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that you push people away? Even if you don't realize you're doing it, do you wonder if it's true and ask yourself why?
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that you push people away? Even if you don't realize you're doing it, do you wonder if it's true and ask yourself why? |
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I've been told that. I've probably done that; at a time in my life when I really wasn't as ready for a relationship as I wanted to be.
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Hi Mike... I'm good how are you?
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I've been told that. I've probably done that; at a time in my life when I really wasn't as ready for a relationship as I wanted to be. That's what I figured too... But somehow they make it out like it's a character flaw in you... |
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i have personaly myself trying to be more catious so i dont get hurt anymore, im even cold sometimes but dont mean to and ive been told because i do this my deminar is different and not as atractive
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I've been told that. I've probably done that; at a time in my life when I really wasn't as ready for a relationship as I wanted to be. That's what I figured too... But somehow they make it out like it's a character flaw in you... You're right. The fact is, it's a sign or symptom of something else. Not The problem in and of itself. |
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im fine joy thanks for asking
hello auburngirl |
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Wed 07/01/09 11:00 PM
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i think we all do to a degree, for when we get hurt, that the second guessing comes in....am i good enough, and if we don't be careful, self sabatoge. this is an issue with our older crowd especially.....
hey ike 
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you're right Vincent.. I've found myself doing that before...
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i have second guessed myself alot before but then i remember im a good guy and weigh the pros and cons. the pros are way more
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i think we all do to a degree, for when we get hurt, that the second guessing comes in....am i good enough, and if we don't be careful, self sabatoge. this is an issue with our older crowd especially.....
hey ike
Self Sabatoge is a PERFECT way to word it. People that moan about not having a date often are not bringing anything to the table. Does someone have a job? A place to live? means? Experience in making relationships work? What someone offers up, or brings to the table has everything to do with whether or not they succeed in dating. |
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hello vincent my good friend
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how are you vincent?
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you're right Vincent.. I've found myself doing that before... you have wayy too much going for you to do that. check yourself, and then proceed....easier said than done. i have to check myself lately, for i could check right out of a great thing......i'd be crushed....so i can't be stupid about this. and whatever you have that's good my wonderful friend, follow suit! 
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No
((Joy)) |
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how are you vincent? hopefully as good as you brother!!!
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i've actually never been told this. but i know people who do this.
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i only push people when queing or peering over the edge
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Along with another person being too involved in their career.. Some want their partner to take their job as just that a job, but a career is different and you give differently... Some people can't handle a partner that is on call 24/7/365, even if being on call doesn't mean they're actually called that much...
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