All men are thinking sex. But, that doesn't mean that is all that they want. Screening the losers from the good ones is really difficult, but possible. The ones that are actually pig enough to come forth on the first date are guys that you probably don't want to continue dating. All men know what they should do to express respect for a woman, and the ones that directly disrespect you in such a way just aren't worth your time. You desearve the best and as long as you focus on that you will find it. You need to mine alot of dingy caves to find that perfect diamond.

haha that is just plain creepy LOL

I was talking to a guy....
and within the first 5 minutes of the phone call
wanted to know how much weight'd.

Then he proceeded to talk about passion in a relationship
which enevitably lead to sex on the first date...

I hung up the phone

IDIOT!!!!!!!

Pretty much the way I feel about the ones who send me unsolicited, waaaaay too close up clam shots....

I mean seriously....I just wish some of them would respect themselves a bit more.....now...if it is requested and both people are up for it...Ain't no biggie.

Personally, I make no judgements...
If you meet and you want to have sex on the first date - go for it. The chemistry might be there & if you are both adults and not hurting anyone, WHO CARES?

Either way, both parties have the right to say 'no' and if the other doesn't like it, I'm betting there is no second date.

For me sex on the first date = short term relationship

For me sex on the first date = Long term relationship

^ Rofl. Depends.

LOL.
ahem, i dont think i could have sex on the first date,
mainly cuz i do need to know the girl.
unless we were friends first.
and if she brought it up.

but if we're not friends..
and she puts out so easily..

well, who am i to judge her? ;]

It is all of personal preference. However, I too feel that sex on the first few dates is NOT for me! At the point in my life, I feel that it is disrespectful. So, I guess to curve that, is to just bring it to the forefront before going on a date. Make it clear your expections of dating do not involve sex.... either they run or not, but at least you made your intentions clear.

Sex on the first date.. empty.. I hear about sex so much, and am pressured about it, and just.. bleh! just makes it passe..

I am really highly sexual, and want it all the time... in a relationship thats cool.. after I know someone.. Just.. all the talking about it and chase is like.... I feel like tellling them to drop dead. Gets so olddddd..

Makes other things like getting to know someone, and just having a good time seem far more interesting, and less predictable.

Id actually prefer to have the guy let me make the first move.

When your hit on everyday.. sex isnt the huge priority anymore.. you hear lines, and are bombarded, and you know its all for the same reason, they want to get laid. And also, we would all have aids if us women gave it up every time, especially on the first date for sure..

First date?

Thats like.. a total joke..

And also, from day 1 my profile has stated how I feel about the sex deal.

Plus, on the first date, you dont know how douchey someone is for sure just yet.. you gotta find out if they deserve some good sex also.. like.. I dunno.. could be some kind of creepy.. wierdo total jerkoff. I wouldnt wanna give them the satisfaction either.