Topic: How many chances......
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Tue 01/06/09 07:45 PM
How many chances...... do you or have you given a cheater?

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Tue 01/06/09 07:47 PM
no chances

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Tue 01/06/09 07:47 PM
you can give a cheater a million chances, but in my opinion, you will only cheat yourself if you do. Because even if they never cheat again, you most likely will never trust again either.

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Tue 01/06/09 07:49 PM

you can give a cheater a million chances, but in my opinion, you will only cheat yourself if you do. Because even if they never cheat again, you most likely will never trust again either.
So have you ever been cheated on? If so how many chances did you give them?

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Tue 01/06/09 07:49 PM
I would say NONE

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Tue 01/06/09 07:50 PM

no chances
Not one chance....devil

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Tue 01/06/09 07:51 PM

I would say NONE
Not even if he gives you the Baby Please Speech....laugh

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Tue 01/06/09 07:53 PM
I have been cheated on and I gave him no chances after that!

However, during my marriage of 12 years my husband cheated (but not with a lover...long story but basically his "love" was focused elsewhere) I put up with being second for 12 years, the hardest part was when I was first in his life, I didnt trust that it was going to last so I would push him away...I never felt comfortable with him. It was bad for both of us.

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Tue 01/06/09 07:57 PM

I have been cheated on and I gave him no chances after that!

However, during my marriage of 12 years my husband cheated (but not with a lover...long story but basically his "love" was focused elsewhere) I put up with being second for 12 years, the hardest part was when I was first in his life, I didnt trust that it was going to last so I would push him away...I never felt comfortable with him. It was bad for both of us.
Some people would prefer their significant other physically cheat, then too fall in love with another....

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Tue 01/06/09 07:59 PM
12 years of married chances...so I cheated myself out of 12 years, I guess! frustrated

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Tue 01/06/09 08:00 PM

12 years of married chances...so I cheated myself out of 12 years, I guess! frustrated


exactly

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Tue 01/06/09 08:02 PM
Have I? Twice

Mistake? Absolutely!

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Tue 01/06/09 08:07 PM


12 years of married chances...so I cheated myself out of 12 years, I guess! frustrated


exactly


Won't do THAT again!

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Tue 01/06/09 08:10 PM

How many chances...... do you or have you given a cheater?


None. Time to move on once you've discovered that they cheated.