No.. as long as there being honest and either trying to look for work or going to school.. at least trying to move on with there lifes.

I can understand if there unable to work and have to get some extra help from the goverment, but as long as there at least trying I don't see the problem.

Just as long as there not lazy and all, doesn't turn out to be a gold digger in the end.

Yes......




as long as it's NOT with me

with the way the economy is right now you can't be too picky!! As long as there is honesty and effort it shouldn't be a problem!!

Not really, no. There's alot of free stuff to do, but I doubt very much I would be seen as a potential mate if my priorities had dating above survival.

As long as your honest about it sure.

The way the economy is going a lot more people will be unemployed.

Just because someone doesn't have a job, doesn't mean that they aren't worthy of love and friendship.

I may get some heat for this one but for a woman yes, a man no. Simply because society dictates the man pay. No job, no money, no date.

I myself have a job pt time and ive been so busy doing other things i need to get back on the full time job hunt.... my answer is no cause i need the time to focus on me and not on my relationship, not fair to the other person..

Half of society dictates. The female half

I wonder what happen to equal rights?

We have the equal right to decide to pay or let the man pay

I thought it was like a 50/50 thingy

It would make dating very difficult. In my opinion, the person would be obligated to share this information, hopefully sooner, rather than later.

If you plan on getting a job and are currently seeking a job, that should not stop a relationship from developing.

if the person is up front with it then I would'nt mind, hey it does happens

And we have the right to decide if we want to take their unemployed or unwilling to contribute butts out! However, I do understand that it's a sellers market. I choose not to buy.

Um, which society is that? You'll have to speak for yourself on that one.

I don't even like "Dutch", why divvy it up? I like the Irish way, "I'll get this one, you can treat me next time."

As for the OP, a person that loves you will love you for youself, not your job. You've just got to find the one w/ that perspective.

Still, I feel the question. Don't want to date when I'm down in the chips, that a man not even consider money is my motive. Plus, when I'm down in my account, I feel as af I need my space to focus on pulling back up.

I guess we know who will be paying for the dates

not as long as you are honest about it

As long as you're not mooching and be honest, I don't see why it would be inappropriate.