What makes you decide that a person is worth your time or not? What makes you want to get in a relationship with them?

If we can have a conversation without uncomfortable moments of silence, if we can be together and not feel required to talk, and if I'm not bored or feeling like I have to entertain them.




Temporary insanity.

If they can give me what I want/need.

You're on a one-way street.

I look for any sort of intellectual and/or creative common ground. I tend to get along better with people who are smart, have good communications skills, and who feel the drive to create something -- whether it's art or music or literature or whatever.


What makes you want to get in a relationship with
them?


The above, plus another thing I can't really explain or quantify. A sense, I guess -- a sense that here is someone truly interesting and worth being with. It's rare, but unmistakable when it happens.

I may have written this some where before ... but each person, i would think, has some sort of blueprint drawn in their mind of what they want/need out of life. Once you realize that no one can build the perfect house and are convinced that this person meets your structural guidelines and most importantly makes you feel happy and loved.... then you and only you can decide from there

i can build you your perfect house.... but its gonna cost ya

No, it goes both ways.

Good way of looking at things. But don't forget those of us who are a gypsy in the heart. I don't think everyone needs or wants to always be with one specific person or is even meant to be. Change is good.

I believe that everything happens for a reason...the people you meet...the ones you love....it's all there for a reason, good or bad. Part of our task is to determine what that reason is so we can find "the one" for us.

fokked if i know but when i find out i'm switchin it off.

I rely mostly on chemistry and rapport.

They either exist, or they don't, and it's usually instant, or close to. I've never really been attracted to one specific type.

i would have to say weather or not that person is truly genuan about his or her true fealings

oh i have - the wrong fokkin type

you sound like my ex lol

You're in bad shape if you're also attracted to the wrong type considering the wrong age/location appears to be attracted to you!

i know there's no fokkin hope for me

when you look like me tis only fair to share it about

DAW, very thought provoking question. Whether friend or lover, I look for compassion, intelligence, sense of humor, and kindness. The rest is just window dressing.