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I think he is just a silly little boy getting his jollies by leading you on...
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Have you thought about running a back ground check on him?
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As I understand this.. this will be your first meet? and your planning on a night in a hotel or at home? How in the hell do you even know if your a good fit ? that the chemistry is there. Please don't say well we have talked for months on end. Besides you didn't apparently get enough information to begin with .. home address, phone numbers etc etc...foolish if you ask me. 
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So i've been talking to this guy online for quite sometime now. The only thing is he's been in Iraq the whole time. We've been getting closer in each conversation we've had, talking about what we're going to do when he comes back and what not. He came back the 16th and called me first thing, and from there we made plans to meet today because i didn't have work. So i told him i would make us dinner and everything, and we'd either stay at my house or get a hotel room (if my dad said no to the idea of a guy sleeping in the house)He left me a message on myspace earlier today saying he needed directions and that he tried calling me last night but my phone was dead... i sent him a reply but didn't get anything back. Now i'm sitting in my house all dressed up, dinner's ready, desserts made.. and i don't know what to do.. so whats for dinner can we all just come over and bring a date and have fun anyway?????? 
[/quote Yeah...that was funny! She a young girl all upset...yeah great time for jokes...some peoples kids! |
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i've seen him on webcam while he was over there i could see the other soldiers behind him
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i've seen him on webcam while he was over there i could see the other soldiers behind him  what time was he supposed to there?
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Tue 02/24/09 03:13 PM
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Just sit down and take a deep breath...nothing means nothing yet... i agree with this deduction, and becoming better friends, and having fantasies is healthy for both of you, especially for him, but question this, how many do you think he's talking to, via the other women's deductions on here, and at your age, date around for fun's sake, there's always time to get serious when he gets back, but don't put all feelings in one bucket. enjoy your freedom, and exponentially learn from other people while having coffee with them. |
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Give him the benefit of the doubt, not everything happens as we plan and he might just be telling the truth, trust your feeling since you are the one that knows him the most.
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So i've been talking to this guy online for quite sometime now. The only thing is he's been in Iraq the whole time. We've been getting closer in each conversation we've had, talking about what we're going to do when he comes back and what not. He came back the 16th and called me first thing, and from there we made plans to meet today because i didn't have work. So i told him i would make us dinner and everything, and we'd either stay at my house or get a hotel room (if my dad said no to the idea of a guy sleeping in the house)He left me a message on myspace earlier today saying he needed directions and that he tried calling me last night but my phone was dead... i sent him a reply but didn't get anything back. Now i'm sitting in my house all dressed up, dinner's ready, desserts made.. and i don't know what to do.. Perhaps his wife wouldn't let him go out for the night...? Most likely scenario. |
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My Dear Young Lady;
I would like to add my input to some of the remarks that you have been getting and maybe some advice of my own. I am a combat serviceman (USMC) and I wish to tell you that there was a lot of things both good and bad going on over there. One of the I am afraid to say, was playing 'Head Games' with the young ladies back home. Saying that they wanted to meet with ladies like yourself when they got 'Home', but really know that they were not going to. I am not saying that this person was in fact playing head games with you, but it does go on. So, please do not feel bad about yourself, feel bad for him for treating young ladies, like yourself this way. As for a few of the comments, 'Dinners Ready, when do we eat.....' or some of the other insensitive remarks that were made. They seem to be in worse shape than this person is. I am very sorry that you have been treated this way, but it does happen. Please just learn from this and keep going. There are gentlemen out here of 'Honor and Integrity'. Please keep looking, yours is out here. My best to you. |
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how late is he?
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Thats to bad that this had to happen to you. The samme thing happned to my neice last year, and for her at the time she could not take it so she ran away. All I can say to you is next time you will know not to let that happen to you. Im sure that soon you find soembody who is alot closer and you can actually see with out having to worry about if they are for real or not. Good luck honey something better will come along.
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I think the OP is gone... hopefully because HE showed up offering his apologies
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Her profile says she is still online....
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I think the OP is gone... hopefully because HE showed up offering his apologies
maybe so |
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I think the OP is gone... hopefully because HE showed up offering his apologies
I really hope for her sake that he did show up...she is so young to learn such a heartbreaking lesson...all she ever did was TRUST him... |
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Her profile says she is still online....  I'm not actually here 90% of the time mine says I'm signed on
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Her profile says she is still online.... I'm not actually here 90% of the time mine says I'm signed on
so how does THAT work? |
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i'm still here.. just had to deal with an upsetting phone call that left me in tears... this night is just really working out for me huh? My Best friend just left work so she's on her way over to help me out and thankfully the dinner i just made won't go to waste, still doesnt help that i'm crying (not over the guy)
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I don't know his house number and he doesnt have a cell phone (when they're across seas they're not allowed to have their cell phones) so he's been calling me from differant numbers each time he calls Ummm...sorry to tell you this...but my friends call me from overseas from their cells and it doesnt look very good. Sorry sweetie. |
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