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Topic: Uncomfortable
Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 04/27/09 06:57 PM
Are you uncomfortable saying "I love you" to your significant other when around other people? No, I wouldn't have any problem, I'd even hold her hand and kiss her, hug her, PDA is alright in moderation, as long as it's kept classy.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Mon 04/27/09 06:58 PM
Have no issues with it at all.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Mon 04/27/09 06:58 PM Edited by galendgirl on Mon 04/27/09 06:59 PM
Are you uncomfortable saying "I love you" to your significant other when around other people? I don't think so...it's been so long it's hard to imagine. HOWEVER, I know I am uncomfortable with someone saying it to me, especially in front of others, when I am not on the same footing (even if it is just a matter of not being there YET.) Too much responsibility, worry for others, and guilt when I just can't go there...

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 04/27/09 07:01 PM Edited by Totage on Mon 04/27/09 07:01 PM
Are you uncomfortable saying "I love you" to your significant other when around other people? I don't think so...it's been so long it's hard to imagine. HOWEVER, I know I am uncomfortable with someone saying it to me, especially in front of others, when I am not on the same footing (even if it is just a matter of not being there YET.) Too much responsibility, worry for others, and guilt when I just can't go there... So I shouldn't confess my love for you now?

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Mon 04/27/09 07:02 PM
Are you uncomfortable saying "I love you" to your significant other when around other people? Whether or not people or no people around...right now I'm more uncomfortable not having anyone to tell.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Mon 04/27/09 07:02 PM
Are you uncomfortable saying "I love you" to your significant other when around other people? I don't think so...it's been so long it's hard to imagine. HOWEVER, I know I am uncomfortable with someone saying it to me, especially in front of others, when I am not on the same footing (even if it is just a matter of not being there YET.) Too much responsibility, worry for others, and guilt when I just can't go there... So I shouldn't confess my love for you now? LOL! Probably not until tomorrow...Egads!

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Mon 04/27/09 07:14 PM
Are you uncomfortable saying "I love you" to your significant other when around other people? No but I don't make a big event of it. May even lip to them so nobody can hear it.

HasidicEnforcer Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 10235	Mon 04/27/09 07:15 PM
No, but he is.

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Mon 04/27/09 08:10 PM
Wish I had someone to say it too. shout it out over the friggin p/a system at wal mart too.

cityblues21 Joined Sat 07/05/08 Posts: 20033	Mon 04/27/09 08:15 PM
When I feel the feeling...and know and trust it to be real... and choose to express it; God and everyone on this planet can be an audience if the timing is right.

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Mon 04/27/09 08:17 PM
Are you uncomfortable saying "I love you" to your significant other when around other people? Not uncomfortable at all. I say it because I mean it...It doesn't matter to me who is around or where I may be.

Roweanne Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 437	Mon 04/27/09 08:31 PM
In the past, my problem has been that I said it before I knew for sure, and ended up getting screwed over. I'm not uncomfortable saying it, publically or privately. I just have to remember to be sure b4 I say it again.

EZ4Sheezy Joined Tue 01/20/09 Posts: 4694	Mon 04/27/09 09:44 PM
If I can tell it to my cat in front of people, I can tell it to my SO in front of other people...if I had one

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 04/27/09 09:47 PM
Heh...Well, I won a Valentine Day writing contest and completely surprised my wife of 11 years by winning her a nice (not huge)diamond ring. In front of 500 of my small town's movers and shakers (it was a charity dinner), I nervously proclaimed my love for her and read the mushy letter I wrote. Much laughter and tears were flowing...I felt like the most romantic dude around. Our love had always been very sound, now the whole town knew it. Two months later, she met an old boyfriend, typed to him for a week, and dumped me. I never saw it coming. What a chump, huh? Damn that sucks.. Sorry...

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Mon 04/27/09 10:06 PM
Wish I had someone to say it too. shout it out over the friggin p/a system at wal mart too. THAT IS THE MOST ADORABLE THING IVE HEARD ALL DAY!!!! I have no problem telling anyone that I love that I love them, that speaks volumes abut people also for sure. I dont think Id want to spend too much time with someone who couldnt express themselves. Dont think we should ever be ashamed of love. I tell my FRIENDS I love them too sometimes, Life is short, I wanna love hard.

reesehunter Joined Wed 02/11/09 Posts: 79	Mon 04/27/09 11:35 PM
I haven't been lucky enough to be in that situation. I would if I ever found someone.