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Topic: Need a parents advice
daniel48706's photo
Tue 05/01/07 10:50 PM
thats true lulu and that is also why every state in the us is getting
rid of the ability for a parent to file statutory rape charges; because
so many parents with a 16 y/o daughter finds out sheis sexuallt active
with her 18 y/o boyfriend whom they do not like, and they file stat
charges against him, even though in all reality it was consentual. The
states are changingit to where the state da is the one that can file
those charges andnot the parents, in order to try and take into account
highschool romances and such.

izzie's photo
Wed 05/02/07 01:58 AM
i ssawit mentioned before and i will say it again...



which can youlive with? the loss of a "friend"..... tho i question if i
couldf call someone with so little respect for the wellbeing of her
children a friend.......
or the loss of the innocense of these 2 prescious children....

i kno what i would do, and you kno the right thing as well (or you would
not haveposted for us to back you up) we are all behind you, and tho she
may not think so, she is lucky to have a friend who would care so much
about her family...

Pucks's photo
Wed 05/02/07 09:28 AM
I'd report it.
Its a no brainer because the children are at risk.

no photo
Wed 05/02/07 10:11 AM
report her. you dont want anyone to hurt the babys do you? i feal for
thouse kids i have a 18month old baby girl and i would kill to keep her
safe. call and keep the kids safe and you well feal better just knowing
they are safe

no photo
Wed 05/02/07 11:12 AM
well.. first of all i think there are a lot of unknown circumstances
here... first how do you knwo what he has been convicted of? if you
really do want to know if you know their names you can type in sex
preadators or pedofiles * sp* in google and you'll get a link to wher
you can go and look them up , because they have to notify when they move
and see what type of conviction , plus was this girl like 17 and she
lied to him or was it like she was 10 or something like that... then
from the mother's point of view it is hard when a woman is looking for
someone to love her, she may put her children behind the man when
looking for love, sometimes love blinds us and we try to tell ourselves
people can change because to some they can, but i think she needs to
wisen up but being a bad mom is going a little far.. i think were all
making assumptions based on the small amount of info here. and my
advice is if the creator of this thread is really concerned then they
could try going to social services and asking them about what your
options are as a friend because legally there isn't much you can do
about it until they do, do something to the children.. so my advice.. go
to social service, or a child abuse place and explain it because
anything you get here is just peoples opinions its not really going to
help you

no photo
Wed 05/02/07 11:13 AM
i'm not positive on this but i don't think you can report someone for
merely dating ... or ? leaving? her kids with someone that has a
conviction like that unless they are not allowed to be around
children....

lulu24's photo
Wed 05/02/07 02:36 PM
you can report for just about anything...whether they do anything or not
will be up to the investigator.

RainbowTrout's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:00 PM
Better safe than sorry. The people you call will know what to do.

EmotionalTurbulance's photo
Fri 05/04/07 03:34 PM
guess I would ask how you know for sure theses two guys are sex
offenders.
Know them by name, do ya?
And, If the claim is valid, think you'd done something before now.

Have a sister whom stuck her nose in my business without good cause and
selfishness... tings we were going through didn't look good...

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Fri 05/04/07 04:04 PM
call,explain the situation and see what the authorties say.

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Fri 05/04/07 04:04 PM
call,explain the situation and see what the authorties say.

no photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:23 AM
Why waste time to think call the police like yesterday...

People like that have no rights to be near children period.

There are enough good and honest people in the world that would tell you
the same thing...Read the reply from the prison guard, its well said...

Good luck and let us know

no photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:25 AM
Avoid being sorry
do the right thing

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