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i feel for you. usually if i used the L word the girl bolts.
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 Poor thing, try to forget him, he sounds like a jerk. Move on...find better, and I do not think being friends will be a good idea, he may just end up using you. From the way you describe him it sounds like a real possibility.
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Poor thing, try to forget him, he sounds like a jerk. Move on...find better, and I do not think being friends will be a good idea, he may just end up using you. From the way you describe him it sounds like a real possibility.
=[ the feeling is getting worse..oh well. it's only been 1 day... |
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is it possible to get that seriously involved in 3 weeks to get that upset? too have the emotions of a teenager again
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so I'm back..after 3 weeks. eh the guy wouldn't call me his girlfriend. it was like he was ashamed of me or something. We went way to fast and not even a week ago he told me he loved me..but now we won't be talking anymore... ended last night. i screwed up pretty bad. begged for forgiveness..no i didn't cheat. i guess asking a girl he didn't mention at all if they were just friends made him really mad. he was really rude to me then. saying "ill consider calling you again"...couldn't forgive me. i dont know why guys complain about girls cheating on them and when they find one who won't they kick them to the curb. cried my eyes out, had chills, threw up..i felt like i had the flu. but for me it's cry one day and move on the next. I'm back and he's only made me stronger than ever. good for you.......ta hell with him!!!! Find a guy that'll treat ya right!!!!! |
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is it possible to get that seriously involved in 3 weeks to get that upset? too have the emotions of a teenager again eh i have more emotions then most people...better than having none! |
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..boys can be awful jerks sometimes..
roco |
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so I'm back..after 3 weeks. eh the guy wouldn't call me his girlfriend. it was like he was ashamed of me or something. We went way to fast and not even a week ago he told me he loved me..but now we won't be talking anymore... ended last night. i screwed up pretty bad. begged for forgiveness..no i didn't cheat. i guess asking a girl he didn't mention at all if they were just friends made him really mad. he was really rude to me then. saying "ill consider calling you again"...couldn't forgive me. i dont know why guys complain about girls cheating on them and when they find one who won't they kick them to the curb. cried my eyes out, had chills, threw up..i felt like i had the flu. but for me it's cry one day and move on the next. I'm back and he's only made me stronger than ever. you were together only 3 weeks, yet you're having chills, bawling, throwing up because he broke up with you? and then forgetting about him the next day? that doesn't sound very healthy to me. |
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So a girl, (who cares if he had mentioned her or not) texts him and you jump the gun and ask if they were more then just friends? Did you ever stop and think that you asking about the other girl was a red flag to him that you might be the jealous type? If a guy did that to me, the warning bells would be ringing loudly and I'd dump him in a heartbeat. And he probably figured if you did it once, you'd do it again and didn't want to bother with that kind of drama.
Good for him for paying attention to the warning sign! I guess maybe next time (or hopefully) you won't let your emotions get away carried away and you'll let something like that go. |
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Edited by
Krimsa
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Thu 01/29/09 05:26 AM
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I think you made an important observation of your own conduct. You moved a little too fast. I suggest on your next meeting that you take things MUCH slower and truly get to know the man before moving into relationship territory and certainly into physical contact.
Remember who you are and that you are an important human being and that your love is worth something. Hold out for the right man and this one wasn’t it. |
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is it possible to get that seriously involved in 3 weeks to get that upset? too have the emotions of a teenager again eh i have more emotions then most people...better than having none! I totally agree .. I'd rather wear my heart on my sleeve any day. 
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Girl forget him and move on
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So a girl, (who cares if he had mentioned her or not) texts him and you jump the gun and ask if they were more then just friends? Did you ever stop and think that you asking about the other girl was a red flag to him that you might be the jealous type? If a guy did that to me, the warning bells would be ringing loudly and I'd dump him in a heartbeat. And he probably figured if you did it once, you'd do it again and didn't want to bother with that kind of drama. Good for him for paying attention to the warning sign! I guess maybe next time (or hopefully) you won't let your emotions get away carried away and you'll let something like that go. wow.nice advice! yeah i already pointed out that i was wrong. you didn't have to rub it in my face. how rude! if you don't have anything nice to say to someone don't say it. im glad i did what i did. i deserve better =] |
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is it possible to get that seriously involved in 3 weeks to get that upset? too have the emotions of a teenager again eh i have more emotions then most people...better than having none! I totally agree .. I'd rather wear my heart on my sleeve any day.
thanks. so many people are here are so heartless and rude! the reason i was so upset cause I haven't been treated right by any guy. and he was a good guy. I guess something about him was I couldn't trust him. and in a relationship that's really important to me. I can trust other guys, but he couldn't call me his girlfriend so yeah I'm gonna wonder if I'm being played. |
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So a girl, (who cares if he had mentioned her or not) texts him and you jump the gun and ask if they were more then just friends? Did you ever stop and think that you asking about the other girl was a red flag to him that you might be the jealous type? If a guy did that to me, the warning bells would be ringing loudly and I'd dump him in a heartbeat. And he probably figured if you did it once, you'd do it again and didn't want to bother with that kind of drama. Good for him for paying attention to the warning sign! I guess maybe next time (or hopefully) you won't let your emotions get away carried away and you'll let something like that go. wow.nice advice! yeah i already pointed out that i was wrong. you didn't have to rub it in my face. how rude! if you don't have anything nice to say to someone don't say it. im glad i did what i did. i deserve better =] I wasn't being rude. That was just me giving my honest opinion. Stick around long enough and you'll find out quickly not everyone is going to tell you what you want to hear. And he probably deserved better as well. And that was just my opinion too!
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sweetheart you betrayed his trust and disrespected him. Violated his privacy and also disrespected yourself by begging...you are too good to beg anyone honey. cry your tears and watch some Dr.Phil
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