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Topic: What's worse
Italy0219's photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:54 PM
having someone around who you know you really don't love but treats you like a queen, or having someone around who you love but treats you normal (not like ****)

no photo
Fri 05/08/09 07:54 PM
depends on what is defined as normal

directandwrite's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:00 PM
Edited by directandwrite on Fri 05/08/09 08:00 PM
Definitely worse to have someone around who you really love but they don't love you back..even if they treat you well. That's so much harder to deal with...unrequited love...

Hey RareEntity!!!

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:02 PM
If I can't be around the someone who treats me like a queen, then I'd rather not be around any one.

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Fri 05/08/09 08:02 PM
yea, quite an unbearable thing to deal with.
hi DAW :smile:

Totage's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:02 PM

having someone around who you know you really don't love but treats you like a queen, or having someone around who you love but treats you normal (not like ****)


huh You think it's normal to be treated like ****?

directandwrite's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:03 PM

If I can't be around the someone who treats me like a queen, then I'd rather not be around any one.


I like the way she thinks! lol ;o)

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:05 PM
Edited by auburngirl on Fri 05/08/09 08:05 PM


having someone around who you know you really don't love but treats you like a queen, or having someone around who you love but treats you normal (not like ****)


huh You think it's normal to be treated like ****?



NO! That is not normal!!!

directandwrite's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:06 PM



having someone around who you know you really don't love but treats you like a queen, or having someone around who you love but treats you normal (not like ****)


huh You think it's normal to be treated like ****?


I KNOW it is.


Maybe not "normal" but definitely typical in a lot of cases...that's really messed up though...

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:07 PM
Edited by auburngirl on Fri 05/08/09 08:10 PM
I misread that. I thought he was speaking to me. laugh I KNOW it's normal to be treated like a queen. Anything else is unacceptable.



Okay let me try this ONE MORE TIME! noway

I think it is abnormal to be treated like ****. And that a woman should be treated like a queen by the man that loves her. I hope that doesn't sound high and mighty. All women desire to be respected and love.

I'll shut up now.

Totage's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:08 PM



having someone around who you know you really don't love but treats you like a queen, or having someone around who you love but treats you normal (not like ****)


huh You think it's normal to be treated like ****?


I KNOW it is.


noway

directandwrite's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:09 PM

I misread that. I thought he was speaking to me. laugh I KNOW it's normal to be treated like a queen. Anything else is unacceptable.


Touche!!:wink:

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:11 PM

I misread that. I thought he was speaking to me. laugh I KNOW it's normal to be treated like a queen. Anything else is unacceptable.



Okay let me try this ONE MORE TIME! noway

I think it is abnormal to be treated like ****. And that a woman should be treated like a queen by the man that loves her. I hope that doesn't sound high and mighty. All women desire to be respected and love.

I'll shut up now.

Totage's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:12 PM

I misread that. I thought he was speaking to me. laugh I KNOW it's normal to be treated like a queen. Anything else is unacceptable.



Okay let me try this ONE MORE TIME! noway

I think it is abnormal to be treated like ****. And that a woman should be treated like a queen by the man that loves her. I hope that doesn't sound high and mighty. All women desire to be respected and love.

I'll shut up now.


Oh, now it makes sense. laugh

sexymami7979's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:19 PM

If I can't be around the someone who treats me like a queen, then I'd rather not be around any one.
I so agree ...

LouLou2's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:21 PM
There is no one that is worth being around who would treat another person like ****. No one. I don't need to be treated like a queen all the time...now and then it is nice, though. In fact, I like to pamper those I love now and then, too. Respect and honesty in a relationship (of any type), however, are two of the few demands I make.


I'll shut up now.


No...don't 'shut up'! I value your voice of reason!!!

Cinderella75's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:21 PM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Fri 05/08/09 08:25 PM

depends on what is defined as normal

good point. Whats normal?

Well for my definiton of normal, which are attributes I look for before even going into a deeper relationship with a guy, is a man who respects me, doesn't cheat, doesn't hit, and has no substance abuse issues. I would definitly choose him over the guy that pampers me crazy.
I'm not really too much into the pampering, wiping my butt kinda guy anyway. I had a boyfriend like that..drove me nuts. I really fell out of love with him because he was sooo pampering. It almost felt like to me:" and umm..what can I do for you honey, cuz I'm not in the mood to wipe your ass 24/7" the whole time we were dating. Like he was putting more into this relationship than I was.
If someone who you don't love is pampering you like that, because they love you sooo much, well thats just unfair. Thats just using them.
I don't need a b!tch or slave. I need a man who can tell me whats up.

Moondark's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:24 PM

having someone around who you know you really don't love but treats you like a queen, or having someone around who you love but treats you normal (not like ****)


Sometimes, when someone treats you that good, it's because they realize you don't feel the same way back and they hope if they can treat you well enough, you might start to return the feelings.

Someone who you can love but treats you normal it better. Keeping the one that treats yous you like a queen when you don't love the person is just stringing that person along.

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:27 PM
normal... I can feel like a queen on my own.

metalwing's photo
Fri 05/08/09 08:29 PM
You lost me at the part where you would be around someone you really don't love. It doesn't matter how well they treat you. If love isn't a valuable commodity .......?

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