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im a lover not a fighter
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im a lover not a fighter
I thought so!
I think people read me wrong and assume I'm mean because I say 'no' without flexibility. As long as I am polite about my boundaries, I keep them intact. 
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No....im that mean. I'm an asshole. Puhleaaaase! You are not!   
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No....im that mean. I'm an asshole. Puhleaaaase! You are not!
Oh thats right....i'm the whole ass. My boner!! |
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Edited by
Mr_Music
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Fri 03/20/09 02:30 AM
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It varies. I know of a lot of people who initially prejudge me to be the world's biggest asshole, but then when they meet me in person, they usually find their initial assumptions were way off-base. It kinda boils down to taking the time to get to know me and understand me, my disposition, my humor, before passing judgement on me, and many people are not willing to do that because they've become so acclimated to this faux sense of "be nice to everyone." News flash -- the world ain't all sunshine and flowers and puppy dogs.
I'll be the first to admit that I'm not the easiest person in the world to get along with, but that's only because I refuse to coddle anybody. I don't give a single damn about somebody's little ego. If you have it coming to you, I'm just the guy to give it. If you don't like it, tough. Time to grow a pair and get a backbone. Life itself isn't fair, and it ain't nice. Time to wake up, because it's later than you think. I have a LOT more respect for others like myself who aren't afraid to lay it right on the line than someone who sugar-coats everything in some pathetic, feeble attempt at that idiotic "politically correct" crap. |
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I can be nice, but it's expensive.
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I can be mean, but always at a price...
I feel guilty and regretful afterwards, even if I could totally justify my mean behavior...! |
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I can be nice, but it's expensive. I can't.  
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I'm only mean when I have to be.
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dog kickin' mean
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Edited by
transientmind
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Fri 03/20/09 04:15 AM
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I can be nice, but it's expensive. I can't.
Then I was paid my first $100 an hour for a nothing job and it shut up my inner grump. Maybe that's not the average definition of nice but it's a step past working to be civil so as not to waste my precious tic tic on fragile ids and egos. |
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Back me into a corner I'm mean as hell. Mess with my friends/family/loved ones I don't care how big you are I'll cut you off at the knees. I'm not a total b*tch but it's close.
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I believe in the wise words "Don't mistake my acts of kindness as a sign of weakness". I am generally a nice person, but when people hurt the ones I love, hurt others who can't defend themselves, or abuse me (my trust, my help, my love, etc) I am very straightforward in letting them know that they have crossed the line and it is unacceptable.
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I keep a lot of my sweetness and softness tucked behind a somewhat tough exterior.
It's not really a conscious decision, or as the result of any traumatic event; it just takes awhile for a person to get to see the full extent of my character. There are very few who make such an impression on me, that they see the total package right off the bat. The rest get to see it over time. |
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Or do people just have trouble reading you? Both. The ratio fluctuates a bit from day to day. |
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 see im mean lmao!!!! ok night have fun all
Oh yeah...your so harsh, lol. Im going to go sit in the corner and cry now. 
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Or do people just have trouble reading you? Most people have trouble reading me, they tell me I am very abrupt and almost sarcastic when I talk. Its that damn common sense thing, I have it and expect others to as well. |
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Edited by
buttons
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Fri 03/20/09 07:07 AM
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It varies. I know of a lot of people who initially prejudge me to be the world's biggest asshole, but then when they meet me in person, they usually find their initial assumptions were way off-base. It kinda boils down to taking the time to get to know me and understand me, my disposition, my humor, before passing judgement on me, and many people are not willing to do that because they've become so acclimated to this faux sense of "be nice to everyone." News flash -- the world ain't all sunshine and flowers and puppy dogs. I'll be the first to admit that I'm not the easiest person in the world to get along with, but that's only because I refuse to coddle anybody. I don't give a single damn about somebody's little ego. If you have it coming to you, I'm just the guy to give it. If you don't like it, tough. Time to grow a pair and get a backbone. Life itself isn't fair, and it ain't nice. Time to wake up, because it's later than you think. I have a LOT more respect for others like myself who aren't afraid to lay it right on the line than someone who sugar-coats everything in some pathetic, feeble attempt at that idiotic "politically correct" crap. that is so truthful, now for me sometimes though i do feel bad if i hurt someones feelings, however sometimes it takes their feelings getting hurt to face the facts in their situation,not that i inteneded to hurt their feelings, usually ones feelings get hurt though because of theirself but not what the person said, its what the person said that makes reality hit them.
now can i have a spanking with that please?
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Or do people just have trouble reading you? 
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I'm nice.. untill its time not to be nice.. Mean streak
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