So i've been talking to this guy online for quite sometime now. The only thing is he's been in Iraq the whole time. We've been getting closer in each conversation we've had, talking about what we're going to do when he comes back and what not. He came back the 16th and called me first thing, and from there we made plans to meet today because i didn't have work. So i told him i would make us dinner and everything, and we'd either stay at my house or get a hotel room (if my dad said no to the idea of a guy sleeping in the house)He left me a message on myspace earlier today saying he needed directions and that he tried calling me last night but my phone was dead... i sent him a reply but didn't get anything back. Now i'm sitting in my house all dressed up, dinner's ready, desserts made.. and i don't know what to do..

have you tried Calling him?

I don't know his house number and he doesnt have a cell phone (when they're across seas they're not allowed to have their cell phones) so he's been calling me from differant numbers each time he calls

Just sit down and take a deep breath...nothing means nothing yet...

not knowing his house number is a little fishy you ask me?
and do you even know how old he actually is

What does his age have to do with her dilemma?

actually nothing unless hes lying to her about his age

Perhaps his wife wouldn't let him go out for the night...?

he's 25, he lives down in penn grove nj.. and he didn't give me his house number because it kinda wasn't needed, i mean the whole time we were talking he was in iraq... and then he's been calling me from like.. his friends phone's everytime he calls.. i mean he's been in iraq for a while now and he's catching up with other friends... but atleast he takes the time to call even when he's with other people

R U sure he's really in Iraq, the cell phone story isn't exactly ture?

I agree that's a little suspicious... But It's possible he's on his way but is lost or runnning late.

yea I've had some friends over in Iraq and they had cell phones... but that doesn't mean EVERYONE can.

But that is not the issue here.

You keep in mind right now...if he doesn't show up...its him not you...your adorable!

my problem is that he only seems to call you when he ISN'T at home.

Sounds to me that he's usuing other people's phones so you have no way of contacting him, which means he dosn't want you to know any more than he's told you.

Yes

As I understand this.. this will be your first meet? and your planning on a night in a hotel or at home? How in the hell do you even know if your a good fit ? that the chemistry is there. Please don't say well we have talked for months on end. Besides you didn't apparently get enough information to begin with .. home address, phone numbers etc etc...foolish if you ask me.

so whats for dinner can we all just come over and bring a date and have fun anyway??????

It is entirely possible he's telling the truth. But it does come off as a lil shady... you should have some other way of contacting him other than Myspace or waiting until he calls you.