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If you were getting serious with someone and decided to take the next step of moving in together, how would you handle it if both of you owned your own home? Would you sell your home or expect them to sell theirs?
What if both of you had children? Would that make the decision of moving even more complicated and how would you decide? |
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When I move out of my home, it'll go to my parents - that's been decided already regardless of if I find a man or not
![]() Children does complicate most things in life and this would be no different. Much thought, planning and discussion would go into it before hand. There would also be a trial period in which we all stayed together to make sure it was workable ![]() |
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well first figure out who is moving in with whom
and then expecially if we both have kids dont sell your place maybe rent it out if you own it, a little extra income coming in will help and that way if things dont work out you can give notice to the renters that you will be needing to move back in and when , |
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Getting into a relationship and holding onto your exit strategy is like trying to get into a boat and leaving one foot on the dock. It doesn't work very well.
If you aren't ready to burn your bridges behind you, maybe you should have some second thoughts about the relationship. |
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Getting into a relationship and holding onto your exit strategy is like trying to get into a boat and leaving one foot on the dock. It doesn't work very well. If you aren't ready to burn your bridges behind you, maybe you should have some second thoughts about the relationship. Yeah, but that's easier said then done. What if you have only owned your home for just a short time, not to mention all the hard work you put into being able to get it and keep it? Plus, uprooting the children is a pretty big deal, so how would come to an agreement on who makes the sacrifice? |
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Getting into a relationship and holding onto your exit strategy is like trying to get into a boat and leaving one foot on the dock. It doesn't work very well. If you aren't ready to burn your bridges behind you, maybe you should have some second thoughts about the relationship. Yeah, but that's easier said then done. What if you have only owned your home for just a short time, not to mention all the hard work you put into being able to get it and keep it? Plus, uprooting the children is a pretty big deal, so how would come to an agreement on who makes the sacrifice? I would think that's something you should be discussing with the person you're moving in with. Only the two of you can answer that. |
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Lighter fluid and matchs work wonders
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Lighter fluid and matchs work wonders ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Relationships really suck. If you only want a tentative relationship, no big deal. If you are looking for one that will last the rest of your life, you don't do it with only one hand.
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Relationships really suck. If you only want a tentative relationship, no big deal. If you are looking for one that will last the rest of your life, you don't do it with only one hand. I agree with you on that statement!!! ![]() That's why I'm not in one! ![]() |
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Sigh. Me neither. Those slippery fckers will slip away even when you are using both hands. ;-)
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If you were getting serious with someone and decided to take the next step of moving in together, how would you handle it if both of you owned your own home? Would you sell your home or expect them to sell theirs? What if both of you had children? Would that make the decision of moving even more complicated and how would you decide? usually you move into the bigger of the two houses. but that's just me. if both families can't fit into either house, you both sell(or rent, i dont care) and find a bigger house. |
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well first figure out who is moving in with whom and then expecially if we both have kids dont sell your place maybe rent it out if you own it, a little extra income coming in will help and that way if things dont work out you can give notice to the renters that you will be needing to move back in and when , hit the nail on the head. ;p thats exactly right. |
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