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Edited by
Derekkye
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Wed 01/28/09 12:35 PM
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Am I shallow for letting a woman's weight influence my decision to date her? i don't mean 5-15 lbs overweight - more like 25+ pounds
-other than her weight I quite liked her |
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yes............
and............ No............. |
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Your choice...all I can say is thank you, at least that is the possibility of me finding a good woman raised by another 1%...
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Nope. To each his own. Everyone has reasons.
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you are free to date whomever you chose; regardless if considered shallow by anyone
you chose not to date women overweight by at least 25 lbs. I am sure there are women who will not date hairy men. Good thing we are so diverse 
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no you are not...I feel the same way...and have thought much as you do...but people are attracted to different body types...
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Your choice...all I can say is thank you, at least that is the possibility of me finding a good woman raised by another 1%... everything is 50% - you either do or dont |
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This could go so wrong---lol.(I am few extra pounds).Will be
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as long as you don't come right out and announce that is the reason you're not interested in someone, i don't think so.
it's just like preferring a blond over a brunette IMO |
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Freedom of Choice!
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put it this way some are just ugly inside and out she can lose weight and 25 lbs isnt horrible IMO, but its the one thats in the situations decision
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now whip it
whip it good 
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no you are not...I feel the same way...and have thought much as you do...but people are attracted to different body types... perhaps, but if I was "blind" like shallow hal I'd be dating her me thinks |
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as long as you don't come right out and announce that is the reason you're not interested in someone, i don't think so. it's just like preferring a blond over a brunette IMO she preferred honesty as do I - I told her straight up |
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This could go so wrong---lol.(I am few extra pounds).Will be on this one...lol...
I'm right there with you. |
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Am I shallow for letting a woman's weight influence my decision to date her? i don't mean 5-15 lbs overweight - more like 25+ pounds -other than her weight I quite liked her I don't think having preferences make you shallow -- it makes you selective. Everybody has preferences -- but there are some who just don't like to admit it. Stick with what you know you want -- anything less is a concession....Hey, I take some grief over my preferences, but I've "been there, done that" -- I've seen the results when I'm NOT selective enough -- and I DON'T want to waste my time going back there.... |
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This could go so wrong---lol.(I am few extra pounds).Will be on this one...lol...
I've seen your bod - you're fine really...as an aside I prefer women with a few extra pounds vs slim... 
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Yes..........and no.
You should endevor to remember that weight is a transient condition. The chick can loose the weight....and will still be the woman you already like on the inside. You might find some woman with a kick ass body.....and choose her. But she just might turn out to be a ho. I'd go with how she makes you feel on the inside. Take it from there. I'm sure you have plenty of time before it gets too serious to decide whether or not you can deal with her extra weight.....or if she intends to do anything about it. |
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Not at all. Physical attraction is a must....that said it goes both ways.
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Just because a person is one weight when you meet them doesn't mean that they'll be the same weight when they're older. |
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