It was just hard considering that he was my boss! Well hoping still IS my boss.

awwww sorry

i couldnt of dealt with it either been thinking about it a lot....

Oh I am so sorry, I think you did the right thing I also believe if he blew up like that then there was more to hide.

I hope you can find another job quickly. Sounds like you are lucky in the long run to be well rid of him.

oh this is melodrama big time. she was boinking her boss? and he was lying about his age...5 years, and he works for the govt? CIA or FBI?

brilliant post...some people really do need to get a life...again great post it made my day...be seeing you

hey u sane prisoner? u making fun of me or what..
that is what i read. she is boinking her boss, picks his pockets to find out he is 5 years older or younger, and i forgot....so then, he gets pissed off, and she feels the pain of being lied to, while he probably does it everyday of his life while working for the govt...x files thriller.
so they split up, and she goes home and OD's on cookies and chocolate. they find her bloated the next morning with a love note explaining what killed her.

Oh. different can, same worms. You'll probably hear this from at least a half dozen people but... WHAT WERE YOU THINKING!!! Wouldn't a polar bear be safer than an employer to date?

a lot of guys online, also...........

I have the same ones perv me and they get younger every day.
If you'll lie about your age, you'll lie about anything....

yup.
Did I read he was already 17 years older anyway? I can see a few years difference, but once you start going deep into the double digits it seems kind of creepy to me, I mean, this dude was practically past puberty before you were even born...yikes. Good luck with the outcome, sometimes bad stuff happening is the only opportunity we have to learn from our mistakes.

50, honest.

So I didnt read all the posts here but hey I dont have that much patience im only human.
Whisper,, so its not so much the age as it is the lie?? Or is is both? I mean the guy you see, met and obviously fell for is still the same guy. Hes only a little bit dirtier now.
You have a few options in my book.
1. you can get even
2. you can get an apology and discuss your future with him.
3. you can cut to the chase and drop him like a hot rock.

Good luck with it and Im glad its him dating a 28 year old lol. "oh mah heart,, I think its the Big One Lamont"

wow.

so update..

whats happened?

OK, this board was never meant to be in issue about my age prefrence. Yea he was a little older then me, but so what? If he had told me that he was 50 and not 45, it still would have not made a difference, I would have still had the same feelings for him. Yes, he is my boss but really how can you help who you like? It is over, he is gone. A lot of people on here was right, a lie is a lie.

That is a major diff sh$t he is almost old enuff 2 b your grandfather?? Blow this joint? What tf!

Great mathematical skills:)

Excuse me WTF

Aw yeah I bet he is more careful about where he drops his pants? Or about what falls out of his pants? Whatevva

WOW is right! It was us, (society) that told him he had to fit within a certain 'bracket' to have a chance with her. Life is too short to worry about all the 'facts'! If it feels good to YOU 'in the moment', Go for it! Grab all the happyness you can as it comes around. Regret nothing, but please learn from it. Nothing is permenent, every thing changes. You have to grow & evolve to participate. Regret,guilt,shame,anger & intolerance will take it's toll before your time. Expect nothing and you won't be disapointed!
also- did he look 45-or 50? did he act 45-or 50? did you two 'click'? sounds like it, at least for now. So does it really matter? Yea so there was some forced dis-info out there, deal with it if you want some joy! Throw it in the 'useless' pile & do what your heart & 'gut' says! --& OK- the 20+ age difference- is he 100lbs overweight,MacDonalds everyday for lunch, beer& pizza every nite for dinner, no exercise & your a proper height/weight ratio,fitness freak vegitarian- well MAYBE you got 10-15 years together. :)

SO, HE'S FIVE YEARS OLDER OR FIVE YEARS YOUNGER - WHICHEVER!? HE'S STILL THE SAME GUY YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH. JUST APPRECIATE HIM AS HE IS! MAYBE IT WAS A CLERICAL MIX-UP OR JUST A GENUINE MISTAKE. DO YOU LOVE HIM ANY LESS? OR ARE YOU INCREDIBLY PICKY??? IT'S NOT LIKE HE'S PETER STRINGFELLOW AND HIS BIKINI PANTS!!! A 63YR OLD..