Topic: whats up with babies daddys nowadays?
MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:13 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Fri 05/15/09 05:14 PM


bigsmile Im no baby daddybigsmile


Thats not what i heard.laugh
spock I have no childrenspock

no photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:13 PM


Condoms aren't the only form of birth control that those...now how many...THREE women...could have relied on... Sure there are a lot of dead beat Dads out there...but there's also a lot of women who don't take responsibilty for their actions & bodies... It's a two-way street people...so let's tell the whole story instead of pointing fingers at the one who's not here...BOTH were irresponsible.


Exactly what we've tried to say



Yes...I see that...my comp runs sloooooow...so sue me...laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:13 PM

Okay well since no one else has said this I will. You say he should man up an pay for his child.

But should you not woman up and file for child support so test can be run to prove he is the father and give his daughter the benefit of getting child support to help with the things she will need like insurance ect.

Even if he does not want to have any contact with her so what that would be his choice but he would still have to pay.

And if that is not the road you want to take then it's time to move on and leave the past in the past.

For not all Dad's are dead beat Dad's there are just as many women that don't deserve to have their kids and the Dad's should have them. JMO

It gets tiring to hear that the Dad is always the one to blame when that is far from the truth........




I agree 100%. as my grandpa would say...put up or shut up laugh

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:13 PM

Oh, now joint responsibility is admitted. I give up. I don't trust a thing you say. Bye. Good luck. You will need it.


that was admitted PAGES ago

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:14 PM



Condoms aren't the only form of birth control that those...now how many...THREE women...could have relied on... Sure there are a lot of dead beat Dads out there...but there's also a lot of women who don't take responsibilty for their actions & bodies... It's a two-way street people...so let's tell the whole story instead of pointing fingers at the one who's not here...BOTH were irresponsible.


Exactly what we've tried to say



Yes...I see that...my comp runs sloooooow...so sue me...laugh


laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou Just trying to word it a different way. I've said agree and exactly a few times. laugh

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Fri 05/15/09 05:14 PM



bigsmile Im no baby daddybigsmile


Thats not what i heard.laugh
spock I have no childrenspock


You sure about that...Mr. Povich said you were my dady.

HA HA HA!!!

TJN's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:15 PM

Oh, now joint responsibility is admitted. I give up. I don't trust a thing you say. Bye. Good luck. You will need it.

drinker drinker

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:17 PM
Babies mommas with a grudge against an ex they were foolish enough to get involved with, irresponsible to have sex and children with. And a big chip on their shoulder with dillusional pride........on the next maury povich!

Lfer's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:17 PM





You had doubts about him but had sex with him,the condom broke but still you took no action to prevent a pregnancy.Sounds like your both irresponsible to me


Well if you knew how was back then. I was very care-less and irresponsible in every aspect in my life, especially with men.

But birth control has become my best friend now. So I'm covered.


You speak like that was so long ago.


Too me it seems like it. Nonetheless I'm going to shut up and live my life with my daughter because I'm doing such a wonderful job. But all your opinions are more then welcome.


You still havent addressed the child support issue other than saying that he wont pay.

Are you not going to file for child support?

Do you still have hopes that if you dont he will come back?

Whats up?


I have no intentions what so ever on getting back with him, EVER. I have dicussed filing for child support with a lot of people, and A LOT of people are telling me too, people in my family especially. I'm just really lost at what to do at this point to be honest. I don't think any of you realize I cry myself to sleep from thinking way to much. Its really all in my hands now, so, I'll let you know what I do, or I might not.

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:17 PM
noway

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:18 PM




bigsmile Im no baby daddybigsmile


Thats not what i heard.laugh
spock I have no childrenspock


You sure about that...Mr. Povich said you were my dady.

HA HA HA!!!
surprised

tomohawk's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:18 PM
I think I remember at school, sex education was taught to BOTH sexes not just males.Not all fathers are ignorant or irresponsible plus some mothers walk away from their children too so it's not exclusive to the male population.

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:18 PM

Babies mommas with a grudge against an ex they were foolish enough to get involved with, irresponsible to have sex and children with. And a big chip on their shoulder with dillusional pride........on the next maury povich!


nice

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:19 PM
I'm so glad I will never have to deal with this ****...

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:19 PM

I think I remember at school, sex education was taught to BOTH sexes not just males.Not all fathers are ignorant or irresponsible plus some mothers walk away from their children too so it's not exclusive to the male population.


good Gawd is there an echo in here or what?

Lfer's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:21 PM
I just say forget I ever spoke my opinion.

Bye Mingle.

Totage's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:22 PM






You had doubts about him but had sex with him,the condom broke but still you took no action to prevent a pregnancy.Sounds like your both irresponsible to me


Well if you knew how was back then. I was very care-less and irresponsible in every aspect in my life, especially with men.

But birth control has become my best friend now. So I'm covered.


You speak like that was so long ago.

Too me it seems like it. Nonetheless I'm going to shut up and live my life with my daughter because I'm doing such a wonderful job. But all your opinions are more then welcome.


You still havent addressed the child support issue other than saying that he wont pay.

Are you not going to file for child support?

Do you still have hopes that if you dont he will come back?

Whats up?


I have no intentions what so ever on getting back with him, EVER. I have dicussed filing for child support with a lot of people, and A LOT of people are telling me too, people in my family especially. I'm just really lost at what to do at this point to be honest. I don't think any of you realize I cry myself to sleep from thinking way to much. Its really all in my hands now, so, I'll let you know what I do, or I might not.


Just file for support and good luck with it.

Just take it a step at a time and try to see the bigger picture.

You'll get through it.flowerforyou

Phuque2's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:23 PM






You had doubts about him but had sex with him,the condom broke but still you took no action to prevent a pregnancy.Sounds like your both irresponsible to me


Well if you knew how was back then. I was very care-less and irresponsible in every aspect in my life, especially with men.

But birth control has become my best friend now. So I'm covered.


You speak like that was so long ago.


Too me it seems like it. Nonetheless I'm going to shut up and live my life with my daughter because I'm doing such a wonderful job. But all your opinions are more then welcome.


You still havent addressed the child support issue other than saying that he wont pay.

Are you not going to file for child support?

Do you still have hopes that if you dont he will come back?

Whats up?


I have no intentions what so ever on getting back with him, EVER. I have dicussed filing for child support with a lot of people, and A LOT of people are telling me too, people in my family especially. I'm just really lost at what to do at this point to be honest. I don't think any of you realize I cry myself to sleep from thinking way to much. Its really all in my hands now, so, I'll let you know what I do, or I might not.


Well, that pretty much says it all.....I am sure there will be some here that will be waiting with baited breath to hear the next edition of this interesting topic. As for me, I have enough drama in my life....I'm outa here

no photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:23 PM

noway Way to group all men in one category!

There are some of US DADS out here that go above and beyond with our children!!!!!!!!!!!
drinker to that, I have no problem doing everything for my daughter and do anything and everything I can on a day to day basis!!!!

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 05/15/09 05:23 PM

I just say forget I ever spoke my opinion.

Bye Mingle.


Opinions are good, but you have to realize not everyone is going to share the same opinion. I have no problem with your opinion, but I have no kids so it is hard for me to state a claim here.