Topic: "Dad, what does it mean to be poor?" | |
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I could not find a forum that best describes this topic....
A financially stable father wanted to let his son know what it meant to be poor. So he arranged for his son to spend a weekend with a family from a farm. He would spend three days and two nights living in the country. After the allotted time, the father picked up his son and returning to the city he asked his son: “What do you think of the experience?” “It was okay.” answered the son with his sight fixed in the distance. “And….. What did you learn?” insisted the father. The son answered: “We have one dog, they have four. We have a swimming pool that fills out our yard, they have a never ending river, that flows with cristal clear water, that has fishs. We import Oriental lanterns that light up our garden, they have the stars, the moon and candles to light up their house. “Our yard extends to the fence, their to the horizon. We buy our food, they sow and reap theirs. We listen to CD’s, they have an eternal symphony of birds, frogs, toads and other animals chirping, while sometimes you can hear the neighbor plowing his fields.” “We cook on an electric stove, while all they eat has the taste of charcoal flavor. We live fenced in, with an alarm system, they live with their doors open protected by the friendship of their neighbors.” We live connected to the cellular phone, the television, the computer,… they, in turn, live connected to life, the sky, the earth, the sun, the water, to their animals, their crops and their family.” The father was astound by his son’s deep consciousness on the matter…. Then the son concluded by saying: “thank you, dad, for teaching me how poor we are.” Each day we become weaker in spirit, unable to appreciated the great works of nature our Creator has given us. Hope that this makes you think and re-evaluated your lives somewhat. God Bless you all. |
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Ty for your post. As a rural person, I don't really want what the city
has to offer. It's ok for those who do, but it's not for me. |
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awwww i really enjoyed that! good post
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It’s so true. I forfeited big bucks to live as a poor person in the
country. And without a doubt I’m richer here with no money than I would have been had I stayed in the city and grew a large bank account. Choosing a simple life close to nature over the rat race of the city was the best choice I ever made in my life. Now if I can just find a woman who can appreciate the simple life too I’ll have it made in the shade. |
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Don't want the concrete and asphalt jungle. I would rather live in the
real jungle. |
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and if you live by a corporate run hog feedlot you have?
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This freedom of choice thing, is kind of what it is supposed to be...
How many are living what they choose, and where they choose to live? Great post/thread...there is always a flipside to how we perceive our lives. Thankyou. |
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Nice.
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and a beautiful way to show that there are good points about each
lifestyle. to take the good...that sort of optimism is special. |
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ive gotta say that was a nice story but it doesnt allways workout so
well . not knowing where you are going to live or eat or how to get back an forth to your job an trying to stay clean enough that no one will know you are hungry an without a place to stay sucks going for days on end with no food changes you inside an out . two days makes you hungry 3 makes you sick anything after 4 makes you mean up untill you hit the second week then you get weak from it an not as social towards others some of these so called help places should be shot i only found one that would help me during my crisis back then (helping hands in bentonville) an oh dont forget popular house for the medical. thanks to those i am still around to talk about that time but dont wish to the thing is remembering it an knowing that someone else is there right now living the same . law is no help for the poor there either just more tickets you cant pay. so jail you will eventualy go . had to leave the hometown an then come back after 8 yrs to live an make it financialy . no being poor just sucked bad. i like knowing where my bed is an that i have a meal when i get there. an a job to go to . the bad thing is people posing as poor an standing on corners make it bad for the ones that really are but let me say a poor man will eat what ever hes handed if it is food an he is truly hungry. |
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Izzy, that was a very nice post. I think it's purpose was not so much
to make 'poor' sound enticing as it was to remind us that there are many riches to be had and treasures to be found no matter what walk of life you must take. I know the 'farm' life, it's hard, but the family I have and those that I know living that life, are among the kindest, generous folks I have ever met. Me - I'm the city cousin, dubbed that many many years ago. I like the city, but I also like to think that my fortune is not lacking. For the lessons of your post, I learned through the patience and kindness of my farm family. The reminders of which are always pleasant and worth revisiting. thanks! |
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