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Topic: Would you choose a relationship over your family?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 01/03/09 08:20 PM
Would you choose a relationship over your family?

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Sat 01/03/09 08:21 PM
nope, never

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Sat 01/03/09 08:23 PM
No way.

BlondePCM Joined Tue 07/29/08 Posts: 2	Sat 01/03/09 08:24 PM
My daughter comes first. I have many times thought I may need to be alone until she is grown because so many men my age dont want small children.

Troublemaker7 Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 326	Sat 01/03/09 08:24 PM
That really depends. There could be a ton of different scenarios where my answer would change. What if they are bigots or prejudiced in some way? My family is very, very important to me, but I can't see myself not being with someone I love because of them.

jenson08 Joined Sat 01/03/09 Posts: 5	Sat 01/03/09 08:25 PM
depends

redneck29 Joined Tue 12/23/08 Posts: 321	Sat 01/03/09 08:26 PM
I did for 9 years. once the ex left I found out how much I had missed. It will never happen with the next person

lnghntr Joined Sun 08/03/08 Posts: 1618	Sat 01/03/09 08:27 PM
noooooo

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 01/03/09 08:27 PM
My daughter comes first. I have many times thought I may need to be alone until she is grown because so many men my age dont want small children.

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Sat 01/03/09 08:32 PM
That really depends. There could be a ton of different scenarios where my answer would change. What if they are bigots or prejudiced in some way? My family is very, very important to me, but I can't see myself not being with someone I love because of them. That's how it was with my room mate. She's from Germany and her fiance's family are the "All-Around-American-Family". They gave her trouble from time to time because she wasn't born in America. Kind of stupid. But now, I think they have lightened up since she will be in the family soon.

Melaschasm Joined Wed 12/10/08 Posts: 262	Sat 01/03/09 11:18 PM
I can't imagine being with someone who my family would reject so completely that I would have to choose between them. If my significant other can't accept my family, then she can't accept me. I am lucky to have such a tolerant family, and I can understand how some people could be put in a situation where they had to make such a choice.

alisha07 Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 4265	Sat 01/03/09 11:19 PM
nope, never

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 01/04/09 07:08 AM
Any relationship that makes me happy (and isn't clearly destructive) would make my kids happy for me so I can't imagine being in a relationship where I'd have to choose. As for others in my family...that's a story for another time

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