You are very likely to receive a direct answer here. The people on online dating sites are on those sites because they can't seem to get it right in an encounter.

If we are in the bar, and you ask me a question, which I answer directly and straight, you WILL stop the encounter.

This is because you will feel that I am being boring. I am a direct kind of guy, I have a very little luck with ladies.

Does this mean we are all losers here? Nope. Quite the opposite. Did you know that until 1913, a lady would stop the encounter if she received indirect answer? This is because she was looking for a mister right, mister real.

Today, she sits there and filters guys out, she is waiting for the mister fake. A smart guy then will answer with a put-down, so that she is satisfied, she so wanted to be screwed.

Whys is she looking for a mister fake then? Reality is boring. Reality is for survival. Fun is instant when it is fake. Fake is fun.

As long as we live in fun times, this will not change. All of you women out there, you all have had bad experiences. Did you know that most guys didn't? Yes, we are guilty of searching for the physical contact all too often, before we even bother to think of love. But we rarely are having bad experience. (Not to say that the nightmare spouses do not exist). Ladies, on the other hand, are screwed because they only want assholes. They do their best to meet the assholes.
They get hurt by assholes. They move on,... to another asshole.

And so, if I do answer your question directly, you wouldn't think I am an asshole. Then there will be no reason for you to continue the encounter. Non-assholes are not fun. There is no game in absence of risk.

Nope!

Whoa! Heavy man...

Well young lady I guess it all comes down to if the one answering the question was straight or not?

yep

"Yes"........Buttface.







.......Ehem......Sorry ....Had to

Isn't that rather a stereotypical question? Or have I missed something here?

From what little I have seen, there seems to be just a few people here that are always negative and putting people down in discussions. As often happens in face to face interactions, the people putting others down tend to get noticed the most, while those who are polite fade into the background noise.

The best advice I can give to those who always notice the jerks, and never see the kind, compassionate people around them, is to look past the loud attention grabbing jerks and see the wonderful people that you normally do not notice.

Yep! I f I get a straight Q?

Yes

No.

Yes.

Have disagreed with some. But have not put them down for their opinions.