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slip her a note after homeroom whats home room? The few minutes in High School before classes begin. Remember where they took attendance? Anyway, I believe the point is, you're now supposed to be a grown up (hopefully). Man up! Talk to her. It is not rocket surgery. yeah you guys are right thanks for the advice... wait what should i say? should i tell her all about these thoughts or what. damn another question!!! |
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slip her a note after homeroom whats home room? The few minutes in High School before classes begin. Remember where they took attendance? Anyway, I believe the point is, you're now supposed to be a grown up (hopefully). Man up! Talk to her. It is not rocket surgery. yeah you guys are right thanks for the advice... wait what should i say? should i tell her all about these thoughts or what. damn another question!!! Yes, share your thoughts. It's called communication. Just don't drool or ask her to go steady. |
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I understand your situation, was in a similar one a while back and I made the mistake of telling her I wasn't ready. Now I still think about her and she's in Japan studying abroad, I say if you have feelings for her go for it. She's known you for a while and what troubles you had, if she still wants to be with you afterwards thats an even better reason than if you had no trouble at all.
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![]() ![]() Ouch! Mirror! That's so beneath you to be mean! HAD to be the ![]() ![]() |
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I understand your situation, was in a similar one a while back and I made the mistake of telling her I wasn't ready. Now I still think about her and she's in Japan studying abroad, I say if you have feelings for her go for it. She's known you for a while and what troubles you had, if she still wants to be with you afterwards thats an even better reason than if you had no trouble at all. thats a little closer truth is we have known each other for a long time but i left a while back four year to count the time and she has no idea what happened to me and im not to sure that i should tell her. i actually left because i had a fight with my father and spent four years in jail now im out and... its just a lot to expect someone to even think about me after a situation like that so im think about not saying anything and just letting her move on with her life it will probably be better that way |
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Ummm...you're 19...four years in jail ?
![]() This sounds a lot like a mini psycho-drama, Chris. You like her... you tell her. You don't want a relationship, ie dating, (assuming that's what she wants)...tell her. It's not bloody rocket science. |
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Ummm...you're 19...four years in jail ? ![]() This sounds a lot like a mini psycho-drama, Chris. You like her... you tell her. You don't want a relationship, ie dating, (assuming that's what she wants)...tell her. It's not bloody rocket science. I know im young and yes i met her when i was twelve and we had been friends until i was fifteen. then i went away. hadnt seen her hadnt talked to her, im surprised she remembers me. it just seems harder to actually do it than it is talking about it. |
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Tell her upfront. Honestly it's really not take it or leave it. I was in a situation once where it was expressed this person was not ready but it worked cause ya know what? Neither was I. Maybe she's not ready either. I say go slow and let it progress the way it will. You add pressure and the whole thing gets messed up.
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