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Topic: Something you don't understand
Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/05/09 11:25 AM
What is something you don't understand about the opposite gender? EVERYTHING???? maybe because you over analyze everything, relax! Its not over analyzing. Its called having a brain and using it to my full potential!!! You men should try it sometime!!! waste of time and energy, we save our brains for more important things, we dont sweat the small stuff

Suzanne20 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9261	Mon 01/05/09 11:29 AM
why is it not ok for men to be gay but its sexy for women? i am not saying women are not like that with men but why are we like that with each other?

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Mon 01/05/09 11:31 AM
and why can't they put the seat up after using it? how hard is that?

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Mon 01/05/09 11:34 AM
and when you ask "What's wrong?" and they say "nothing". THEN they get mad when you believe em

thinkingaboutit09 Joined Fri 01/02/09 Posts: 1370	Mon 01/05/09 11:36 AM
That why a guy who wants to get laid will listen to anyone, especially other guys, but not women or more specificlly the woman he wants to be with? maybe cause getting laid shouldnt come with a list of criteria like a to do list.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Mon 01/05/09 11:37 AM Edited by luv2roknroll on Mon 01/05/09 11:38 AM
Why one of them hasent swept me off my feet yet... and married me. Im not perfect... but lets face it... you could do worse!

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 01/05/09 11:38 AM Edited by Krimsa on Mon 01/05/09 11:38 AM
why is it not ok for men to be gay but its sexy for women? i am not saying women are not like that with men but why are we like that with each other? That is a cultural conditioning. Male Homosexuality is viewed as being evil and disgusting for some reason but women together is hot and sexy. Part of that is because women tend to embody sexuality. Culturally they represent it. Males do not.

thinkingaboutit09 Joined Fri 01/02/09 Posts: 1370	Mon 01/05/09 11:40 AM
Why one of them hasent swept me off my feet yet... and married me. Im not perfect... but lets face it... you could do worse! maybe cause there isnt a broom big enough?

DHinkle Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 2196	Mon 01/05/09 11:40 AM
What is something you don't understand about the opposite gender? the way they think through things, we are to the point, IMO they overthink things way to much, which starts to be counterproductive!!

thinkingaboutit09 Joined Fri 01/02/09 Posts: 1370	Mon 01/05/09 11:42 AM
why is it not ok for men to be gay but its sexy for women? i am not saying women are not like that with men but why are we like that with each other? That is a cultural conditioning. Male Homosexuality is viewed as being evil and disgusting for some reason but women together is hot and sexy. Part of that is because women tend to embody sexuality. Culturally they represent it. Males do not. Maybe cause its just gross and its not perception just gross!

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 01/05/09 11:44 AM
why is it not ok for men to be gay but its sexy for women? i am not saying women are not like that with men but why are we like that with each other? That is a cultural conditioning. Male Homosexuality is viewed as being evil and disgusting for some reason but women together is hot and sexy. Part of that is because women tend to embody sexuality. Culturally they represent it. Males do not. Maybe cause its just gross and its not perception just gross! Well that is your opinion. I was attempting to address her question with a legitimate response.

angelleyess Joined Sun 01/27/08 Posts: 224	Mon 01/05/09 11:53 AM
What is something you don't understand about the opposite gender? why do they cheat?

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 01/05/09 11:55 AM Edited by Krimsa on Mon 01/05/09 11:58 AM
why is it not ok for men to be gay but its sexy for women? i am not saying women are not like that with men but why are we like that with each other? That is a cultural conditioning. Male Homosexuality is viewed as being evil and disgusting for some reason but women together is hot and sexy. Part of that is because women tend to embody sexuality. Culturally they represent it. Males do not. Maybe cause its just gross and its not perception just gross! Well that is your opinion. I was attempting to address her question with a legitimate response. didnt mean to be rude and i was serious... i think somethings arent that complicated and simple answers can be right? women dont have to consider anal when it comes to homosexuality I realize you were trying to not be rude yet that response does come across as quite offensive. I would recommend you preface statements of that nature with a "I am of the opinion that" homosexuals are this and that. My answer was quite simple. Im not sure what you didn't understand but I will be happy to explain if that is required of me.

thinkingaboutit09 Joined Fri 01/02/09 Posts: 1370	Mon 01/05/09 11:56 AM
What is something you don't understand about the opposite gender? why do they cheat? i dont know why do women cheat?

thinkingaboutit09 Joined Fri 01/02/09 Posts: 1370	Mon 01/05/09 12:04 PM Edited by thinkingaboutit09 on Mon 01/05/09 12:08 PM
why is it not ok for men to be gay but its sexy for women? i am not saying women are not like that with men but why are we like that with each other? That is a cultural conditioning. Male Homosexuality is viewed as being evil and disgusting for some reason but women together is hot and sexy. Part of that is because women tend to embody sexuality. Culturally they represent it. Males do not. Maybe cause its just gross and its not perception just gross! Well that is your opinion. I was attempting to address her question with a legitimate response. didnt mean to be rude and i was serious... i think somethings arent that complicated and simple answers can be right? women dont have to consider anal when it comes to homosexuality I realize you were trying to not be rude yet that response does come across as quite offensive. I would recommend you preface statements of that nature with a "I am of the opinion of" homosexuals are this and that. My answer was quite simple. Im not sure what you didn't understand but I will be happy to explain if that is required of me. no i completely understand you i just think your wrong. they say gay men are born not cause of social upbringing why wouldnt that work in reverse? i was just born straight thats it! besides i never said gay men are anything i just said men period are unattractive to me and why would that be offensive?

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 01/05/09 12:08 PM
why is it not ok for men to be gay but its sexy for women? i am not saying women are not like that with men but why are we like that with each other? That is a cultural conditioning. Male Homosexuality is viewed as being evil and disgusting for some reason but women together is hot and sexy. Part of that is because women tend to embody sexuality. Culturally they represent it. Males do not. Maybe cause its just gross and its not perception just gross! Well that is your opinion. I was attempting to address her question with a legitimate response. didnt mean to be rude and i was serious... i think somethings arent that complicated and simple answers can be right? women dont have to consider anal when it comes to homosexuality and for some people swimmin in the pooper is just gross and thats about it. I realize you were trying to not be rude yet that response does come across as quite offensive. I would recommend you preface statements of that nature with a "I am of the opinion of" homosexuals are this and that. My answer was quite simple. Im not sure what you didn't understand but I will be happy to explain if that is required of me. no i completely understand you i just think your wrong. they say gay men are born not cause of social upbringing why wouldnt that work in reverse? i was just born straight thats it! If my statement is wrong, please explain in what respect. I was never addressing the issue of homosexuality being a learned or genetic response. I was speaking in terms of CULTURAL expectations and why male homosexuality is viewed as "evil" or repugnant and female is considered "sexy and attractive."

DHinkle Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 2196	Mon 01/05/09 12:15 PM
why is it not ok for men to be gay but its sexy for women? i am not saying women are not like that with men but why are we like that with each other? That is a cultural conditioning. Male Homosexuality is viewed as being evil and disgusting for some reason but women together is hot and sexy. Part of that is because women tend to embody sexuality. Culturally they represent it. Males do not. Maybe cause its just gross and its not perception just gross! Well that is your opinion. I was attempting to address her question with a legitimate response. didnt mean to be rude and i was serious... i think somethings arent that complicated and simple answers can be right? women dont have to consider anal when it comes to homosexuality and for some people swimmin in the pooper is just gross and thats about it. I realize you were trying to not be rude yet that response does come across as quite offensive. I would recommend you preface statements of that nature with a "I am of the opinion of" homosexuals are this and that. My answer was quite simple. Im not sure what you didn't understand but I will be happy to explain if that is required of me. no i completely understand you i just think your wrong. they say gay men are born not cause of social upbringing why wouldnt that work in reverse? i was just born straight thats it! If my statement is wrong, please explain in what respect. I was never addressing the issue of homosexuality being a learned or genetic response. I was speaking in terms of CULTURAL expectations and why male homosexuality is viewed as "evil" or repugnant and female is considered "sexy and attractive." what he says makes sense IMO, lesbians arent doing anal, and to a straight guy this may be found disgusting(anal), on the same token it may be found "hot" by a female, i dont look down on gays, its their decision, we all are who we are, but i also find the thought of what they do disgusting, but to them its natural, its all in how think about it

Alzeimer Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 2268	Mon 01/05/09 12:19 PM
Why one of them hasent swept me off my feet yet... and married me. Im not perfect... but lets face it... you could do worse! Sometimes it's just how you sing it. Since I've been loving you (Led Zeppelin) I want to know what love is (Foreigner) Tease me please me (Scorpions) Nothing else matters (Metalica) Be my lover (Alice Cooper)

thinkingaboutit09 Joined Fri 01/02/09 Posts: 1370	Mon 01/05/09 12:20 PM Edited by thinkingaboutit09 on Mon 01/05/09 12:22 PM
why is it not ok for men to be gay but its sexy for women? i am not saying women are not like that with men but why are we like that with each other? That is a cultural conditioning. Male Homosexuality is viewed as being evil and disgusting for some reason but women together is hot and sexy. Part of that is because women tend to embody sexuality. Culturally they represent it. Males do not. Maybe cause its just gross and its not perception just gross! Well that is your opinion. I was attempting to address her question with a legitimate response. didnt mean to be rude and i was serious... i think somethings arent that complicated and simple answers can be right? women dont have to consider anal when it comes to homosexuality and for some people swimmin in the pooper is just gross and thats about it. I realize you were trying to not be rude yet that response does come across as quite offensive. I would recommend you preface statements of that nature with a "I am of the opinion of" homosexuals are this and that. My answer was quite simple. Im not sure what you didn't understand but I will be happy to explain if that is required of me. no i completely understand you i just think your wrong. they say gay men are born not cause of social upbringing why wouldnt that work in reverse? i was just born straight thats it! If my statement is wrong, please explain in what respect. I was never addressing the issue of homosexuality being a learned or genetic response. I was speaking in terms of CULTURAL expectations and why male homosexuality is viewed as "evil" or repugnant and female is considered "sexy and attractive." sorry im pissing you off im not trying too im just being consise thats all. I never said you are wrong i said "I think you are wrong" its just my opinion thats it! I think you are wrong cause i dont beleive people choose these things whats hot is hot and whats not is not. i wish i could figure out why pretty feet is sexy to me but i cant it just is thats it! Or why a woman with man hands throws me for a loop and the list goes on hell i dont know but it wasnt cause i watched "leave it to beaver" trust me.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Mon 01/05/09 12:26 PM
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