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It seems to me that some people would rather grow old alone and be surrounded with "stuff." Hey, if that's your thing it's all good, but stuff doesn't fill my soul. If a woman is willing to be my partner and is a decent, honest, and loving soul I couldn't care less if she does not have the proverbial pot to piss in Damn, you hit the nail on the head for me.  
Kitten you know I am not selfish & money loving, but I have been out on the street because I trusted someone & I have worked too hard & sacrificed too much to risk losing what little I have to a lying user. When someone has to have live a lifestyle way beyond their income it's a red flag. When you are "going out" it dosn't matter & you are right, it's none of my business, but when you start thinking about moving in you have to discuss money. I have learned the hard way & I am too old to start over again. I'd rather be single & secure than part of a homeless, hungry couple & the truth is, when it gets to that point most couples split up anyway. I see where you are coming from. But you don't HAVE to have finances together. It can all be seperate. In the end, we are dead and it doesn't matter anymore anyhow. It isn't easy to keep things so clear cut Hon. when you live together someone has to pay the bills. If you come home & find out the electricity has been cut off & 2 weeks worth of groceries are spoiling because he spent the bill money on pool night,a fight is brewing. It's a sad fact that money is important. Just look how emotional these 2 threads got. If you ignore it & find out you have very different ideas about fiscal responsabilities there is eventually going to be trouble. |
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It seems to me that some people would rather grow old alone and be surrounded with "stuff." Hey, if that's your thing it's all good, but stuff doesn't fill my soul. If a woman is willing to be my partner and is a decent, honest, and loving soul I couldn't care less if she does not have the proverbial pot to piss in glad 2 c there r a few true folk's here.kitten is rt u hit the nail on the head
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It seems to me that some people would rather grow old alone and be surrounded with "stuff." Hey, if that's your thing it's all good, but stuff doesn't fill my soul. If a woman is willing to be my partner and is a decent, honest, and loving soul I couldn't care less if she does not have the proverbial pot to piss in glad 2 c there r a few true folk's here.kitten is rt u hit the nail on the head
 
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Mind their own damn business? These days you have to have your credit report to go out on a damn date? Give me a break. Get real people and get your head out of your ass! You had a guy demand to see your credit report ? |
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To place value upon a person based upon their financial well being is so wrong. True wealth is not measured in dollars, it is measured in the quality of the person. JMO
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Really, when's the last time you went to a "soup kitchen" lookin' for someone? I betcha could pick and choose just about anyone.
Do you want someone without income? Hustle? Job? Future? Financial Goals if not Freedom? Down on their luck? Fine. Just down? 'fraid not. |
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Really, when's the last time you went to a "soup kitchen" lookin' for someone? I betcha could pick and choose just about anyone. Do you want someone without income? Hustle? Job? Future? Financial Goals if not Freedom? Down on their luck? Fine. Just down? 'fraid not.
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Really, when's the last time you went to a "soup kitchen" lookin' for someone? I betcha could pick and choose just about anyone. Do you want someone without income? Hustle? Job? Future? Financial Goals if not Freedom? Down on their luck? Fine. Just down? 'fraid not. Pathetic, yes? |
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Really, when's the last time you went to a "soup kitchen" lookin' for someone? I betcha could pick and choose just about anyone. Do you want someone without income? Hustle? Job? Future? Financial Goals if not Freedom? Down on their luck? Fine. Just down? 'fraid not. Pathetic, yes? Pathetic is some harsh wording. I don't consider myself a rescuer at all, but I certainly enjoy helping my partner achieve all she can. |
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Edited by
angelindarkness
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Thu 01/01/09 09:08 PM
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When one ASSUMES something, they only make an A$$ out of....
Pathetic is in assuming you know everything there is to know about someone or a situation based solely on forum posts. Obviously, your insults and attacks on others stem from something hitting a personal chord in you. Dependency issues much, my dear? Poverty and personal irresponsibility is a b!tch, isn't it. Opportunism is not attractive in a male; even LESS so in a female. You've outed yourself pretty well. cheers and good night. Sleep tight. Don't let those nasty bedbugs bite. |
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When one ASSUMES something, they only make an A$$ out of.... Pathetic is in assuming you know everything there is to know about someone or a situation based solely on forum posts. Obviously, your insults and attacks on others have hit a personal chord in you. Dependency issues much, my dear? Poverty and personal irresponsibility is a b!tch, isn't it. Opportunism is not attractive in a male; even LESS so in a female. You've outed yourself pretty well. cheers and good night. Sleep tight. Don't let those nasty bedbugs bite. I dont know who your talking to, but it seems to me that YOU are the one with the issues. *shrugs* I could care less if someone thinks less of me because of my stupid credit report (by which can be fixed *roll eyes*). If I dropped dead right now, it wouldn't matter anyhow. It's not YOUR concern of my finacial debts, nor is it anyone elses. I'm sorry that you have a problem with it. But you probably need to get over it. |
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Really, when's the last time you went to a "soup kitchen" lookin' for someone? I betcha could pick and choose just about anyone. Do you want someone without income? Hustle? Job? Future? Financial Goals if not Freedom? Down on their luck? Fine. Just down? 'fraid not. Pathetic, yes? Pathetic is some harsh wording. I don't consider myself a rescuer at all, but I certainly enjoy helping my partner achieve all she can. |
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Edited by
evilpoetess
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Thu 01/01/09 09:11 PM
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When one ASSUMES something, they only make an A$$ out of.... Pathetic is in assuming you know everything there is to know about someone or a situation based solely on forum posts. Obviously, your insults and attacks on others stem from something hitting a personal chord in you. Dependency issues much, my dear? Poverty and personal irresponsibility is a b!tch, isn't it. Opportunism is not attractive in a male; even LESS so in a female. You've outed yourself pretty well. cheers and good night. Sleep tight. Don't let those nasty bedbugs bite. I don't recall making any references to you at all. If you feel that I did, I apologize. |
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I am glad I started this thread. Weed out some people.
 
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I am glad I started this thread. Weed out some people.
 Something that needed to be done
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I am glad I started this thread. Weed out some people.
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Edited by
hellkitten54
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Thu 01/01/09 09:16 PM
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I am glad I started this thread. Weed out some people.
Something that needed to be done
It shows peoples true feelings. And sometimes it's UGLY. More ugly than a dogs a-hole. |
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I am glad I started this thread. Weed out some people.
Whatever I can do to get people to be themselves, I'm all over it!
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did you seek her out at a soup kitchen? I don't have a partner right now, but probably worse than a soup kitchen, I might meet her on a website ;) |
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did you seek her out at a soup kitchen? I don't have a partner right now, but probably worse than a soup kitchen, I might meet her on a website ;) 
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