if you were dating a siamese twin, and you slept with the twin?

maybe not as long as the first one knows about it.

agreed it is a possible way round cheating

that's kinky but definitely not cheating!

If they were both aware of it and consenting to it? No. Of course not.

Are you guys serious? Your definitions of cheating are sooo skewed.

how so?

and your definition is...?

Just so I have this straight, you guys are saying that if you are dating one peron, sleeping with that person's twin would not be cheating? I don't understand that logic.

Sex with conjoined twins would be pretty weird. There may not even be an opening depending on how they were fused together. Usually ones brain is more dominant so they might consider it one person. You would have to ask them.

Unless I am wrong Siamese twins are attach together so there lies the logic of this thread.

nope we just say i thought it was you ooops

Oh conjoined? lol That would still be cheating, but the other would be right there while it was happening so hopefully she'd hit you up side your head before you really got into it.

it appears like it is fuzzy logic!

no

You can't do one without the other around so no it is not cheating but EXTREMELY twisted.

I'll try anything once

I would think since most attached twins still have seperate personalities and identities even if they share body parts it would be cheating.

However I would think you would have to address such a rare and personal situation with everyone involved if they decided to reveal such private information.

Historically they have married and maintained intimate relationships with mates so I would expect they have delt with the same social issues as everyone else.

Just because a person has a way that they are different doesn't mean you suspend the same rules of dignity and respect. Or have to lower their standards to compensate.

One of the things that having a disability hopefully teaches you is how to cope with emotions, the value of a good relationship, and how to survive without one. Not painlessly or nearly as much help as people might think.

Sadley it is statisticlly hugely more likely for the so called normal person in a relationship to betray or abandon the other. Makes me wonder what kind of person who would find that acceptable even for a fling.

Or the people who calously discuss the differently able person as if they are not real people with real feelings like everyone else. It is not acceptable to discuss the nuances of emotional/sexual relationships with any other group of people and suggest they abandon their rights as second class citizens.

Perhaps with more education and integration more people will understand that "ableism" is indeed bigotry and eliteism. That it HURTS as people in the very wide world of the Mingle population hear themselves indirectly discussed and realize how far there is to still go.