So I am on the phone with my dad talking cars (just recently totaled my car) and I get a call from a blocked ID. I switch over and some girl is talking in a fake southern accent saying how I own money for shrooms. Obviously a prank call I switch back over to talk to my dad. I get another call but dont answer.

I get off the phone with my dad and I have a voicemail so I listen. Its the same girl doing the same accent. Basically they say I am cute and and sing "hey hey you you I can be your girlfriend" Then say I should "break up with that girl"
The girl I think they are referring to is my tutor and those of you that know that complicated mess know we are not dating, but I wish we were.

I think I know who this is, but they are totally hung up on their ex and many times have said they were not willing to date anyone cause they were not ready to move on. Basically we have been hanging out a lot and complaining about our bad relationships and keeping each other company.

(my tutor just came back in town last night and called me to let me know she was back in town and wanted to see if I was doing ok, but has been ignoring me all day)

Same thing happened to me

ok if youre not ready ur not ready...dont bore people with ypur sad and boring stories...people dont care...they wannna get to now you not ur ex...

Read. Its not my ex. Its her ex.

That's weird to get a phone call like that. I don't know how I'd react if I received a call like that...but from a guy.

well did you secretly enjoy the attention this caller gave you or did you find it rather annoying?
was it flattering or a little disturbing? lol


and what is the story behind the tutor and why did she call you then ignore you? is this the norm of the relationship between the two of you?

I beg to differ, some of us here do actually care. The forums are a great place to vent, ask questions, get opinions, and feel a comradery.

JMO

yeah a guy imitating a southern girl asking to be my gf would be a lil weird./....tho id say my ex bf would prob do something just like that to mess with me when he gets bored. the other day he called as my pet ferret while i was at work. i like the new 'do chicka

yeah ive taken to ignoring the tacky posts all together. dont let them discourage you.

The weird calls are a red flag. Stay away!

I will fill you in on my tutor as short and sweet as possible. I am 23 and she is 28. She is japanese and been in the country for 2 years. I take japanese as a hobbie and thats how we met. Its gotten very physical. I like her a lot and I know she likes me, but doesnt think we should be together. I am not really sure why. She mentions age, nationality, how we met, I am too good for her, etc. Before I left town for christmas she said she might be gone on a trip when I got back but wouldnt tell me where. She also let it slip that she loved me. (after that night she tried to take it back). I saw her the night I came back, she was acting distant as she does when she feels what we are doing is wrong. She told me she had to get up early and hugged me and said she was gonna miss me. Apparently she left town the next morning so was gone about 3 weeks. Called me last night as she was unpacking saying she was in town and wanted to see if I was alright. She wont respond to my text or answer my calls.

Thanks. It's a few years old (picture). But, I can do my hair like that if I pinned my hair up in curls. I miss the short style, but I also missed my long hair.

Your ex, a bit over the top with the ferret phone call.

Well, I live in NY but am from Louisiana and I dont have a "southern jaw' or anything, but ever now and then people say I have a little bit of an accent and ask where I am from. That could be why she did it (and also to disguise her voice) We just talked about it the other night.

Regarding the prank call: WHO THE "F" CARES? Just ignore it. It sounds completely stupid and totally immature, treat it as such, dude.

Regarding the tutor: You were whining/lusting for this chick months ago when I was on here. Trust me, if she were really into you, you wouldn't even be here yakking about her still. She's just using you, for some reason or another. She is NOT in love with you, nor ever will be. Face it and move on, man!

Just being honest here.

Thats your opinion, but I know this girl and you don't. I know when she looks me in the eyes like she does that she cares. I am only still around because I chose to be. She doesn't try to make me do stuff with her, I try to get her to do stuff with me. I have a lot of female friends that also know a lot more of the details and they think she is into me, but its gonna take time if it will ever work and I have to decide if I think its worth it or not.

Agreed, it is just my opinion. But, c'mon, man...what's the deal? You have been suffering with this sh*t for MONTHS now, right? Be honest with the situation here, is she married or hitched in some other way or what? *rolls eyes*

Sure, she can "look" at you in a caring manner when you are together (who doesn't in a situation like yours?). But, what really matters is how she behaves when you are apart, and it certainly doesn't appear very "caring" towards you at all by completely ignoring you. Yes, again, that's just MY opinion.

I'll double-dip here to just say, she is your TUTOR, Chaz...and you both are consenting adults.

If she really wanted you in her life in a loving relationship, she could easily sever the tutor relationship because it is not governed by the school system and you both are consenting adults.

You could easily find another tutor and proceed to build a life with this woman. She knows this, but continues to use the drama crutch with you of "oh, what should I do, I just don't know, oh poor me, love me, but I'm going to hide for awhile, I don't want to hurt you, but love me...blah, blah, blah".

Shake this chick loose, man! She is tweeked and severely troubled with capital "T's"...IMO!

The strange voicemail wasn't from the girl I thought it was. Now I am really confused.

cool...a tutor and student post...this is just like The Penthouse Forum...be seeing you