Yes, because to find someone who loves you for who you are, means to love everything about you. Unforutnately most people love what they see in themselves, and since it is harder to get a long with someone who is exactly like you then it is to get along with someone different from you, finding someone to love you and accept you for who you really are is very hard. But like was said, you change, they change, and thats what love is, willing to make changes and sacrifices for someone else.
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Why is honesty so hard?
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It'll be alright, the best thing you can do is what you're heart tells you, and if thats to get to the bottom of this because it really bothers you, then you should, no fear, but if it dosnt, and you can live with just a suspicion, then I say diminish it and carry on.
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 11
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Why is honesty so hard?
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The thing about honesty is that some people view it as a strength or a weakness. By being honest about the less than favorable things they are doing, they are admitting to a weakness of theirs, an addiction that has been tried and failed to break. By lying, they not only keep their weakness hidden, they present a sense of dominance in the fact that they can lie to you and truly believe that you believe them.
For some poeple, lying is an addiction, and its not one many can break, they will lie about the smallest of things not realizing how much it can damage. Truth however is also scary, because it leads to the dissapointment felt by the other. In a way, lying is just postponing, or possibly getting rid of, dissapointment felt by you. It isn't right, but a person's natural instinct is to avoid being dissapointed in, because no matter who you are, it hurts. So in a sick sense, lying is a logical choice. |
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