exert some influence one way or the other.


PATSFAN's photo
Sat 07/25/09 02:26 PM
I believe so

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