This is what I have been asking. I am new to the dating scene after an 18 year abusive marriage. I have been on this site and others which are Christian and the profiles read seeking Christian female who truly loves the Lord and when you reply they sometimes don't respond Godly. If a Christian man is looking for a "christian" in name only then he may pass on me. I write how I speak, which makes many references to God and the Word, but many men don't seem to like that. Its odd, they ask for it but turn around and think you are Bible thumping. But I won't change who I am or stop talking about God, I prefer to find a REAL Christian man who is like-minded who enjoy talking about God and the Bible. Maybe one day he will come. I am waiting on God this time and not "choosing" on my own.