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Topic: Are you lonely?
Totage's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:16 PM
I was reading this article, http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/430545_7 and thought it was pretty interesting, and may be helpful to those who feel lonely.

ProteinGirl's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:18 PM
I can't read it, unless I sign in lol.
Are you lonely?
I am at times
I have a dog too. She keeps my secrets

Totage's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:21 PM
That's weird, it's the first link after the videos here http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=lonely+people&aq=f&oq=

Jess642's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:22 PM
Nope...never lonely!

I am often alone, but never lonely...

in the deepest silences of me.... there is always me.:wink:

Totage's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:23 PM

I can't read it, unless I sign in lol.
Are you lonely?
I am at times
I have a dog too. She keeps my secrets


Interesting... does your dog sometimes make you feel good/better about yourself? I have a cat, and I have to admit, sometimes he does make me feel better about myself.

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:28 PM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Wed 04/22/09 04:28 PM
I've been MOST lonely when I was right next to someone I loved and not connecting....

....and have felt SO loved when alone with my thoughts

Jess642's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:30 PM

I've been MOST lonely when I was right next to someone I loved and not connecting....

....and have felt SO loved when alone with my thoughts


You are always loved...:heart:

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:32 PM


I've been MOST lonely when I was right next to someone I loved and not connecting....

....and have felt SO loved when alone with my thoughts


You are always loved...:heart:


flowerforyou Lee you slay me with compassionflowerforyou :heart:


laugh Or were you calling me an ego-maniaclaugh :wink:

ProteinGirl's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:32 PM


I can't read it, unless I sign in lol.
Are you lonely?
I am at times
I have a dog too. She keeps my secrets


Interesting... does your dog sometimes make you feel good/better about yourself? I have a cat, and I have to admit, sometimes he does make me feel better about myself.


They don't judge, they do silly things to make us laugh at life.
It's not that she makes me feel better about myself, she makes me less lonely.

no photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:34 PM
Yeah, you have to sign up. Any particular extractions with pearls of wisdom to impart upon us?

Jess642's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:37 PM



I've been MOST lonely when I was right next to someone I loved and not connecting....

....and have felt SO loved when alone with my thoughts


You are always loved...:heart:


flowerforyou Lee you slay me with compassionflowerforyou :heart:


laugh Or were you calling me an ego-maniaclaugh :wink:


Compassionate self loving?


perhaps?


Ummmm................?

I just love yah, you great goof!!!

Totage's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:39 PM
Edited by Totage on Wed 04/22/09 04:42 PM

Many researchers have asked lonely people to give self-descriptions, and the findings look remarkably consistent across the bulk of the literature. In reviewing the loneliness literature, one is struck by the fact that, if there is a negative self-descriptor available, lonely people seem to apply it to themselves. Lonely people self-describe in very negative ways that span a large range of self-deprecating characteristics.



Moreover, lonely people tend to be more shy and normless, lower in self-esteem, higher in public self-consciousness, and higher in external locus of control than nonlonely people.[9]They also tend to behave in a more self-focused, less responsive manner when interacting in cross-sex dyads, and they talk about themselves more than they ask about others, suggesting a certain narcissistic self-preoccupation and lack of empathic concern with the welfare of the other.[18] Other researchers have found that loneliness in college students is linked to problems such as alcoholism, as well as to suicide,[30,31] and Russell[14] reports that high levels of anxiety accompany loneliness and that loneliness is often accompanied by high depression scores on the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory(MMPI).

no photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:41 PM
Lonely is: what lonely does !flowerforyou

MrIndependent's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:57 PM
I try to stay away from self analysis, it always turns out on the negative/ extreme side.

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 04/22/09 04:59 PM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Wed 04/22/09 04:59 PM

I try to stay away from self analysis, it always turns out on the negative/ extreme side.


I always end up needing a towel.

Mazikeen's photo
Wed 04/22/09 06:19 PM
Im actually one of those people that thrives in a state of solitude. I live in my basement and sit busily scribbling away my manifesto under the soft amber glow of one light bulb. Na, just kidding...maybe. heh. :wink: huh

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 04/22/09 06:21 PM
Could use some female companionship at times, but not lonely.

no photo
Wed 04/22/09 06:22 PM
I maybe alone, but I am never lonely.

vnbrtzl's photo
Wed 04/22/09 11:54 PM
Animals make more sense than a great number of humans.

vnbrtzl's photo
Wed 04/22/09 11:54 PM
Edited by vnbrtzl on Wed 04/22/09 11:58 PM

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