Being 30, I wouldn't think you'd want to piss away your time talking online, when you can simply meet and see what the chemistry is like and go from there.

You're now the 5th or 6th guy telling me I am wasting my time here....soon....you guys will convince me you're right.
I just signed up for connectingsingles....I'm hoping there are more men of confidence there.

(apologizing in advance......)

WHY?????? What happens after 30????? Is she supposed to be unworthy of finding a suitable man after a certain age???

I thought I found my 'one and only' while I was in my 20's only to be divorced by 30. I spent my 30's finding myself and raising my girls....oh wait....is that what you meant? At 30 she will be too old to have children? Many women are waiting to have children at an older age, nothing wrong with that.

But, back to my story....I found the man who makes my life complete at age 40.....Don't give up Bananaramaa. Much luck to you in your search!!

Dude. Try reading her OP and her profile. She is afraid she is old at 30.

I'm sure she doesn't want to become a spinster.

Oh ya .. we all get the same lines hon. It's called the





((((((((((( INTERNET )))))))))))

I assumed as much...didn't think they only said those lines to me. ... ....I don't mind the lines I was just hoping for more.... substance? In real life you don't get the luxury of walking around with your profile hanging around your neck...on the internet you do. I'm surprised more men don't use their profile to increase their chances.

The flattery doesn't bother men...I'm flattered. The men who keep telling me I shouldn't be here.... implying this place is just for the down trodden.....is what surprises me.

((((((Eileena)))))) is a lady

Did you notice that they haven't been here long?

Mingling, talking, discovering, opening up are all things that should be done in real life, but life is fast now and people want the same fast life in relation so you meet in a bar or other social place you don't always choose who you talk to and when you do to often everything as to be learned and talked about in that first date people don't want to waste to many nights on who might not be right person so they press to know all right away.

With Internet dating you have the option who to talk to or not and who to know better or ignore, you can take your time really talk and if you really hit it off then you meet.

So welcome have fun meet friends interesting people and hopefully the love of your life.

DUDE!!!! Read the profile........I'm a WOMAN!!!!