Maybe some one could answer this question. I have gotten a few messages
sent to me on this site and the woman askes me to message her back but
at her e-mail address. Is this common or are these people just after
your address to sell or something? Could us some help here.
Thx!

Be careful its probbly sales stuff. Tell them you will email back and
forth on here, and IM later. If they don't respond back-you will know
what they were. Careful-scam's all over out there..

both.. some ppl prefer not to have to come on the site to be able to
talk to you, and that way they can instant message where they feel more
comfortable.... others may be just wanting to sell but mike n van are
usualy on top of keeping these sorts out of here.. it is your choice if
you wantto talk in here or out there.. have fun ether way....

sounds like the russian scam thing, be careful

the usual answer is scam...

I have had those mails, and I just tell the that I rather keep any
correspondence through on site mail. They usually disappear or say Fine.

My 0.02

Sounds like the guys telling me in the first mail, how much they love me
after reading my profile and then giving out their
instant IM's and ask me to get in contact instantly

Thank so much for the advice. I kind of thought along the same lines and
messaged her back through the site.

I have a story and it goes like this. Charles4Love was a hunka hunka,
and I think he picked me out of the air. He was in Austria it turned
out, but looking for a good woman....well something like that. Anyway we
cut to the chase. Charles wanted my email address. He found out I had 2,
the major ones, and he said well send me both. How he found out I will
never know. So, with the one there was never any activity, so I sent it.
And then I said that I was passing him along to all my younger friends
as he was a pup. Well, Charles deactiviated, and guess what. That
inactive email address will fill up now with as many as 25 a day, and
the bulk mail will have as many as 125 overnight. How how the hell did
they get my email address, I think it was Charles that did it, but I
will never know. He is long gone, but he sure was cute. End of
story.

Guess that's kind of what I am afraid of.

Thanks Duffy!

mmm.. if he was cute it was worthit..hehe

hotmail is a good place to park your spam

ive gotten a few like that but generally you can tell if they are
genuine.look at me..what would a 29 yr old possibly want me for except
my money? too be safe dont respond.

Thanks Steve and Sweet, good advice!