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Topic: What's more life changing ?
freeonthree Joined Tue 06/19/07 Posts: 2407	Wed 12/31/08 01:03 AM Edited by freeonthree on Wed 12/31/08 01:06 AM
Are you saying that true love can die, because I don't know if I believe that. I think true love is unconditional. Your mainly concerned with the other persons happiness, so if they left to be with someone else, you would be happy for them, especially if the other person had a brighter future, therefore making their life better.

keepthehope Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 4263	Wed 12/31/08 01:10 AM
Are you saying that true love can die, because I don't know if I believe that. I think true love is unconditional. Your mainly concerned with the other persons happiness, so if they left to be with someone else, you would be happy for them, especially if the other person had a brighter future, therefore making their life better. But even true love can die if it is not fed by the other person. You can love someone even though they may not love you.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Wed 12/31/08 01:21 AM
I think both Either way your life changes "In" can put a smile on your face "Out" can make you cry Changes will happen

dallaschase Joined Mon 12/15/08 Posts: 346	Wed 12/31/08 01:48 AM
women are the deciding judge of both.......haha_Chase! for real its true!

dallaschase Joined Mon 12/15/08 Posts: 346	Wed 12/31/08 01:49 AM
women are the deciding judge of both.......haha_Chase! for real its true! soooo which ever one they make easier on ya!-:)

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Wed 12/31/08 04:40 AM
women are the deciding judge of both.......haha_Chase! for real its true! soooo which ever one they make easier on ya!-:) Sounds like you don't like women very much; or have a very high opinion of them.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 12/31/08 09:52 PM
women are the deciding judge of both.......haha_Chase! for real its true! soooo which ever one they make easier on ya!-:) Sounds like you don't like women very much; or have a very high opinion of them. Sounds that way to me too.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 04/12/09 08:51 AM
I think both Either way your life changes "In" can put a smile on your face "Out" can make you cry Changes will happen

Haley1243 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 7716	Sun 04/12/09 08:53 AM
Out, because it takes a lot to make me get to that point, and that usually involves a lot of pain. Agreed!

LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Sun 04/12/09 08:56 AM
What's more life changing..falling "in" love or falling "out" of love? Out... When I'm in a loving relationship, a new 'entity' develops. No longer just a 'You' and 'Me'...there is an 'Us'. When love is gone, there is a 'death' of sorts. Nothing more life-changing than death in my book

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 04/12/09 10:17 AM
Out, because it takes a lot to make me get to that point, and that usually involves a lot of pain. Agreed!

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Sun 04/12/09 10:25 AM
Any one consider divorce as part of the equation? That will change you.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 04/12/09 11:19 AM
What's more life changing..falling "in" love or falling "out" of love? Out... When I'm in a loving relationship, a new 'entity' develops. No longer just a 'You' and 'Me'...there is an 'Us'. When love is gone, there is a 'death' of sorts. Nothing more life-changing than death in my book

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sun 04/12/09 11:28 AM
Don't know, first time through. So far the "in love" part is pretty nice, I'd hate to figure out what "falling out" would be like.

nikita5 Joined Tue 03/24/09 Posts: 2410	Sun 04/12/09 11:31 AM
What's more life changing..falling "in" love or falling "out" of love? I would have to say "out" if it was serious and your lives were entangled financially as well as personally, sometimes you have to start completely over.Finding a new place to live and starting from scratch is definitely life changing.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Sun 04/12/09 11:33 AM
it's not the falling that hurts you it's the sudden stop at the end

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 04/12/09 11:36 AM
At this point in my life, it's probably falling IN love... That would mean intentionally "letting go" and taking the risk of having to pick up the pieces if it's doesn't work out. I know what that feels like...and don't really want to do that part again. Thus, the extra caution and the vice-like grip on the edge of the cliff.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Sun 04/12/09 11:39 AM
life is changing everyday if you can find someone who you can enjoys all of that with you then thats love I do agree that when love ends its like a death and when love falling in love its a new beginning

Meg8771 Joined Fri 01/16/09 Posts: 5662	Sun 04/12/09 11:40 AM
I would much rather have a GOOD life change (falling In love) than a BAD one (falling out of love). So I think the falling out of love would be more life changing for me. But - if he is "the one", then I would never fall out of love. So that would be more life changing. Ok - I'll stop now, I have confused myself.....

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Sun 04/12/09 11:54 AM
What's more life changing..falling "in" love or falling "out" of love? Neither. If your life hinges on whether you fall in or out of love, well... then you probably need to re-evaluate things.