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Touch Physical contact is usually how I diffuse people when they are angry. I am not talking about grabbing them or hitting or anything, but touch their arm, hand or wrist and get them to look into my eyes. It usually gets them sidetracked for just a moment, long enough to loose some of the steam that is fueling them up. |
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 i don't repress other peoples emotions and i don't let people repress mine i respect the right of the indivdual to express their emotions be seeing you
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cool down your angry lady ?? and ladies how would you cool down your angry man? 
All depends of the reason why she is angry, I am compassionate and understandable but if the reason why is she is angry is unreasonable then she will have to vent her frustration by herself. I will listen to her, agree with her, comfort her and let her know she can yell at me all she wants to vent her frustrations making sure she keeps in mind that she is angry at somebody/something else and not me. |
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We use the same tactics......
the less angry one puts a hand up and says "Stop! Neither of us are communicating right now... I am going to leave, and when we are calmer, we can talk about this, then." Makes me spitting mad!!! But perfect... it creates space to reduce the stupidity of the anger... and then both are open to the issue that created the anger, once calm. |
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I usually give her leash a good yank.
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I usually give her leash a good yank. Hahahahahaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!! that's mild discipline, not diffusion.... 
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Edited by
Meg8771
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Tue 04/14/09 06:01 PM
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Touch Physical contact is usually how I diffuse people when they are angry. I am not talking about grabbing them or hitting or anything, but touch their arm, hand or wrist and get them to look into my eyes. It usually gets them sidetracked for just a moment, long enough to loose some of the steam that is fueling them up. I agree 100%. I can tell you that I do not say anything that I don't mean & I am woman enough to own my mistakes. Thank you Ducky, er, I mean Mr. Duck. 
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 give her a tongue lashing
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I usually give her leash a good yank. Hahahahahaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!! that's mild discipline, not diffusion....
It's distraction. Gets her mind working on something else. |
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I usually give her leash a good yank. Hahahahahaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!! that's mild discipline, not diffusion....
It's distraction. Gets her mind working on something else. She must be well trained then.... yank my leash and I would bite you! 
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I usually give her leash a good yank. Hahahahahaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!! that's mild discipline, not diffusion....
It's distraction. Gets her mind working on something else. She must be well trained then.... yank my leash and I would bite you!
It wouldn't be the first time I've been bit.
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Plant a big wet one on her
Who am i kidding? 
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Plant a big wet one on her Who am i kidding?
In my very humble opinion, that would stop me in my tracks! Cause me to loose focus on whatever I was upset about. |
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Plant a big wet one on her Who am i kidding?
In my very humble opinion, that would stop me in my tracks! Cause me to loose focus on whatever I was upset about. It might but then i probably end up With a black eye afterwards!
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Plant a big wet one on her Who am i kidding?
That would definitely make me be quiet and weak at the knees. I was mad about what? 
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Plant a big wet one on her Who am i kidding?
In my very humble opinion, that would stop me in my tracks! Cause me to loose focus on whatever I was upset about. It might but then i probably end up With a black eye afterwards!
I am a lover, not a fighter
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I am a lover, not a fighter
i'm neither. no one has claimed me as the former, and i aspire to not be the latter. . . . |
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