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Topic: We Are All One
Snugglesbyfire's photo
Fri 06/05/09 07:39 AM


((((LIGHT)))))

How in the world can they throw in that "doormat" monikor? Love in its many forms is not something that is walked on. Each person is only used as a "doormat" when they allow it. I guess some people are so bitter about what has occurred in their "love" whether in giving it or receiving it that they feel walked on. Do these people who express that saying admit that they are the one who allowed that to occur>


I can admit that I was a doormat and yes I allowed it to happen.....but events in my life have changed that. That would't have happened if it were not for the power of love and the openess of strangers to give it


I also was a doormat, because I was afraid to stand up for myself. I am a different person now than I was then. I just never compared being a doormat with love, and compassion. I just figured I was doing what I thought was right, but things do change. The first change came when I accepted me for myself, and began to love myself, that opened the door to allowing love from others in.:smile:

Light you are finding your inner peace, that is something that people crave and a good many never find. Your one of the lucky ones.

adj4u's photo
Fri 06/05/09 07:40 AM


love has many forms

it is possible to love those you have not met

for imo compassion for your fellow humans is a form of love

but hey

what do i know


Me thinks you know plenty :wink: :heart: flowerforyou


thx

flowerforyou

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Fri 06/05/09 07:41 AM


True we each are responsible for our own actions, thoughts, expressions and so on. Sad to say there are a lot of people out there who will blame everyone and their dog for things that go wrong because of their actions. They are the ones who won't face the fact that they have to take responsiblity for some of the events that occur in their lives.


I believe it is those people who have not found love from within themselves therefore can not take responcibility for their own actions.



Agreed Patti, to love others unconditionally you first have to love yourself.

plk1966's photo
Fri 06/05/09 07:42 AM



((((LIGHT)))))

How in the world can they throw in that "doormat" monikor? Love in its many forms is not something that is walked on. Each person is only used as a "doormat" when they allow it. I guess some people are so bitter about what has occurred in their "love" whether in giving it or receiving it that they feel walked on. Do these people who express that saying admit that they are the one who allowed that to occur>


I can admit that I was a doormat and yes I allowed it to happen.....but events in my life have changed that. That would't have happened if it were not for the power of love and the openess of strangers to give it


I also was a doormat, because I was afraid to stand up for myself. I am a different person now than I was then. I just never compared being a doormat with love, and compassion. I just figured I was doing what I thought was right, but things do change. The first change came when I accepted me for myself, and began to love myself, that opened the door to allowing love from others in.:smile:

Light you are finding your inner peace, that is something that people crave and a good many never find. Your one of the lucky ones.


Pam it was the exact same way for me....though it took a long hard look at myself to discover I really didn't like that person looking back at me at all.

Light not only has inner peace and love but the ability to turn any stone hard cold heart into a light, breezy form a love and substain it with that same love and light

plk1966's photo
Fri 06/05/09 07:45 AM



True we each are responsible for our own actions, thoughts, expressions and so on. Sad to say there are a lot of people out there who will blame everyone and their dog for things that go wrong because of their actions. They are the ones who won't face the fact that they have to take responsiblity for some of the events that occur in their lives.


I believe it is those people who have not found love from within themselves therefore can not take responcibility for their own actions.



Agreed Patti, to love others unconditionally you first have to love yourself.


The only problem I see with that is that most people can not be truly honest with themselves.

I went to a seminar once where they had you right down the things you liked about yourself and the things you disliked about yourself, then the same thing with the friend we brought with us. Let me tell you that was very enlightening to me. For the things that I disliked about myself were the things my friend thought were my strong points

LightVoice's photo
Fri 06/05/09 07:45 AM
blushing blushing OMG {{{Patti}}} what a beautiful thing to say! Thank you soooooooo much :heart: :heart: :heart:

But .. PLEASE.. do not mistake that you do so much of the very same!:heart:

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Fri 06/05/09 07:47 AM

love has many forms

it is possible to love those you have not met

for imo compassion for your fellow humans is a form of love

but hey

what do i know
It appears you know alot.Namaste my friend...and thank you for the love!

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Fri 06/05/09 07:47 AM
It was great chatting with you all. It is now time to go and play with the Great Niece who is 3.............woohoo the Mickey Mouse clubhouse is on. I am so tired of Dora the Explorer.....laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

plk1966's photo
Fri 06/05/09 07:48 AM
Edited by plk1966 on Fri 06/05/09 07:49 AM

It was great chatting with you all. It is now time to go and play with the Great Niece who is 3.............woohoo the Mickey Mouse clubhouse is on. I am so tired of Dora the Explorer.....laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


I have 2 yr old twin grandsons.............I HATE DORAlaugh laugh

ITS ALMOST AS BAD AS BARNEY WASfrustrated

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Fri 06/05/09 07:49 AM
Patti...your courage and honesty that you just displayed..gave me hope..faith..and even more love than I had b4 for human kind.I know you well...and you are one of the most loving individuals...I am a better man having know you!

plk1966's photo
Fri 06/05/09 07:50 AM

Patti...your courage and honesty that you just displayed..gave me hope..faith..and even more love than I had b4 for human kind.I know you well...and you are one of the most loving individuals...I am a better man having know you!


blushing :cry:

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Fri 06/05/09 07:51 AM
Thank You Pam...for sharing and posting.You have a great ear and beautiful way of hearing others!

adj4u's photo
Fri 06/05/09 07:56 AM


love has many forms

it is possible to love those you have not met

for imo compassion for your fellow humans is a form of love

but hey

what do i know
It appears you know alot.Namaste my friend...and thank you for the love!



drinker

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Fri 06/05/09 08:05 AM


You and I are not the same. We are not one. You continuing to say "I love you" is creepy.
Good Morning Love!Let's gets this straight...you feel threatend by love and the possibilty that we are all one because..that is how you view the world.It is you against the world.You do not feel the connection because if you did...you would have to take responsibility on how you treat others.
The truth is...what you say and feel about others..is really what you say and feel about yourself.You calling me creepy...dosen't make me creepy...that makes you a person who judges others!You have to see that right..if you say i am creepy....does that really make me creepy?I think not...that makes you somebody with a view about me.
My final qiustion to you is this

"What hurts you so bad that you have to hurt others to heal it?"

I'll say it again...I got nothing but love for you!


No, I am not threatened by love. No, I do notthink I'm creepy because I called you creepy.

LightVoice's photo
Fri 06/05/09 08:07 AM
Edited by LightVoice on Fri 06/05/09 08:11 AM



flowerforyou :heart: Thank you Pam.. I know I am blessed.. and celebrate it every chance I get :heart: Love & Light to YOU in all you do.

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Fri 06/05/09 08:11 AM



You and I are not the same. We are not one. You continuing to say "I love you" is creepy.
Good Morning Love!Let's gets this straight...you feel threatend by love and the possibilty that we are all one because..that is how you view the world.It is you against the world.You do not feel the connection because if you did...you would have to take responsibility on how you treat others.
The truth is...what you say and feel about others..is really what you say and feel about yourself.You calling me creepy...dosen't make me creepy...that makes you a person who judges others!You have to see that right..if you say i am creepy....does that really make me creepy?I think not...that makes you somebody with a view about me.
My final qiustion to you is this

"What hurts you so bad that you have to hurt others to heal it?"

I'll say it again...I got nothing but love for you!


No, I am not threatened by love. No, I do notthink I'm creepy because I called you creepy.
I wish you well...all the best..ok?

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Fri 06/05/09 08:15 AM
:heart: To Be Continued.I Have To Work, But Let Me Leave You All With This....I LOVE YOU:heart:

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Fri 06/05/09 08:16 AM
:heart: Oh Yea...WE ARE ALL ONE...Namaste!:heart:

LightVoice's photo
Fri 06/05/09 08:16 AM
aaaaaaaaahhh Sal.. not to be conitnued.. as Love is continuous :heart:

Love & Mush :heart:

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Fri 06/05/09 08:19 AM

Okay... here is my two cents....

Saying 'I love you' to a stanger is CREEPY. Love is verb... an action and if the word is not back up with action it is unnatural.

Love can be shown in other ways like was mentioned a smile, a kind word or gesture. But if you go walking around tell people you love them, you might be put in a rubber room.

Secondly, when tell someone other than family and established friends the connotation will be the 'romantic' love. And that is just cruel to put that assumption upon someone.





Well said, Tanya. While I never thought he meant anything romantically, I just thought he was going overboard. Forcing your feelings on others, especially after they've stated they don't agree is too much.

However, he's just trying to get reactions.

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