1. Attitude: If you don't have it, you can't flaunt it. The best flirts are risk takers with an unshakeable confidence.

2. Humor: A must-have. One of the core elements of a relationship is the ability to make the other person laugh; be it "at" or "with" you.

3. Believability: You have to believe you're a great catch or no one else will. Period. If you don't think you're worth it, you've lost the game before it's begun.

4. Assertiveness: Approach someone and start a conversation. And no, you do not have to be a male to make the first move. Welcome to the 21st century.

5. Accessorize: Not with jewelry and matching shoes, but with conversation starters like dogs, a good book, or a signature scent that's bound to attract attention.

6. Approachability: Nobody likes an ice-queen, or king for that matter. Force yourself to let your guard down and you'll make yourself more approachable.

7. Eye Contact: Don't stare the other person down; simply give them the attention and respect they deserve. BONUS: Direct eye contact also shows confidence!

8. Have Fun: Nothing says "comfortable" like a person who is willing to "let down their hair" and be spontaneous and goofy. It goes back to that humor thing!

9. Sincerity: If they are truly interested in you, they will want you to feel comfortable being the "real you." Don't be afraid to show a little vulnerability.

10. Smile: Not only does it show you're enjoying their company, it's contagious, and it makes you one hundred times more attractive and approachable!

Good advice

hi there, im great at jokes, whats brown and sticky. come on you know you want to talk to me, ive got a dog you know, why dont you sit down. oops, mind the woopy cusion, sorry im always worried people dont find them funny, and im scared of my dog

nope dont think ive mastered it yet

I dunno

all the women I flirt with think I'm creepy

Great Advice. Remember practice makes perfect! The more you apply these principles the easier it will become or as is often said , "Fake It til you Make It" However, that doesn't mean being a fake.

I love flirting!

And I love a man who flirts!!

Morning (((frank)))

When you have to think and act to flirt then in my book is just like lying to impress, Being natural and spontaneous in your flirt like in your life is the way to go.

You either flirt for the right reasons or the wrong ones.

I was born an incorrigable flirt...but the ladies & gents that I flirt with, all know it's just in good fun...

*gasp*

weeeeee flirt flirt.... flirt... flirt.. flirt..

What's wrong?

I've heard of this taking place, i have yet to be involved in such an activity.

So do the guys you flirt with.

I flirt all of the time, hasn't helped yet

ya did a pretty good job on me mr cuddly

I got yelled at by my ex, when i was walking with her, because I was skipping and other times I just walk around like I'm drunk. Some other times I just grabbed her in the middle of the street and lift her up She told me I embarrass her..."everybody is watching us!" .I was just having fun..

Ooops! Having a bad day! Thanks for asking.

What Frank failed to mention is flirting is an art. It's not the same as saying something like "hey, you're really cute." That isn't flirting, it's a statment of interest. Flirting is pulling someone in and pushing them away at the same time. If you come on too strong you'll chase them off. Too weak and people won't understand your intent. It's back and forth, push and pull, give and take away. It's very powerful!

yeah its all in good fun until someone loses an eye.