Topic: Have you ever....
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Wed 07/01/09 07:48 PM
Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends?

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 07/01/09 07:51 PM
whoa I don't believe that i havewhoa

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/01/09 07:52 PM

Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends?


No, why would I do that? I've screwed things up, but never on purpose...I'm honestly confused here, why would you do it on purpose? Because you were afraid to get hurt first? Humans...I may never understand their habits...

grneyedldy1967's photo
Wed 07/01/09 07:55 PM
I've never purposely hurt anyone but I have pushed them away for fear of getting hurt. I think sometimes I'd rather hurt by getting rid of them first rather than getting hurt. I do think that is human nature though, at least for some of us...ohwell

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Wed 07/01/09 07:56 PM
Say you are sorry, apologize, from the heart, then say " You don't have to forgive me now, or ever, but I wanted to let you know that I am sorry" Then give him time to heal, and see what happens.flowerforyou

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Wed 07/01/09 07:56 PM

Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends?



all the time....I have been told I talk myself right outta love...I am my own worse enemy...I don't make amends I just walk away...

Anton_k's photo
Wed 07/01/09 08:05 PM
i believe that's counter productive as to what a person is dating in the first place for..
everybody starts out with a clean slate till they do me wrong..then i just fade away..

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Wed 07/01/09 10:02 PM


Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends?


No, why would I do that? I've screwed things up, but never on purpose...I'm honestly confused here, why would you do it on purpose? Because you were afraid to get hurt first? Humans...I may never understand their habits...


Mork?

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Wed 07/01/09 10:23 PM

Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends?



no never, i always handle the heart gentlyflowerforyou

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Wed 07/01/09 10:23 PM



Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends?


No, why would I do that? I've screwed things up, but never on purpose...I'm honestly confused here, why would you do it on purpose? Because you were afraid to get hurt first? Humans...I may never understand their habits...


Mork?


Shhhh...smokin

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Wed 07/01/09 11:06 PM
yeah i was 14 and i broke up with him first because my friends convinced me he was going to break up with me.

i was young and stupid to the extreme.

i never made it up to him. he was never going ot break up with me and i broke his heart.

sometimes i still feel like i karmically pay for it.

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Thu 07/02/09 03:12 AM

Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends?


no. acting based on fear makes no sense to me. plus, i could get over being hurt a lot easier than i could stop feeling like a jerk for hurting someone else.

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Thu 07/02/09 07:10 AM
Nope, why psyche yourself out and blow it over nothing.

B

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Thu 07/02/09 07:13 AM
Apart from stupid teenage attitude I would never intentionally hurt someone just to cover my own insecurity. I would never want someone to hurt me so I will for sure not do it to them.

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 07/02/09 07:16 AM
No that's just mean

I can take the hurt!!

Roco's photo
Fri 07/03/09 01:06 AM
Yes. Amends - have her hurt me first next time.

roko