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Topic: confession....
keepthehope's photo
Mon 01/05/09 05:35 PM
It's good that you are able to keep your baby and get your education! I'm glad your family is so supportive.

baitshopbilly's photo
Mon 01/05/09 07:01 PM
good decision on keeping with it. Your lucky to have such a tight family. Don't lose faith in finding a true MAN.

My stepdad hooked up with my mom when I was a few months old, and my brother was maybe 2. He ended up marrying her and did a fine job of raising us.

I have a lot of respect for him for that.

I also have a lot of respect for my mom and stepdad(who I call dad) in allowing me to get to know my real dad too. Blood is important, and I learned a lot from that side of my family growing up.

Good luck in your search, I'm sure you'll be fine.:wink:

Lfer's photo
Mon 01/05/09 07:03 PM
thank you all : )

Citizen_Joe's photo
Mon 01/05/09 07:09 PM

its kinda sticking out, but not a whole lot lol


A good. That means it's about ready. Just a lil' more time in the oven. :wink:

luv2roknroll's photo
Mon 01/05/09 07:11 PM
Live your life babe...

dont trip on what anybody else says to you...

or thinks of your situation.

Live your life, you and your baby...

and be happy!

Im happy for you!flowerforyou

nurjoyce's photo
Mon 01/05/09 07:13 PM
i never judge anyone
good luck
if you need any help/questions answered r/t nursing let me know

njmom05's photo
Mon 01/05/09 07:13 PM
Edited by njmom05 on Mon 01/05/09 07:35 PM

i'll quote my mother,

"any guy can get a girl pregnant, but it takes a man to raise that baby."

i intend to find the right daddy for my little girl.

You are correct, my boss calls her son's father
"the sperm donor".
You are doing the right thing, having a great support system will help you through the rough spots. You go get 'em girl!
flowerforyou flowerforyou

livelife68's photo
Mon 01/05/09 07:17 PM

okay well heres the 411 on myself. i am 8 months pregnant by my ex-boyfriend who decided to immediately dump me after we both found out the news. BUT HOLD UP before you go and say "omg you slut how could you get pregnant at such a young age?!?!" well i'll have you all know that i did graduate with a full degree from my school and i am attending night school to become a registered nurse, yes it will take a while and yes i do intend to keep this baby. i've got a wonderful support system from my family and really thats all i need.


Your doing the right thing.

nothing but respect

congatulations flowerforyou

Lfer's photo
Mon 01/05/09 08:40 PM
:heart: thank you!!!

no photo
Mon 01/05/09 08:43 PM

i'll quote my mother,

"any guy can get a girl pregnant, but it takes a man to raise that baby."

i intend to find the right daddy for my little girl.


I heard it different
"Any man can be a father. But only the special ones get to be daddys"

sounds like you're on the right path. Just keep doin what your doin

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 01/05/09 08:47 PM
You know no matter what life throws our way we are only as strong as we want to be. There is nothing that anyone can not over come as long as they have the will to do so.

Never let anyone tell you that you can't do something in life.

This is only a mild bump in your journey ahead and believe me in the end it will all be worthwhile all the heartaches you may endure ahead. For when you get that first hug and a little one saying I love you mommy all the hardships no longer seem so bad after all.bigsmile

Good luck ahead within this journey called life.bigsmile flowerforyou

nvrsaynvr's photo
Mon 01/05/09 08:54 PM
You sound very mature for your age. I wish you and you baby the best of luck!!flowerforyou

MsCarmen's photo
Mon 01/05/09 08:56 PM
Don't let anyone judge you or belittle you for the situation you are in now, or for any other decisions you make in life. As long as you are doing what you think is best for you and the baby, then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

Congratulations and I wish you and your little girl all the best! flowerforyou flowerforyou

So have you picked out a name yet?

willaxtman's photo
Mon 01/05/09 09:03 PM
some people at the age of 30 still havent matured. at 18? sounds like your far more mature then many are. and it takes serious guts to post something like that. best luck to you on the baby and sorry your ex wasnt man enough to live up to his responsibility!!! im sure you will do just fine :smile:

Totage's photo
Mon 01/05/09 09:12 PM
Judge not lest ye be judged.

Lfer's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:19 AM

Don't let anyone judge you or belittle you for the situation you are in now, or for any other decisions you make in life. As long as you are doing what you think is best for you and the baby, then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

Congratulations and I wish you and your little girl all the best! flowerforyou flowerforyou

So have you picked out a name yet?


her name is Gabriella Michelle Fernandez.

Lfer's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:20 AM

some people at the age of 30 still havent matured. at 18? sounds like your far more mature then many are. and it takes serious guts to post something like that. best luck to you on the baby and sorry your ex wasnt man enough to live up to his responsibility!!! im sure you will do just fine :smile:


I know. And karma is a ***** of a woman and I say this because he is getting no rights to the baby what so ever. Because no child deserves a father like that, I should know, my dad is the same way.

MsCarmen's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:21 AM


Don't let anyone judge you or belittle you for the situation you are in now, or for any other decisions you make in life. As long as you are doing what you think is best for you and the baby, then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

Congratulations and I wish you and your little girl all the best! flowerforyou flowerforyou

So have you picked out a name yet?


her name is Gabriella Michelle Fernandez.


Aww, that's beautiful! flowerforyou

Lfer's photo
Tue 01/06/09 06:36 AM
thank you. I couldn't agree with you more!

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