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.......scared of men that actually treat them good? 
Because they wear scary ax murderer costumes and wake us up in the middle of the night standing over us in the dark........oh wait....that's a different kind of guy..... Heyyyy. I've only done that ONCE. 
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i wonder if it ever occured to anyone that the reason she isn't interested in you in because there IS no interest. that her past experiences have nothing at all to do with her rejection of the male? If that is the case then she is a good liar too. oh? so you are THAT wonderful, THAT irresistable, THAT perfect that it couldn't possibly have anything to do with you? it MUST be HER fault huh? no wonder they are scared. I didn't say that at all. It's no ones fault. Her feelings are her feelings but i feel it's a little unfair to be given the reason that you are too good to me. Female translation: You don't let me go to the bathroom without having to check behind me to make sure you are out of the way... You give me no space and you annoy the CRAP out of me with your incessant desire to smother me. In other words, She was being nice and Not saying; "Your a weenie and a push over there fore you suck. Go away." Pretty much, but she didn't do the next girl he dates any favors.... And people think I'm mean.... 
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i wonder if it ever occured to anyone that the reason she isn't interested in you in because there IS no interest. that her past experiences have nothing at all to do with her rejection of the male? If that is the case then she is a good liar too. oh? so you are THAT wonderful, THAT irresistable, THAT perfect that it couldn't possibly have anything to do with you? it MUST be HER fault huh? no wonder they are scared. Wow I think ya'll are on a different subject... Oh well |
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i wonder if it ever occured to anyone that the reason she isn't interested in you in because there IS no interest. that her past experiences have nothing at all to do with her rejection of the male? If that is the case then she is a good liar too. oh? so you are THAT wonderful, THAT irresistable, THAT perfect that it couldn't possibly have anything to do with you? it MUST be HER fault huh? no wonder they are scared. I didn't say that at all. It's no ones fault. Her feelings are her feelings but i feel it's a little unfair to be given the reason that you are too good to me. Female translation: You don't let me go to the bathroom without having to check behind me to make sure you are out of the way... You give me no space and you annoy the CRAP out of me with your incessant desire to smother me. In other words, She was being nice and Not saying; "Your a weenie and a push over there fore you suck. Go away." There is a difference between being a weenie and a push over and being a guy who knows how to treat a lady |
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Hier kommt die Clowns im komischen kleinen Auto.... Der Zirkus IST in der Stadt...
Ich liebe den Zirkus Das ist unterhaltend SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Nette Kerle werden IMMER geschraubt, tun Sie nicht Sie wissen, es ist cuz wir Frau-Leute sind schlecht, und wir wissen ein gutes Ding nicht, wenn wir es sehen, ist es auch, weil wir WIRKLICH einen langweiligen wissen und Ding sabbern, wenn wir es sehen... Ooops, ich vermisste gerade den Bären im Ballettröckchen... VERDAMMT |
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 I don't allow myself get "nice guyed"
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.......scared of men that actually treat them good?
When it gets really serious, eventually you'll meet her father. Usually, and at this point, you'll have an epiphany, or a black eye, if he's particularly mean. |
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Edited by
directandwrite
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Wed 01/14/09 09:33 PM
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"There is a difference between being a weenie and a push over and being a guy who knows how to treat a lady" Touche...Bring on the gentlemen! 
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There is a difference between being a weenie and a push over and being a guy who knows how to treat a lady
just because a guy knows (or thinks he knows) how to treat a lady, that doesn't necessarily ensure that she is going to be interested and attracted to him. some guys seem to expect that because they are showing her attention, like her, treat her kindly, etc., that it will automatically be reciprocated based on that alone. when it doesn't happen, they can't seem to see that it might not be anything to do with them, with her, with past experiences, but rather everything to do with rapport and chemistry. |
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"There is a difference between being a weenie and a push over and being a guy who knows how to treat a lady" Touche...Bring on the gentlemen!
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There is a difference between being a weenie and a push over and being a guy who knows how to treat a lady
just because a guy knows (or thinks he knows) how to treat a lady, that doesn't necessarily ensure that she is going to be interested and attracted to him. some guys seem to expect that because they are showing her attention, like her, treat her kindly, etc., that it will automatically be reciprocated based on that alone. when it doesn't happen, they can't seem to see that it might not be anything to do with them, with her, with past experiences, but rather everything to do with rapport and chemistry. and then some guys can just say "shut up and git in the truck" |
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"There is a difference between being a weenie and a push over and being a guy who knows how to treat a lady" Touche...Bring on the gentlemen!
Thanks Jaxx...it's about time some guys got a clue! 
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There is a difference between being a weenie and a push over and being a guy who knows how to treat a lady
just because a guy knows (or thinks he knows) how to treat a lady, that doesn't necessarily ensure that she is going to be interested and attracted to him. some guys seem to expect that because they are showing her attention, like her, treat her kindly, etc., that it will automatically be reciprocated based on that alone. when it doesn't happen, they can't seem to see that it might not be anything to do with them, with her, with past experiences, but rather everything to do with rapport and chemistry. and then some guys can just say "shut up and git in the truck" yes. yes they can. 
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theres me nthat actuallly treat women good where i have never found one ever....
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Personally, I'm usually the one doing the spoiling and the treating well. So, I would gladly welcome a relationship where the man treats me good as well... and spoils me too.
I think we might be screwing the pooch here, ladies.... I wouldn't want to ruin a good thing if I had a man that treated me so well. Hopefully, he'll find me here... or I'll find him. A girl can dream, can't she????
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There is a difference between being a weenie and a push over and being a guy who knows how to treat a lady
just because a guy knows (or thinks he knows) how to treat a lady, that doesn't necessarily ensure that she is going to be interested and attracted to him. some guys seem to expect that because they are showing her attention, like her, treat her kindly, etc., that it will automatically be reciprocated based on that alone. when it doesn't happen, they can't seem to see that it might not be anything to do with them, with her, with past experiences, but rather everything to do with rapport and chemistry. and then some guys can just say "shut up and git in the truck" yes. yes they can.
Wow Someone needs a hug.. )))) Papersmile (((( There you go... Yes there must be chemistry.. but I think that isn't what this topic is about.. I enjoy your comments though... everyone made me want to give you a hug.. So I did... I hope you find your Perfect man |
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There is a difference between being a weenie and a push over and being a guy who knows how to treat a lady
just because a guy knows (or thinks he knows) how to treat a lady, that doesn't necessarily ensure that she is going to be interested and attracted to him. some guys seem to expect that because they are showing her attention, like her, treat her kindly, etc., that it will automatically be reciprocated based on that alone. when it doesn't happen, they can't seem to see that it might not be anything to do with them, with her, with past experiences, but rather everything to do with rapport and chemistry. and then some guys can just say "shut up and git in the truck" yes. yes they can.
Wow Someone needs a hug.. )))) Papersmile (((( There you go... Yes there must be chemistry.. but I think that isn't what this topic is about.. I enjoy your comments though... everyone made me want to give you a hug.. So I did... I hope you find your Perfect man thanks, i have the perfect man for me and i get all the hugs i need from him. that might not be the original topic, but it boils down to that, in my opinion. no girl wants a guy who treats them like crap. but just because they are 'nice' to us, it doesn't guarantee interest. all the 'nice guys' that i see post seem to think that because they are nice and the girl doesn't want them, that there is an issue the girl happens to have. yet, if they looked at themselves, therein the problem may lay. or, it may be just as simple as there being no mutual chemistry. i guess i'm trying to say that it isn't always a 'girls don't want nice guys' scenario. |
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Edited by
JoeW99
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Wed 01/14/09 10:50 PM
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thanks, i have the perfect man for me and i get all the hugs i need from him. that might not be the original topic, but it boils down to that, in my opinion. no girl wants a guy who treats them like crap. but just because they are 'nice' to us, it doesn't guarantee interest. all the 'nice guys' that i see post seem to think that because they are nice and the girl doesn't want them, that there is an issue the girl happens to have. yet, if they looked at themselves, therein the problem may lay. or, it may be just as simple as there being no mutual chemistry. i guess i'm trying to say that it isn't always a 'girls don't want nice guys' scenario. I don't think she is being cold or disrepectful.. if anything i would call her blunt. Sadly she is closer to the answer then most of you will ever be. A guy is taught from early on, if you like someone be nice to them. The flip-side of that, which noone seemed to explain to these guys, is that there still has to be some type of attraction there. Weither mentally, physically, or whatever.. You can be the nicest guy in the world and have nothing desirable about you to a future mate. So while you are sitting there grabbing another doughnut, scratching parts of your body that havn't been washed in a week and feeling sorry for yourself. Understand... being nice isn't going to make this other stuff go away. There are enough "why me?" people in the world, don't become one of them. This is me being blunt. |
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.......scared of men that actually treat them good?
They are waiting for the other shoe to drop. 
To be truthful, they don't want to be owned. A guy who treats a girl "nice" wants something like commitment or perhaps he is just showing his Dr. Jeckel personality and she hasn't met Mr. Hyde yet. |
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Understood. i appreciate everyones comments and opinions and there was something there from both sides.It wasn't a one sided relationship at all. I was just trying to get some insight on the situation. Thanks
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