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Krimsa
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Mon 01/05/09 12:30 PM
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why is it not ok for men to be gay but its sexy for women? i am not saying women are not like that with men but why are we like that with each other? That is a cultural conditioning. Male Homosexuality is viewed as being evil and disgusting for some reason but women together is hot and sexy. Part of that is because women tend to embody sexuality. Culturally they represent it. Males do not. Maybe cause its just gross and its not perception just gross! Well that is your opinion. I was attempting to address her question with a legitimate response. I realize you were trying to not be rude yet that response does come across as quite offensive. I would recommend you preface statements of that nature with a "I am of the opinion of" homosexuals are this and that. My answer was quite simple. Im not sure what you didn't understand but I will be happy to explain if that is required of me. 
If my statement is wrong, please explain in what respect. I was never addressing the issue of homosexuality being a learned or genetic response. I was speaking in terms of CULTURAL expectations and why male homosexuality is viewed as "evil" or repugnant and female is considered "sexy and attractive." I am not "pissed off" in the slightest. You seem to feel that my statement is invalid in some respect. That would be your opinion yet you offer no evidence to counter what I have presented. You are simply saying, "I think you are wrong." That does not invalidate my statment. You have yet to make a concise point thus far and are all over the map.. You are bringing up subject matter never even addressed in my initial post. Its obvious that you are uncomfortable with homosexuals, however, that is your PERSONAL opinion of them. People "choose" what is considered sexually appealing based on cultural standards. I take it you have never traveled at all? In another country, what we consider "sexy or attractive" in the United States might be totally rejected and replaced by something entirely different. There are certain universal attributes that a male or female might possess that are considered "attractive" yet tastes vary dramatically throughout the world. You have a foot fetish. That is your PERSONAL SEXUAL FETISH. Another man might love breasts. And still another legs so on and so forth. |
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Why they never know where anything in the house is! Don't they live there too??!!
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okay i think your really wrong now! your first statement was just a statement as was mine what makes yours better than mine? are you saying that some professor did his thesis on your statement? well if someone did excuse me but its still a therory. as for different countries acctually i was in the military and travel in my job now so your wrong ive been around. the different country thing doesnt prove anything people in mexico are usally brown if i go there will i turn brown? again i never said your statement was invalid your reading into too much. i said I "I" is the key word think you are wrong maybe your right i just dont think so. and look up the definition of consise you will find the meaning. and now you got to throw in that im a bigot cause im not attracted to gay men. guess what i think straight men are gross too. so throw out the gay part im just a bigot against men. i agree with you on the cultural thing but that still does not not prove its not genetic! sorry im not as smart as you ill try and cross reference and source my opinion from now on so im on the same level okay?
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**Okay, let's get back on topic please**
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get a room!
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sorry all! i wont bite again, promise!
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while driving with my boyfriend I wonder what he is thinking about...if asked he says nothing or just enjoying being with you. Jeff Foxworthy answered that on on national tv. "Men are really thinking: I'd like a beer and I'd like to see something naked" 
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Why they have 10 billion bottles, creams, lotions, and ointments for their face.... but their #1 concern is the size of their ass....
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you win! women always win! i need to figure out where they learn physycologcal judo!
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you win! women always win! i need to figure out where they learn physycologcal judo! Well its commonly referred to as college but... 
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you win! women always win! i need to figure out where they learn physycologcal judo! Well its commonly referred to as college but...
damn it i missed that course! lol |
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you win! women always win! i need to figure out where they learn physycologcal judo! Nobody won. There was alot of noise in here as a result, however. This looks more like a personal nerve got struck and well, it's out there now. I really didn't pay too much attention to the content from either side. |
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Why they keep tossing me in the friend zone
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Why they can take a car apart and put it back together, but they can't find the 'on' button on the vacuum.
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How someone can change their minds that many times in one day about a single thing!
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How they haven't figured out that "Does this make my butt look big" is rarely about our butts, and actually translates into...
Notice me!!! Do I look pretty? Do you still find me attractive? Do you still love me? Am I prettier than ALL the other girls!
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See previous post.......
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See previous post....... 
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I don't really understand PMS is it real? or is it just a secret excuse to go nuckin futz every 29 or so days? It's their excuse to listen to the radio every day. W.P.M.S. Every month, we play three weeks of blues followed by one week of ragtime |
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 What is something you don't understand about the opposite gender?
I don't understand why some women need more than 3 pairs of shoes 
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