I can’t seam to find a good spot to post this so I think I will just stick it in here.
We all have different issues in our lives; my son would have been 33 today. A lot of time has gone by and the grieve that I once felt has subsided, maybe because I never had a chance to get close to Dennis or it may be that I’m getting colder as I age. At any rate I know I’m not the same as I use to be. 33 years and I still have questions that will never be answered.

Sometimes words aren't enough....I will be still for you, listen with my heart and offer you a big ((((((HUG)))))) my friend. God be with you and hold you in his arms.

Any time you want to talk Tim. I lost my younger sister been really hard she died in 2002 just something you don't get over. She died May 1st.

((((((Carold)))))) Much love and hugs to you too! I lost a little brother but was too young to remember him, my mom never did get over the loss...she grieved til the day she died and joined him in Heaven.

She was 36 when she died she was so pretty funny loved playing cards with her. She is the one that got me online. Life has not been the same. She was my baby sister I always took care of her couldn't this time.

We never will understand why God choses to take so many wonderful people so young, but Carold...it was HIS choice and I believe there was nothing that you could of done to change that. You loved and cared for her as long as God allowed her to be on earth...you made a wonderful difference in her life I am sure, and for that, you made her life enriched. She was loved and cherished...not many people can say and feel that. By loving her, yes your life will never be the same...you knew her love too. Some people quickly come and go in our lives, others remain in our hearts forever and we are better for knowing them.

Very wise and heartfelt words Mary thank you. :)

Any time you need a shoulder...I will be there..just reach out...email any time, I'll give you my number!

Okay :) going to go lay down ate some oatmeal for dinner probably caught some bug when I was at the Dr office last week.

Good night sweetie...Take care! Hope tomorrow that you feel better!

Thankyou Mary you have a good night see yah tomorrow :)

my daughter was born on my birthday, and I lost her 28 years ago. No, I don't believe you get colder about it, it's something that thankfully gets easier to handle as time goes on. We don't ever forget but God lets us heal so we can handle the rest of life. Sometimes suddenly something reminds me, and a flash of grief flows over me, but for the most part I can now remember it and pick out the good things that makes me smile about her. Losing a child means we will never be the same, and I agree, there will always be questions that won't be answered while I am still on earth. Those will have to wait.

You gave her love, which is the most precious thing you can do for someone, and you shared with her which means now you have wonderful memories. Sadly, we who remain behind are the ones who do the greiving. huggggggssssss

((((((((SYN))))))))) You are in my prayers too!! Love ya!

Geesh...I think we all need a ((((((((((group hug)))))))))))) tonight!

Thanks sweetie!

we grieve for we miss them but they are in a better place.

The degree of caring, is directly to the degree we grieve.
Practice teaches us to handle grieving better, but we will ALWAYS have reaccurances down to the deepest levels. These accurances normally will be related to special days, special memories or occcurances. I get moody as those special days approach, I notice it but so far have not been able to not go there.

Maybe your expectations are too high.

over fifty ladies..DRESS LIKE YOU ARE 30 ACT LIKE YOU ARE 18 AND FLIRT LIKE YOU ARE A WORKING GIRL......If it feels good do it...you will always have a full dance card..........