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I was reading this article, http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/430545_7 and thought it was pretty interesting, and may be helpful to those who feel lonely.
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I can't read it, unless I sign in lol.
Are you lonely? I am at times I have a dog too. She keeps my secrets |
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That's weird, it's the first link after the videos here http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=lonely+people&aq=f&oq=
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Nope...never lonely!
I am often alone, but never lonely... in the deepest silences of me.... there is always me. |
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I can't read it, unless I sign in lol. Are you lonely? I am at times I have a dog too. She keeps my secrets Interesting... does your dog sometimes make you feel good/better about yourself? I have a cat, and I have to admit, sometimes he does make me feel better about myself. |
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Edited by
Beachfarmer
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Wed 04/22/09 04:28 PM
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I've been MOST lonely when I was right next to someone I loved and not connecting....
....and have felt SO loved when alone with my thoughts |
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I've been MOST lonely when I was right next to someone I loved and not connecting.... ....and have felt SO loved when alone with my thoughts You are always loved... |
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I've been MOST lonely when I was right next to someone I loved and not connecting.... ....and have felt SO loved when alone with my thoughts You are always loved... Lee you slay me with compassion Or were you calling me an ego-maniac |
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I can't read it, unless I sign in lol. Are you lonely? I am at times I have a dog too. She keeps my secrets Interesting... does your dog sometimes make you feel good/better about yourself? I have a cat, and I have to admit, sometimes he does make me feel better about myself. They don't judge, they do silly things to make us laugh at life. It's not that she makes me feel better about myself, she makes me less lonely. |
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Yeah, you have to sign up. Any particular extractions with pearls of wisdom to impart upon us?
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I've been MOST lonely when I was right next to someone I loved and not connecting.... ....and have felt SO loved when alone with my thoughts You are always loved... Lee you slay me with compassion Or were you calling me an ego-maniac Compassionate self loving? perhaps? Ummmm................? I just love yah, you great goof!!! |
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Edited by
Totage
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Wed 04/22/09 04:42 PM
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Many researchers have asked lonely people to give self-descriptions, and the findings look remarkably consistent across the bulk of the literature. In reviewing the loneliness literature, one is struck by the fact that, if there is a negative self-descriptor available, lonely people seem to apply it to themselves. Lonely people self-describe in very negative ways that span a large range of self-deprecating characteristics. Moreover, lonely people tend to be more shy and normless, lower in self-esteem, higher in public self-consciousness, and higher in external locus of control than nonlonely people.[9]They also tend to behave in a more self-focused, less responsive manner when interacting in cross-sex dyads, and they talk about themselves more than they ask about others, suggesting a certain narcissistic self-preoccupation and lack of empathic concern with the welfare of the other.[18] Other researchers have found that loneliness in college students is linked to problems such as alcoholism, as well as to suicide,[30,31] and Russell[14] reports that high levels of anxiety accompany loneliness and that loneliness is often accompanied by high depression scores on the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory(MMPI). |
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Lonely is: what lonely does !
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I try to stay away from self analysis, it always turns out on the negative/ extreme side.
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Edited by
Beachfarmer
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Wed 04/22/09 04:59 PM
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I try to stay away from self analysis, it always turns out on the negative/ extreme side. I always end up needing a towel. |
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Im actually one of those people that thrives in a state of solitude. I live in my basement and sit busily scribbling away my manifesto under the soft amber glow of one light bulb. Na, just kidding...maybe. heh.
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Could use some female companionship at times, but not lonely.
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I maybe alone, but I am never lonely.
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Animals make more sense than a great number of humans.
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Edited by
vnbrtzl
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Wed 04/22/09 11:58 PM
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