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HELLO I QUIT DRINKING IN OCTOBER OF 08 AND I AM LOOKING FOR SOBER FRIENDS OR PEOPLE THAT DON'T DRINK TO MUCH. AND MAYBE A GIRLFRIEND. DON'T KNOW WHERE TO LOOK SINCE I AM OUT OF THE BAR SCENE DOES ANY ONE KNOW WHERE TO FIND FRIENDS OR A GIRLFRIEND
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Hey Dustin
<---Former Alcoholic here Been sober since Feb 07. All of my friends partied every night and I couldn't go out so naturally they all started to leave me behind. Its hard when you get sober and nobody else will. I suggest maybe finding a support group such as AA or some other sort. You will find many people in your situation who will understand and help keep you sober. |
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I'm sure you can find friends here!
Other then that, maybe try Church functions, coffee houses, maybe even see if they have singles functions where no alcohol is served. Good luck and congratulations! Keep up the good work! |
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HELLO I QUIT DRINKING IN OCTOBER OF 08 AND I AM LOOKING FOR SOBER FRIENDS OR PEOPLE THAT DON'T DRINK TO MUCH. AND MAYBE A GIRLFRIEND. DON'T KNOW WHERE TO LOOK SINCE I AM OUT OF THE BAR SCENE DOES ANY ONE KNOW WHERE TO FIND FRIENDS OR A GIRLFRIEND Your capslock key is stuck. There's a mingle AA group http://mingle2.com/topic/show/169040 you might feel at home with. Anything good is worth waiting for, and there is life without booze. It takes effort and patience and mostly a lack of complacency with respect to sobriety. It's no use to even start a relationship if your foothold on sobriety isn't sound, and you needn't sacrifice meetings for women. Meetings only take up an hour or so in a day, and the social aspect of the program helps too. |
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Good Luck to you!!
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HELLO I QUIT DRINKING IN OCTOBER OF 08 AND I AM LOOKING FOR SOBER FRIENDS OR PEOPLE THAT DON'T DRINK TO MUCH. AND MAYBE A GIRLFRIEND. DON'T KNOW WHERE TO LOOK SINCE I AM OUT OF THE BAR SCENE DOES ANY ONE KNOW WHERE TO FIND FRIENDS OR A GIRLFRIEND |
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Edited by
Mentork
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Mon 01/05/09 08:45 PM
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Lol, I've never had alcohol in my life...
You can find a girl who doesn't drink for sure... But it's hard to find one who doesn't drink, and also doesn't have kids. At least, around here it is. |
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Lol, I've never had alcohol in my life... You can find a girl who doesn't drink for sure... But it's hard to find one who doesn't drink, and also doesn't have kids. At least, around here it is. There's lots of women on this site who do not drink, and I don't see anywhere in his post that states he is looking for someone without kids. |
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HELLO I QUIT DRINKING IN OCTOBER OF 08 AND I AM LOOKING FOR SOBER FRIENDS OR PEOPLE THAT DON'T DRINK TO MUCH. AND MAYBE A GIRLFRIEND. DON'T KNOW WHERE TO LOOK SINCE I AM OUT OF THE BAR SCENE DOES ANY ONE KNOW WHERE TO FIND FRIENDS OR A GIRLFRIEND AA meetings perhaps? |
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HELLO I QUIT DRINKING IN OCTOBER OF 08 AND I AM LOOKING FOR SOBER FRIENDS OR PEOPLE THAT DON'T DRINK TO MUCH. AND MAYBE A GIRLFRIEND. DON'T KNOW WHERE TO LOOK SINCE I AM OUT OF THE BAR SCENE DOES ANY ONE KNOW WHERE TO FIND FRIENDS OR A GIRLFRIEND AA meetings perhaps? Friends, yes. Girlfriends, well, you're sure to find someone as sick as you are there. |
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Been there and done that. I suggest ppl at work. Especially if you have a professional job.
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Hey Dustin <---Former Alcoholic here Been sober since Feb 07. All of my friends partied every night and I couldn't go out so naturally they all started to leave me behind. Its hard when you get sober and nobody else will. I suggest maybe finding a support group such as AA or some other sort. You will find many people in your situation who will understand and help keep you sober. Heather, How did u manage to become "Former Alcoholic" by the age of 20? wow... when did u start!? |
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go to church find a nice church lady
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thanks ya'll Ill give aa a shot
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go to church find a nice church lady I am dating someone from church! |
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HELLO I QUIT DRINKING IN OCTOBER OF 08 AND I AM LOOKING FOR SOBER FRIENDS OR PEOPLE THAT DON'T DRINK TO MUCH. AND MAYBE A GIRLFRIEND. DON'T KNOW WHERE TO LOOK SINCE I AM OUT OF THE BAR SCENE DOES ANY ONE KNOW WHERE TO FIND FRIENDS OR A GIRLFRIEND |
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Church
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