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Topic: Intellectual compatability
quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Sun 01/25/09 02:46 PM
it's not rocket surgery

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Sun 01/25/09 02:55 PM
Lady needs a passion I don't care if it's passion for quilting or passion for helping stray cats or passion for designing jewelry or passion to dig up graveyards. Just have a passionate enjoyment of life!! We can discuss intellect later...and I certainly like to play Inspector Gadget, but I am not up to outsmarting any woman.

Wacodude Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 783	Sun 01/25/09 03:15 PM
How important is intellectual compatibility in a relationship? Do most people look for mates that are of similar intelligence to themselves? Personally, if I'm in it for the long haul then I want a woman that can think. If she can constantly make ME think, then she's definately a keeper. As far as for when I'm on the prowl, I may just look for a pretty face that's as dumb as a pile of rocks if I'm just looking for for something to get me by.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 01/25/09 05:57 PM
... but I am not up to outsmarting any woman. And you don't have 'em lining up to meet you??? Whats up with THAT???

Redshirt Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 2109	Sun 01/25/09 05:59 PM
How important is intellectual compatibility in a relationship? Do most people look for mates that are of similar intelligence to themselves? Very important. You have be to be able to have something to talk about.

TheOnceGreat Joined Fri 11/28/08 Posts: 1569	Sun 01/25/09 06:02 PM
As the years add up, looks become less important, the ability to communicate becomes more important. True love is inside out. And remember the words of Ron White "You can't fix stupid"

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/04/09 03:40 PM
As the years add up, looks become less important, the ability to communicate becomes more important. True love is inside out. And remember the words of Ron White "You can't fix stupid"

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 03/04/09 06:58 PM
... but I am not up to outsmarting any woman. And you don't have 'em lining up to meet you??? Whats up with THAT???

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Wed 03/04/09 07:01 PM
the brain bone's connected to the bone bone

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 03/04/09 07:08 PM
How important is intellectual compatibility in a relationship? Do most people look for mates that are of similar intelligence to themselves? It's not so much intellect, rather common sense.

Bushidobillyclub Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 5689	Wed 03/04/09 07:15 PM
Everyone thinks they are intelligent.

LadyHawkeByDay Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 54	Wed 03/04/09 07:19 PM
Everyone thinks they are intelligent. Ah...so true. Intellectual compatability is an absolute MUST for me. Mismatches lead to a breakdown in respect, and it's all downhill from there.

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Wed 03/04/09 07:20 PM
he MUST be able to hold an INTELLIGENT conversation... no fun talking to oneself well not most of the time, anyway!!!

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Thu 03/05/09 03:50 PM
How important is intellectual compatibility in a relationship? Almost as important as a good heart and good affections. Do most people look for mates that are of similar intelligence to themselves? That's a lost cause.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Thu 03/05/09 03:58 PM
Are you saying you don't like a woman who isn't as intelligent as you?

lovethelord Joined Sun 01/11/09 Posts: 1399	Thu 03/05/09 04:41 PM
How important is intellectual compatibility in a relationship? Do most people look for mates that are of similar intelligence to themselves? I think your drawn to people with the same interests so if intelligence is a big part of your life and you love learning you will most likely attract the same qualities. I have met people with further education than myself but the (fun and passion) is lacking and I have alot of that in me.... Passions and goals are important to me.. because without them we stop thriving.....

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Thu 03/05/09 04:46 PM
For some reason I have only dated morons, women with GEDs and stuff, I don't think I ever dated someone who had a college degree and I have a master's degree. I ponder that sometimes, is it me? Do I not care or do I attract losers?

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Thu 03/05/09 04:49 PM
For some reason I have only dated morons, women with GEDs and stuff, I don't think I ever dated someone who had a college degree and I have a master's degree. I ponder that sometimes, is it me? Do I not care or do I attract losers? I happen to be a high school dropout, almost entirely self-taught in my fields of specialty. While one could have a degree that implies intelligence, it's also evident in the results of one's work.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Thu 03/05/09 05:05 PM
Intellectual compatability is important to me to the point that a person is curious about a variety of things and while they might not be able to comprehend it all at least they are interested and trying to understand. Willing to expand what they know. Common sense is the most important thing to me.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 03/05/09 05:09 PM
For some reason I have only dated morons, women with GEDs and stuff, I don't think I ever dated someone who had a college degree and I have a master's degree. I ponder that sometimes, is it me? Do I not care or do I attract losers? I've dated women who dropped out of school early and women who had college degrees. The reality is that their education levels rarely, if ever, had anything to do with their intelligence -- at least, not as far as I could tell.