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Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends?
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I don't believe that i have
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Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends? No, why would I do that? I've screwed things up, but never on purpose...I'm honestly confused here, why would you do it on purpose? Because you were afraid to get hurt first? Humans...I may never understand their habits... |
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I've never purposely hurt anyone but I have pushed them away for fear of getting hurt. I think sometimes I'd rather hurt by getting rid of them first rather than getting hurt. I do think that is human nature though, at least for some of us...
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Say you are sorry, apologize, from the heart, then say " You don't have to forgive me now, or ever, but I wanted to let you know that I am sorry" Then give him time to heal, and see what happens.
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Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends? all the time....I have been told I talk myself right outta love...I am my own worse enemy...I don't make amends I just walk away... |
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i believe that's counter productive as to what a person is dating in the first place for..
everybody starts out with a clean slate till they do me wrong..then i just fade away.. |
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Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends? No, why would I do that? I've screwed things up, but never on purpose...I'm honestly confused here, why would you do it on purpose? Because you were afraid to get hurt first? Humans...I may never understand their habits... Mork? |
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Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends? no never, i always handle the heart gently |
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Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends? No, why would I do that? I've screwed things up, but never on purpose...I'm honestly confused here, why would you do it on purpose? Because you were afraid to get hurt first? Humans...I may never understand their habits... Mork? Shhhh... |
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yeah i was 14 and i broke up with him first because my friends convinced me he was going to break up with me.
i was young and stupid to the extreme. i never made it up to him. he was never going ot break up with me and i broke his heart. sometimes i still feel like i karmically pay for it. |
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Have you ever hurt someone you care about deeply simply because you were afraid of getting hurt first? What did you do to make ammends? no. acting based on fear makes no sense to me. plus, i could get over being hurt a lot easier than i could stop feeling like a jerk for hurting someone else. |
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Nope, why psyche yourself out and blow it over nothing.
B |
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Apart from stupid teenage attitude I would never intentionally hurt someone just to cover my own insecurity. I would never want someone to hurt me so I will for sure not do it to them.
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No that's just mean
I can take the hurt!! |
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Yes. Amends - have her hurt me first next time.
roko |
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