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Edited by
OhioHunter85
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Fri 01/02/09 09:28 PM
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Triple play!
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could just be an opening line... marriage proposal coming soon |
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I've gotten the same crappy doodle lines, too. And, I'm not as cute as you!! And then there are the ones who all they have to say is "you're so beautiful". Okay, and then what? It's all in the eye of the beholder, anyway, so .... where's the beef? quote..."you're beautiful" seems to be the favorite email line. I haven't answer any emails yet because I don't yet know what to say. I was hoping for more depth in the mens profiles and messages but it's not to be. My profile doesn't have much depth either but I just got here and that will change soon. The second favorite line is something along the lines of ...you are too pretty to be here.... I hate that one...what do I say? Yes I am....goodbye? No I am not...I'm ugly? I guess I shouldn't complain....it will just take some getting use to. |
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like I said
if your real you will do fine |
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could just be an opening line... marriage proposal coming soon |
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Sooo....why are you here? I'm waiting for you to message me, sailor. If a girl contacts me, I like our intial conversation. I'll talk to her a couple of times and then meet up. I'm not about to talk to a girl on here for months on end then meet up to find out she is 48 and 300 pounds when she said she was 27 and 120. |
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I've gotten the same crappy doodle lines, too. And, I'm not as cute as you!! And then there are the ones who all they have to say is "you're so beautiful". Okay, and then what? It's all in the eye of the beholder, anyway, so .... where's the beef? quote..."you're beautiful" seems to be the favorite email line. I haven't answer any emails yet because I don't yet know what to say. I was hoping for more depth in the mens profiles and messages but it's not to be. My profile doesn't have much depth either but I just got here and that will change soon. The second favorite line is something along the lines of ...you are too pretty to be here.... I hate that one...what do I say? Yes I am....goodbye? No I am not...I'm ugly? I guess I shouldn't complain....it will just take some getting use to. |
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I agree a dating site, in theory, is a convienant way of meeting someone. The problem is, people often misrepresent themselves online. Why invest countless hours talking to someone online, only to meet and they either: a) don't look like their pictures b) find out there is no chemistry c) find out that they lie about who they are and what they are all about Being 30, I wouldn't think you'd want to piss away your time talking online, when you can simply meet and see what the chemistry is like and go from there. You're now the 5th or 6th guy telling me I am wasting my time here....soon....you guys will convince me you're right. I just signed up for connectingsingles....I'm hoping there are more men of confidence there. |
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I think it's okay too - in the hustle and bustle of todays world it's hard to get out.. ;-)
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Sooo....why are you here? I'm waiting for you to message me, sailor. If a girl contacts me, I like our intial conversation. I'll talk to her a couple of times and then meet up. I'm not about to talk to a girl on here for months on end then meet up to find out she is 48 and 300 pounds when she said she was 27 and 120. |
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OK,,IT NOT YOUR BEAUTY they want!!!
Its that damn players shirt your wearing,,,,,lol |
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Edited by
OrangeCat
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Fri 01/02/09 09:33 PM
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I still say nothing special
but only my opionion |
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I agree a dating site, in theory, is a convienant way of meeting someone. The problem is, people often misrepresent themselves online. Why invest countless hours talking to someone online, only to meet and they either: a) don't look like their pictures b) find out there is no chemistry c) find out that they lie about who they are and what they are all about Being 30, I wouldn't think you'd want to piss away your time talking online, when you can simply meet and see what the chemistry is like and go from there. You're now the 5th or 6th guy telling me I am wasting my time here....soon....you guys will convince me you're right. I just signed up for connectingsingles....I'm hoping there are more men of confidence there. |
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Why do some think dating sites are for those who can't get dates elsewhere? I've just arrived on planet mingle and already....in my emails and in the new members introduction post I made....men are implying I shouldn't be here because I'm pretty (okay...I appreciate the complements...). I see plenty of other good looking people so others must feel as I do.....a dating site is just another avenue for finding someone...it's not necessarily better or worse. For those who asked ........... My reasoning for trying this place out is I thought I could converse with a gentleman for weeks....and really get to know him some before I went on a date with him. This is a luxury I don't have in real life. I don't work around men so when I do meet a guy it's in a club or bookstore and they don't want to chat for weeks before a date. I'm tired of going on first and second dates with men just to find out if we have anything in common. I'm not the spring filly I once was and constantly auditioning different men gets tiring. Oh great. Someone who is actually complaining about GETTING dates?? Somehow, I seem to have missed something...lol |
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Sooo....why are you here? I'm waiting for you to message me, sailor. Fantabulous! |
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Oh ya .. we all get the same lines hon. It's called the
((((((((((( INTERNET ))))))))))) |
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Mingling, talking, discovering, opening up are all things that should be done in real life, but life is fast now and people want the same fast life in relation so you meet in a bar or other social place you don't always choose who you talk to and when you do to often everything as to be learned and talked about in that first date people don't want to waste to many nights on who might not be right person so they press to know all right away.
With Internet dating you have the option who to talk to or not and who to know better or ignore, you can take your time really talk and if you really hit it off then you meet. So welcome have fun meet friends interesting people and hopefully the love of your life. |
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I agree a dating site, in theory, is a convienant way of meeting someone. The problem is, people often misrepresent themselves online. Why invest countless hours talking to someone online, only to meet and they either: a) don't look like their pictures b) find out there is no chemistry c) find out that they lie about who they are and what they are all about Being 30, I wouldn't think you'd want to piss away your time talking online, when you can simply meet and see what the chemistry is like and go from there. You're now the 5th or 6th guy telling me I am wasting my time here....soon....you guys will convince me you're right. I just signed up for connectingsingles....I'm hoping there are more men of confidence there. Wasting your time??? Hardly. After reading your profile, it would seem to me that you shouldn't have too much trouble finding someone that might be a possible " match " for you. Hell...if you weren't several hundred miles from me, I'd give it a shot. |
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like I said if your real you will do fine That's true. |
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