Topic: People you stray away from upon viewing their profile
Dro_In_Indio's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:03 PM
Edited by Dro_In_Indio on Wed 04/01/09 11:04 PM
Everyone has preferences... that's the point of having a profile... If you are afraid of a woman that knows what SHE wants... *shrug*

Speaking for myself, there is nothing that a gal can have in her profile that would turn me off... I guess if she said "I love my dog and I love spreading peanut buter... yadda yadda yadda... I my take a moment to think

Peccy's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:04 PM

I pass up men who have pics with no shirts. It says "Look at me...I'm all that."
I have a shirt on and I am still all that....and a bag of chips!

Jess642's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:04 PM

Upon looking at different women's profiles, if I see certain words or phrases, I tend to pass them up. Here are a few:

1)I am very strong woman (to me, it means they have been threw a lot, so anything you say or do will piss them off)

2)I am very independent (well thats good, but as above, I wonder what they are really trying to say. I guess its not as bad as "I am very dependent" lol)

3)I am a professional woman (There is nothing wrong with having a "profession" you enjoy doing but...this could be a "your job better be as good as my job" statement.

4) I am straightforward and blunt. (How about just say your honest. Straightforward and blunt to me implies they will say rude things and think they can get away with it.)

5) I love to party. (well I do too, but when I read this statement, I picture a girl hoping from guy to guy in a bar demanding attention. Not sure why.)

6)I'm looking for someone not to break my heart. (I am too, but advertising it to me is slightly fishy. I have been down this road before with women, and a lot of the self proclaimed "heartbroken" ones will be the quickest to do the same to you.

Can't think of any more right now. Oh, and don't take any of these personally if you have them on your profile. To each their own. Just thought it would be fun to see if people have their own things they don't like to see.



So let's look at this shall we?


1). I am a very weak woman.

2) I am so needy and dependent I can't wipe my bottom for myself.

3) I don't have a job, see 1) and 2)..

4) I am so vaccuous and vapid I have no opinion other than yours honeybuns...

5) I can't leave the house...see all of the above.

6) I don't have a heart, I'm a stepford wife.



There's the flipside to what puts you off Adam....mmmmmmmmmmmmmm so appealing!:wink: laugh

Dro_In_Indio's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:05 PM
I wouldn't want a pic with me without a shirt...


No Six Pack
Hairy Bastard


Baabs's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:07 PM
I stary away from any profiles thathave pictures that look like ANY of my brothers!

Baabs's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:09 PM
ok ok..I know I keep posting on here...but heres another one

A guy that says "I'm very shy and outgoing"?????

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:14 PM
I pass on the "I have 20 tattoos and 12 piercings and intend to get more". If I want to date a piece of art pin cushion I can go to a museum.

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:16 PM
I pass on the "I'm 6 months pregnant and the father is no longer in the picture". F*ck that crap.

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:24 PM
I pass on the overdefensive threats and ultimatums like "I'm a heavy girl and if you don't like it you can die, eat sh!t, or f*ck off"! Or who can forget the "I have 4 kids and if you don't like it you can die, eat sh!t, or f*ck off"! Or how about the everloving "I have 12 piercings and 20 tattoos and if you don't like it you can- yup you guessed it- die, eat sh!t, or f*ck off"! I mean seriously- who wants to date a mean threatening person? Keep advertising that 8th grade education. Saves me lots of time.

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:25 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Wed 04/01/09 11:29 PM

Upon looking at different women's profiles, if I see certain words or phrases, I tend to pass them up. Here are a few:

1)I am very strong woman (to me, it means they have been threw a lot, so anything you say or do will piss them off)

2)I am very independent (well thats good, but as above, I wonder what they are really trying to say. I guess its not as bad as "I am very dependent" lol)

3)I am a professional woman (There is nothing wrong with having a "profession" you enjoy doing but...this could be a "your job better be as good as my job" statement.

4) I am straightforward and blunt. (How about just say your honest. Straightforward and blunt to me implies they will say rude things and think they can get away with it.)

5) I love to party. (well I do too, but when I read this statement, I picture a girl hoping from guy to guy in a bar demanding attention. Not sure why.)

6)I'm looking for someone not to break my heart. (I am too, but advertising it to me is slightly fishy. I have been down this road before with women, and a lot of the self proclaimed "heartbroken" ones will be the quickest to do the same to you.

Can't think of any more right now. Oh, and don't take any of these personally if you have them on your profile. To each their own. Just thought it would be fun to see if people have their own things they don't like to see.



You probably will not vibe with my profile! Although I don't have exactly the same topics as you exampled, I do like the night club scene in Vegas and Hollywood. Just because I do, doesn't mean I slut around from guy to guy!

I just " ... love the night life. I got to boogie on the disco 'round, oh yea... " :banana: :laughing:

Hmm, my irritants are:

- Looking for someone real
- No Drama
- Wazzzz up
- Just ask or ask me anything
- I'll fill this out later
- Does this really work
- Any comments related to their ex
- Over zealous statements about church or religion
- References to being an avid pot smoker

After I open their profile, I go directly to the stats to check for:

- If they have kids or want kids - deal breaker
- Height - taller than 6.0 please
- Non smokers only
- I prefer someone that drinks at least once in a while. I can't date someone who can't enjoy cocktails or a beer once in a while.
- HAIR - I must have hair (not digging the Mr. Clean look).

I wish there was a section to ask about body hair (no fur balls please). winking

Seatraveler's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:40 PM
I heartily agree! That attitude seems to be coming out of more and more women all the time.Especially the younger generation.I get a kick when they say at 19 that "I know what I want and don't try to change me." No girl in the world at that age knows what she wants because she hasn't experienced anything yet.Really shows her willingness to compromise and work as a couple,huh? And no,I'm not chasing 19 year olds.

Seatraveler's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:42 PM

I pass on the overdefensive threats and ultimatums like "I'm a heavy girl and if you don't like it you can die, eat sh!t, or f*ck off"! Or who can forget the "I have 4 kids and if you don't like it you can die, eat sh!t, or f*ck off"! Or how about the everloving "I have 12 piercings and 20 tattoos and if you don't like it you can- yup you guessed it- die, eat sh!t, or f*ck off"! I mean seriously- who wants to date a mean threatening person? Keep advertising that 8th grade education. Saves me lots of time.

Seatraveler's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:43 PM
Longhairbiker,you're a good dude.

OrangeCat's photo
Wed 04/01/09 11:45 PM
indifferent

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 04/02/09 02:10 AM
1)I am very strong woman (to me, it means they have been threw a lot, so anything you say or do will piss them off)


You'd probably be pissed off if you were thrown a lot, too!

I can honestly say I've never thrown a woman. Tossed, maybe, but never thrown.

LouLou2's photo
Thu 04/02/09 02:59 AM

Upon looking at different women's profiles, if I see certain words or phrases, I tend to pass them up. Here are a few:

1)I am very strong woman (to me, it means they have been threw a lot, so anything you say or do will piss them off)

2)I am very independent (well thats good, but as above, I wonder what they are really trying to say. I guess its not as bad as "I am very dependent" lol)

3)I am a professional woman (There is nothing wrong with having a "profession" you enjoy doing but...this could be a "your job better be as good as my job" statement.

4) I am straightforward and blunt. (How about just say your honest. Straightforward and blunt to me implies they will say rude things and think they can get away with it.)

5) I love to party. (well I do too, but when I read this statement, I picture a girl hoping from guy to guy in a bar demanding attention. Not sure why.)

6)I'm looking for someone not to break my heart. (I am too, but advertising it to me is slightly fishy. I have been down this road before with women, and a lot of the self proclaimed "heartbroken" ones will be the quickest to do the same to you.

Can't think of any more right now. Oh, and don't take any of these personally if you have them on your profile. To each their own. Just thought it would be fun to see if people have their own things they don't like to see.



1. I am a strong person and spent 26 years with someone who was not. Don't want that again. Also, don't want to mislead anyone. If they are looking for someone always to be a 'yes' woman, that would not be me. I have been through a lot, learned a lot and would expect the same for anyone my age.

2. I am very independent. I'm not looking for anyone to 'complete', support or fix my world for me. I would like someone to share a life, be mutually supportive and to be a partner with me in this life.

3. 'Professional'? Pfft..."I just load the truck"...pretty much what all of us do, in one way or another.

4. Blunt may be unkind sometimes, but give me a straightforward person, and I will have someone I can trust.

5. 'Partying'? A red flag? Maybe...but may just be someone who prefers to go out rather than hang at home all the time.

6. Um...don't think anyone wants a heartbreaker. If there is a need to include this, maybe this person is still hurting from a past relationship? I'd be thinking more 'baggage' and less that this person would do the same to me.



For me, Nascar, hunting, fishing and hiking...common interests indicate potential compatibilty...jhmo.

Seakolony's photo
Thu 04/02/09 03:10 AM
Definitely don't look at mine!!

looking for sweet genuine female that is not into head games = my last GF fuk'd with my head really bad and I am a needy man that wants a woman to wait on me hand and foot

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 04/02/09 04:12 AM
Cheersdrinker

transientmind's photo
Thu 04/02/09 04:17 AM
Edited by transientmind on Thu 04/02/09 04:21 AM

1)I am very strong woman.

So what do you benchpress?

2)I am very independent.

Might not text you every five minutes at work thinking that it's cute.

3)I am a professional woman.
She'll be wearing pants a lot.laugh

4) I am straightforward and blunt.
I was raised by a 5' 4" woman who stopped a Hell's Angels assassination by blessing a guy out. Bring it.

I've dated passive aggressive, it's not better.

5) I love to party.
Need someone who can dial a cabbie while holding my hair.

6)I'm looking for someone not to break my heart.

...No sh*t...

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Here's my list:

"Prove that all guys aren't the same."
How 'bout I'll be myself and you can make up your own damn mind without trying to put me on the defensive?

"I want to find my Mr. Everything."
Bhurka sold separately.

"Wow me."
No. Try the circus.

"I want a guy who likes his girls curvy."
Translation: "My weight defines me."

"Make me feel that fire."
Translation: "I'll love you as long as the hormones last."

"I'm just here for friends but if I find more, it's all good."
Prepare to be stuck in "it's complicated" mode.

"Looking for my knight in shining..."
High school jersey.

Seakolony's photo
Thu 04/02/09 05:25 AM
I stay away from:

I love to party ...... potential alcoholic in the making and doesn't know it or is in denial

I am strong = I am controlling, I want woman with no brain that does everything I say.....get a dog

Yep no shirts on = I am looking for cyber sex - What the hell is that anyway and how do they get any satisfaction what so ever from that?

Will you marry me in the first email = I want to become a United States citizen

Just a few things I ran across.laugh